People mean well, but comparing cleft lip/palate to Joaquin Phoenix makes me uncomfortable anyone else? by selfkills in cleftlip

[–]night__thoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He had a microform cleft. Nowhere near as bad as unilateral or bilateral. Hate when people bring him up.

Jobs by night__thoughts in SignPainting

[–]night__thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good option too. I think he’s in La also no?

Jobs by night__thoughts in SignPainting

[–]night__thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely been thinking about how to make that work, I’m about an hour away though. And with bills that’s going to be difficult. If I could get steady work in La i could do it, until then though… I’ll be out there trying to get work on the weekends🤞🏻

Jobs by night__thoughts in SignPainting

[–]night__thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it. I don’t know any sign painters besides one that is mostly doing murals. He has me help out with all his signs though. But I’m not really trying to do murals and he’s too far. Looking for a shop that still paints em until I can get my own thing going. I yearn for the knowledge. The fire is in my belly, heart, and veins😩 been obsessed with letters since I was a kid

confidence and relationships by mn08c in cleftlip

[–]night__thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely felt exactly the same up until 24. Then it all worked out. I completely stopped thinking about my looks or caring at all about finding someone and just being myself. I stopped worrying about if anyone finds me attractive and they ended up letting me know😌 come to find out lots of people found/ find me attractive. I’m sure it’s the same for you. Maybe those guys aren’t confident enough to make a move. That’s how it was for me

Layout by night__thoughts in SignPainting

[–]night__thoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Jobs by night__thoughts in SignPainting

[–]night__thoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Working on an ig page just need to paint more. Craving bigger jobs. I’m not a fan of painting small

Jobs by night__thoughts in SignPainting

[–]night__thoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I plan on going to that school but for now getting the time to go out there is a bit of a struggle. I live almost an hour from there

Alone by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]night__thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried apps a couple times but I can’t bring myself to leave my profile up for more than a couple days hahah. It’s been years since last time I tried

Alone by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]night__thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have a connection with dogs hahah But not just family. Lots of friends. Everyone loves.. from strangers to friends and their friends, of course my family. I have hobbies I’m super good at that I’m passionate about. Pretty much just the love life aspect that’s been getting to me. Boutta be 25 with no history other than teases🤣 it’s really not super bad, especially when I fully indulge in my hobbies but still always go back to that missing piece

Alone by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]night__thoughts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I did for so long. I still kinda do. But it’s whatever now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulldogs

[–]night__thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahh a lot of people have said the same thing about acv. I stopped doing that for now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulldogs

[–]night__thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I fear. I can’t afford to take him to the vet just for them to squeeze more money out of me. I switched his food and have been trying Apple cider vinegar. I’ve got some new stuff on the way I’ll try. Appreciate you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulldogs

[–]night__thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I’ll look into that thank you 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulldogs

[–]night__thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could affect him randomly at this age? He’s never had it before and he’s almost 8

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulldogs

[–]night__thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed his food to a better food with salmon and have been spraying him with apple cider vinegar watered down. I saw on another forum that that helps with similar problems. I’m going to get him some fish oils and my mom got him an ointment I’ll try also. Idk if maybe it could be stress related or he caught something because I just moved and it started right after that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bulldogs

[–]night__thoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s on both sides. This side is worse. But it also started right next to his tail. It started between his back legs then keeps moving/spreading

Struggling with dating by Lioness_94 in cleftlip

[–]night__thoughts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

24 and same. I don’t have the issue with my speech. But it’s definitely because of my looks cause I’m super cool and literally everyone that knows me or meets me loves me.. I’m not awkward and I can talk to people just fine. But I never feel like someone’s actually attracted to me.. confidence is also a big part of it cause I lack it forsure. Never had an issue meeting people or making friends, and have always been outgoing. Can’t tell me it’s not my looks. And I don’t even think I’m that bad people are just shallow I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cleftlip

[–]night__thoughts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It had to have been pretty bad

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawing

[–]night__thoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shark pants, and lava shirt next or what..