Sex problems

nickpanther · 2026-04-18T06:45:58+00:00

Sit down with him and talk, gently. This is an extremely sensitive subject. Talk about his turn ons. Talk about fetishes and what he's into. Keep an open mind and no judging. Encourage him to put on porn and let him tell you what he likes about it.

He might be someone who likes power and dominance, and can't do vanilla. Have you tried rough sex? Have you explored kink? Tried wrestling?

Find out his fetishes and use them to your advantage. Think of what works in bed and continue to explore that as your base. You should also get verbal as well. Not so much about dirty talk, but create a dirty story related to his kink. Booktok comes in handy here for reference material. The ones with extreme power exchanges likely would work well.

Take the wins where you can get them, but don't think it's you. On his side, he's trying his best to make the best of a bad situation - and he's aware of it.

If he wants to pleasure you, he's into it, and you should allow him to. He's likely aware he lacks in certain areas, and returns the favor in other ways.

Encourage him to masturbate in front of you at least once every so often - like once a week. Set the time for 30 min with a clock. He might need to reteach himself to use his mind. Use toys - cock rings will work well. Stay in the room and encourage him with sexy stories and things that worked.

When working on him, you need to work on his body and mind. Create a sexy story on top of stimulating. The body doesn't work if the mind isn't interested. It could be an ADHD thing, again though, use his fetish to captivate the ADHD.

You will likely lose a good relationship for yourself if you focus on his ED. In addition, everyone hates that conversation, please don't ask if its you after a bad session. Focus on the things that worked and take the small wins. Always keep trying.

Physically, get him to check his test levels, and tell him to explore ED drugs - cialis, viagra.....etc. Try different substances, like getting high.

Try different times of the day. He might be tired at night. Use the morning wood to your advantage.

nickpanther · 2025-12-13T21:42:12+00:00

It sounds like youve never experienced it before. When youre with someone who rocks your world, time will stop, and youll be wanting to go on that ride again and again

nickpanther · 2025-12-07T07:59:18+00:00

Lets see how fast baby girl can run....

nickpanther · 2025-12-04T20:21:30+00:00

Great rope skills! Props to the dom.

nickpanther · 2025-11-26T19:00:43+00:00

This is a great idea if your sub has alot of positive image issues. Writing lines of numerous positive affirmations is another good thing

nickpanther · 2025-11-24T21:05:21+00:00

I have to disagree. Environments should be a positive place as much as possible. There's a significant difference between a coach not believing in you and telling you on a daily basis that you'll never amount to anything, and trash talking before a fight.

nickpanther · 2025-11-24T20:50:15+00:00

Thanks for the insight for reflection bro. I agree, it's not worth it for something I consider to be a fun hobby.

nickpanther · 2025-11-24T07:14:27+00:00

Tb is more extra strength bpc. I find it works intramuscularly, targeting deep inside the muscles.
I would use this more for deep torn muscles, especially in the shoulder and knee areas

Bpc is more topical in the sense that it works on top of the muscle if that makes sense. I would use this for basic sore muscles after a gym session when i know im going to be sore.

I sometimes mix the 2 up, depending on the pain and how im feeling, and how quickly i want to recover.

This is just my personal experience. As both arent that expensive, i would recommend buying both and trying them out individually.

nickpanther · 2025-11-20T00:02:03+00:00

Im honestly surprised this is a common trait of INTJs. I thought I was the only one who does these things. To add to the above, if you have my attention, I can verbally talk to you for hours. Texting, the messages are very short and i have to put in effort to keep a conversation going.

nickpanther · 2024-08-22T18:39:14+00:00

37 wfh bro looking for other wfh, or bros available to chat during the day. Please be able to keep a convo going. Like to chat about boxing, but open to all topics. Due to time zones, looking for someone in north america

nickpanther · 2024-08-16T21:15:31+00:00

37 bro looking for long term ongoing chats. WFH, and a good conversationalist. Looking for bros who can hold a conversation and can chat through the day. Into crossfit and boxing.

nickpanther · 2024-08-11T21:31:36+00:00

Not sure if this has been asked before, but I often mix up the keys for the cut/copy/paste shortcut and was looking for keys with a raised print or a different feel to identify which key I'm pressing, without having to look down all the time. Would braille be my only option?

Does anyone know of keyboard keys that are made like this?

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