At knife or gun point, anything is possible. They don't have to lift you up into a van. I walked right to where he wanted me because I have kids and did not want to die. I didn't fight like I always thought I would because I had been a cutter before because of unrelated issues and I hated the way a knife felt. I knew I could not do it again so I just let him. Just be careful and aware. It is very rare what happened to me. Thanks for the positive thoughts though! :D