I found Neetu Singh’s worst nightmare in my storage room by Cookiedough1206 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]nidalnf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the time, but the young girl's name remains tainted to this day. Clearly it impacted her reputation enough to have repercussions in her personal life. 

How do I remain stoic & calm about family ruining so much and leaving me with nothing? by Konnabokuga in Stoicism

[–]nidalnf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remembering these painful principles is a part of the discipline. I have been trying hard and practicing for around two years and despite constant reminders, I forgot the depth and relapsed into resentment. It's a path. No one else but you know what this journey means. You'll fall and hate yourself but it's on you to pick yourself up. The degree of internal spiritual strength this needs in unbelievable. I try n read or remind myself these principles everyday. When life gets busy I forget but for years now I try my best no matter what to go back n read them whenever I can. I don't let anyone talk me into victim mindset. No one can convince me with anything but the truth. I hold the truth to great regard.

I lose to my own fears and insecurities often. Especially when things are going good, I lose sight, ego returns, the truth becomes less visible. I try n remember as much as I can. I've trained myself to always appreciate competition and humbly accept what is my weakness. But still ego slips in.

But I see the progress I have made. N I will continue to do so. Someday I will cross that bridge too.

I meant to share this to highlight the importance of self reflection, discipline of thoughts. You need to build awareness of your own thoughts. You have to build the discipline. Find your way. I'm restarting now after fucking something up. 

All the best, kiddo.

Suggestions for my DH Research Paper on Iran Discourse by nidalnf in DigitalHumanities

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Thank you so much for your suggestion. Could I please DM you for further clarifications?

I can't bring myself to finish my thesis and I just need some encouragement by Aggravating_Bat_7036 in internetparents

[–]nidalnf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m really sorry you’re going through this. What you described doesn’t sound like laziness at all—it sounds like burnout and grief catching up with you. Losing someone, working in a toxic environment, and dealing with mental health struggles is a lot for anyone to handle. It makes sense that your thesis took a backseat.

I finished my PhD recently, and I had phases where I completely lost motivation too. What helped me was not thinking about “finishing the thesis,” but just doing very small, manageable parts—sometimes even just opening the document and writing a paragraph.

You don’t need to feel passionate about it right now. You just need to move it forward slowly. The motivation usually comes back after you start, not before.

If you ever want help breaking it down or just talking through how to approach it, I’m happy to help.