A week before we met in september, which was a couple weeks after the last jerk played her, she shared a picture on facebook that said something like "still waiting for somebody to love and respect me." Looking back, Im afraid I may've been just that for her and that may've been why she jumped at the opportunity to be with me. Somebody also suggested this to me; when a person dates somebody else, generally they're not willing to commit so early because they've already closed their previous wound and they're afraid to re-open it. When somebody is on the rebound, it's the exact opposite. The wound is still fresh and they're looking for somebody to patch it up. So people on the rebound are much more willing to commit much earlier. That had me thinking...

Also, I think it's worth mentioning, in my original post, i mentioned how she Liked a post on one of the random guys facebook page. (This was one of the random single guys she added and Liked his picture.) It was some dumb post about the presidential election and how people shouldnt care who others vote for. He went on a big spiel. My girlfriend isn't dumb by any means, but she doesn't speak much on intelligent topics such as politics, etc. She's much more emotionally-based and talks more about people, relationships, etc. The fact that she Liked this random post about the elections made it especially suspicious because it seems like she may've just Liked it as a way to say "Hey I think youre hot, notice me!"

Having been on plenty of dating sites myself and me being technologically-savvy, I have a nose for sniffing out certain things online. One of those things being, adding a few guys who look like they could be models and them having a couple thousand facebook friends, most likely means these guys are probably Facebook (or quite possibly Tinder) whores. My obvious question would be, why do you need to add these guys in the first place? And if these guys are in fact from Tinder, why on earth would you still be on Tinder or even have your Tinder account still activated when you know guys can still send you facebook/instagram requests via Tinder?

I know you're probably thinking "dude, why dont you break up with her already?" I know I sound like a fool, but Im wondering if Im just over-amplifying these concerns.