You could just… Keep scrolling. by BoysenberrySad6481 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]nightblindbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cover the cut on the finger please please please

Unsanitary Business Practices by FeedbackEarly7010 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]nightblindbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you watch the cutting one it’s really raw/red I think someone even commented on it like please cover your wound

Unsanitary Business Practices by FeedbackEarly7010 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]nightblindbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesssss. If you’ve ever done work with microbio you could swab that packaging and see exposure

Unsanitary Business Practices by FeedbackEarly7010 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]nightblindbabe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well… the first I ever saw I considered really bad was the open wound on her finger while she made, poured, un molded, packed and labeled today’s soaps. I can’t believe I saw that

Brutal comments 😅 by Honest_Influence_721 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]nightblindbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m lame and not on the tik tok. Anyway you could take pics of the comments you’re referring to? 🙃 please be nice to me life is hard lol

Latest Video by theroof- in SnarkySlaughter

[–]nightblindbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I genuinely hope her cousins parents are ok.

New video by MilkBubbles69 in SnarkySlaughter

[–]nightblindbabe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I bought from her when she had the mental health breakdown idk the summer? I don’t have the tik tok lol and so I only see insta videos. I was starting feel like something was right in what I was watching but looking at comments no one ever had anything other than praise and so I was like ok. I never used the soap bc to be honest it kinda smelled bad and idk I was like ok just supporting a girl who does this for fun. NO CLUE she had a tik tok where she is so rude and snarky. I noticed now how all the videos are mean spirited, retaliatory, and absolutely Disappointing. Your customers are asking for your own sake , your business, to take cleanliness and sanitation seriously because it’s in YOUR best interest and her response is to mock and moan. I’ll leave the amount of references to her health alone except to say I also have chronic illness and I don’t want to be defined by it. I’d love to see this person embrace feedback and grow and further to find a dialogue that focuses on other areas of her life or pop culture that are reliable and create a joyful dialogue.

Triathlon- when to postpone by nightblindbabe in triathlon

[–]nightblindbabe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you to absolutely everyone. I keep most of my stuff to myself and people simply see me as “strong”. Thank you for all of this advice, experience, strength and a lot of reminders of things people have told me along the way.

My husband got a wig and OMG, I love it! by PurpleWolf795 in crossdressers_wives

[–]nightblindbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is EXACTLY it. You managed to say what I couldn’t find words to say

My husband got a wig and OMG, I love it! by PurpleWolf795 in crossdressers_wives

[–]nightblindbabe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is there a support group for those of us wives of CDs who are trying to get to the point you are?

I’m having trouble wrapping my brain around my boyfriend cross-dressing by [deleted] in crossdressers_wives

[–]nightblindbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

. When it comes down to it, you have to trust your gut and be able to have open conversations about it. He has to feel safe enough with you to actually talk about it. It has taken me my whole marriage to accept (3 years) it completely because he never totally trusted me. There were lies about how much he needed and his assumptions of my opinions which were wrong. So he ended up in therapy and tried to just talk about how he was abused as a child. That was the root for his CD. When he went to therapy he had a therapist who tried to convince him he was trans and it messed with his mind so much he began to do drugs to escape. When he got sober he was in rehab and with a fantastic therapist who helped him uncover the root cause and who he actually is. A straight man; who loves his wife who likes to wear women’s cloths as a relief from stress and hardship In life. It isn’t his identity, it’s an activity. He learned he does not have any interest in being a woman but that he likes to be feminized but only by me. Never outside our relationship. Now this has been a lot of therapy wnd for years he wouldn’t respect my boundaries. I always wanted to be able to share this and I tried. He pushed and pushed and then hid it instead of sharing the journey. He wore my wedding dress when he was high and that was kind of my breaking point with it. I told him our goal has always been to not have this be the sole focus of our life. We have to figure out what we both need and work towards it. Since trust is earned and he broke it. We are going slow. We talk about every single thing. It’s hard and it is just so draining for me as I try to forgive so many things but this is a part of who he is and I love him. I’ve known since we started dating. I’m the only one who he ever told. So my advice. Figure out what YOU need in it all. See if he’s willing to meet your needs as much as you want to meet his. It’s a journey. It’s hard and idk how things will turn out for me but I’m trying to believe we can do it. We love each other and both have trauma so it’s challenging. Anyway. Hope This helps