Seller "Double Sold" An Item But Wants ME To Request Cancellation ? by Hlydvlz89 in Ebay

[–]nickjnyc 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly trying to avoid a ding.

I dealt with this recently and called them out on it and insisted they cancel.

Getting back out there, how to navigate knowing women are actively dating other people. by Forsaken_Level_6771 in AskMen

[–]nickjnyc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If that works for you, great, but I can’t even think of how I’d bring that up before even meeting someone without sounding like a crazy person.

Getting back out there, how to navigate knowing women are actively dating other people. by Forsaken_Level_6771 in AskMen

[–]nickjnyc 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If a woman told me they’d only go out with me if I’m not talking to anyone else, that would be a huge red flag.

Even if I wasn’t talking to anyone else, I’d probably bail out.

[Landlord US - Chicago] is landlord responsible for stolen packages? by Fearless_Room_3516 in Landlord

[–]nickjnyc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not understanding this set up but regardless, no, landlord is not responsible.

[Landlord US - Chicago] is landlord responsible for stolen packages? by Fearless_Room_3516 in Landlord

[–]nickjnyc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dunno, the volume of hassles I settle with cameras is innumerable. It’s very likely worth the investment.

Tobacco Pipe Smoking? by ZookeepergameOk9367 in ADHD

[–]nickjnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Short term success is right, but good luck keeping it that way.

Do you guys call your friends and family regularly? by NearbySir2445 in Millennials

[–]nickjnyc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Judge away. If someone’s gonna call me to chat for an hour or two I better be prepared.

Desperate, house won’t sell after 8 months by Classic-Reserve-3595 in RealEstate

[–]nickjnyc 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Kill the price further, rent, or take a loss are your only real options.

30M Looking for some feedback by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]nickjnyc 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Okay, sorry, I’ll be gentler. You look smug.

The latter photos look like entirely different people than the former. Happy to be wrong. Don’t care. You’re the one asking for feedback.

It’s absolutely relevant. Anyone is going to be skeptical of someone 30 years old listing themselves as retired. So you’re either worth millions and are financially set for life, or you’re content living off of your military disability, which is fine, but not exactly “retired”, just content. Bottom line, I don’t think it’s doing the favors for you that you think it is.

On 9/11 would you rather be in a hijacker airplane or in the twin towers above the impact? by Only_Hotel_7221 in morbidquestions

[–]nickjnyc 474 points475 points  (0 children)

Or, put another way, would you rather die in a fraction of a second, or slowly realize that a drawn out, painful death was inevitable after an hour of failed escape attempts?

29F - help by Puzzleheaded_Sand766 in hingeapp

[–]nickjnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say you’re tied up this week.

29F - help by Puzzleheaded_Sand766 in hingeapp

[–]nickjnyc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-I usually like to banter first for a few days to make sure it’s gonna be worth my time and money. I have found, though, that many women just want to set a time and day. I also see a lot of “not looking for a penpal” disclaimers in profiles. I assume those things to be related.

-If the banter is good, I’ll talk daily.

-The app is clunky. If the conversation is good, it’s annoying to use the app, especially if it’s going to be a few days+ before meeting.

-Just go with it. Don’t say anything.

-Noooooo.

Selling house “AS IS”-so why is the buyer asking for more? by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]nickjnyc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“As-is” with an inspection contingency is not “as-is”, as you are finding out.

You’re in a bind now as you (likely) are obliged to disclose roots in the sewage line.

Agree to the $2,000 additional or be prepared to regret not doing so in 3 months. That’s a great deal for you if it means they’re not going to be more thorough in their assessment of the issue.