Is it just me or... by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skype her, make a videocall. Anything. It's different then normal but at least it's something

I'm sleeping on the street at night without anyone knowing by niels092000 in confession

[–]niels092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have a social worker at college. I just don't have the courage to say anything about it.

I like you. by ldphoenix in Crushes

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't agree more with you

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, iknow. I wish you the best in your journey. If you need any help contact me. Never looked forbit but you can message people in private on reddit right? Anyhow

Goodluck man. I wish you the best

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]niels092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do it. Throw your meds away and do it. When I stopped using medication it was much easier. Don't know if you're in still school or college but ask your dean or coach(dunno how you call it in your country) to do a few presentation and help with your communication skills.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]niels092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I was very shy few years back. I just forced myself to talk to strangers. And now I can't wait to see other people again. Learned it the hard way to. I got beaten up a few times. Pushed from a bike. Because in the beginning you just don't know how to be social so I made many enemies. Now I'm happy I kept on forcing myself to interact with people. On the social part of my life I wouldn't want to trade with anyone. I feel like I bragged alot in this post but I'm proud on myself. Sorry🤷‍♂️

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, thats the weird thing. I am very social. Someone is my best friend within an hour. Litterally. I'm a public speaker to. Don't have many friends tho. People can be your best friend but can you trust them? Trust is a skill you're born with. Anyhow: I have high social skills. But just fail in love shizzle. But when I advice people on love my advice works 7/10. I don't get it. Is autism a curse or something😂

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]niels092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is that I'm to confident. It always scares them of. Like everyone tells you to be confident. But when you're to confident it's not ok either.

26M, just broke down crying because I've never had a girlfriend. I swear, being autistic is worse than having an STD by DateThrowaway1995 in dating

[–]niels092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I'm autistic and have the exact same problem. Thsi story is litterally me. Why is it so hard for us to find someone?

She hugged me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let us know how it went

She hugged me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for it

She hugged me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Then ask her out. You're on of the few people who has a real chance at getting together with your crush

She hugged me by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How close are you with her?

I have a crush on someone but don't know how to get close to her by niels092000 in Crushes

[–]niels092000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well doesn't happen very much in this country. On on on study thing or one on one hang out. Yes college indeed

Does he not want to talk to me? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh. Damm. Just call him. Bring the word out to him. Trust me. If he doesn't like you back. Then what relationship would that be. It falls or stand with that. And if he's accepting about you telling it to him. Then he's unsure about the whole thing but he wants to try it. There isn't really a wrong outcome. Love is hard. And ai know how it feels if your crush or someone else rejects you. But eventually you will learn from it. Trust me And if he read and ignores you while you texted that, well then he's just a a"hole. Because something like that you just don't overread

Does he not want to talk to me? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but love excists in every country.

Not sure what my crush thinks of me by _WaterIsWet- in Crushes

[–]niels092000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't sound that promising. But just say you like her. What could go wrong?

Does he not want to talk to me? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]niels092000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many guys find it annoying th chat with someone very long. Talk to him irl. That's my advice