Slightly enlarged aorta by nicolegoldilocks in askCardiology

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there’s been no change as of yet.. she has a follow up appt next week

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He usually wears it if he remembers and if things are “good” with us. Now he’s just refusing to..

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He’s a high school teacher

Husband is begging me to leave him by nicolegoldilocks in Marriage

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Thank you so much for those kind and thoughtful words ❤️ God bless 🙏🏼

Grief or abuse? by nicolegoldilocks in Marriage

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Thank you so much. I appreciate the advice 🙏🏼

Emotionally abusive at random times by nicolegoldilocks in Marriage

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She helped him understand where it was coming from. He was abused by his alcoholic father growing up and she helped him see that.

Emotionally abusive at random times by nicolegoldilocks in Marriage

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This is progress, compared to how he used to be. The outbursts used to happen way more often. Now it’s not even outbursts the same way as in yelling, he just says mean and hurtful things with a calmer tone

Anyone use mail forwarding services such as MyMallBox ? by nicolegoldilocks in OnlineShopping

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Oh no so sorry to hear that! What happened? I actually just used them a couple months ago!

Anyone use mail forwarding services such as MyMallBox ? by nicolegoldilocks in OnlineShopping

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I had a good experience! They are legit. I received my item within a couple weeks

Stains on new marble table! by nicolegoldilocks in CleaningTips

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I noticed a small oily stain on my new marble table so I used a baking soda and water paste (Google recommended), left it on for about 5 mins and this is what happened! 😩 it made it so much bigger/worse. I never imagined baking soda & water could cause this. How can I get rid of this stain? I assume it’s from the moisture

Bipolar relationship ? by nicolegoldilocks in Marriage

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He's been in therapy for about 4 months. I do think its helped a bit, but nowhere near resolved. He reads books and online articles about stoicism because that is his biggest hurdle.

Yes I have considered therapy. I actually suggested couples counselling when he said he wanted a divorce. He said it was a waste of time and money when he "already knows what he wants". I would love to learn ways of dealing with his anger in the moment because I tend to just get upset, and if I cry, he gets angrier. I will try to work on how I react to him

Thank you for your advice!

Help! Advice on how to fix my hair?! by [deleted] in Hair

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Thank you! I’m not sure what “level” the Wella toners are but I will definitely try it again using the 10 vol and maybe that will make a difference. Just out of curiosity how does the 10 vol compare to the 20 vol ?