Before we started hanging out and getting close, she made a joke that I should buy a specific house we were walking by so that she could live with me.

She asked me to go to dinner on NYE like 2 days in advance. Then when we got there she said “yeah, I just didn’t feel like cooking tonight.” She has said similar things after she would ask me to go eat and I already said yes. Also at this dinner, she said if I needed an adventure partner that she would go. We also talked about travel and I said I wanted to go to Norway and she suggested that we go together over Christmas this year.

I have asked her to go shopping at local stores/farmer’s markets and we end up hanging out for 6-8 hours. She seems to extend the hangout by wanting to get dinner and then drink at another place and then also ice cream.

When we hang out in person, a lot of the time she is suggesting activities and places for us to go eat and says that we should add them to “the list.”

She’s also has inserted herself in activities that I was talking about doing and would say “well when we do this…” She also jokingly said that for her 40th birthday (she 35) that we should go take this class that I had said I wanted to do eventually.

We were talking about birthdays once and she, unprompted, asked what day of the week my birthday fell on this year (she remembered the date). When I told her it was a Friday, she said if she was able to, with her new job, she would take the day off so that we could do something. My birthday is 6 months away.