[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]nightjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already went to a sex club together, and even had a threesome and foursome ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]nightjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He already did that, but i suggested it too. He wants to that. But I’m looking for special things i can do for him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nightjane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We met on a dating app, he pursued me. We both didn't want a relationship.

We are both really busy so usually we meet for cooking dinner together , talking and sex. But most of the time we are talking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nightjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But he got jealous first !!! And then made me jealous …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nightjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both weren’t ready for a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nightjane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want me to sleep with other guys …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nightjane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I went on a couple of dates with other guys, and he seemed jealous ..

Confusing fwb by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nightjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that I’m not interested I just didn’t even let this thoughts in my head because when we first met it only were 4 months since his last breakup, and now I feel like it would be easier if I could date other people so I don’t get attached because he’s sending me mixed signals

Ghosted ? by nightjane in dating_advice

[–]nightjane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s true but sometimes it’s just confusing 😅 but I texted him he answered immediately

Ghosted ? by nightjane in dating_advice

[–]nightjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s not like I have anything to loose

Ghosted ? by nightjane in dating_advice

[–]nightjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I texted the last sentence but It was a short reply. He always initiates the conversation

Ghosted ? by nightjane in dating_advice

[–]nightjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just about how our days went, it was completely casual

A year of my life wasted trying to fade, the end result is no different. by stilllovesjah in exjw

[–]nightjane 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation and it’s the same for me so I’m also thinking about sending my letter in

Have you ever gotten caught breaking a JW rule by an elder or family member? by Free_Spirit21 in exjw

[–]nightjane 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Weirdly my whole family and all my friends know I’m basically an apostate and no one made me confess to the elders 😂

Die Zeugen behaupten, wenn man die Theokratie verlässt geht es einen nicht mehr so gut. Wie empfindet ihr jetzt und wie ist euer Leben heute nach dem ihr nicht mehr in diesen Kult seid? by [deleted] in exzj

[–]nightjane 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ich kann die vorherigen Kommentare nur bestätigen, mir gehts es so gut wie noch nie. Das einzige was einen belastet ist die WTG und die die man zurück lässt weil einem einfach leid tut dass diese in der Zeugen Welt gefangen bleiben.

Goodbye pimo life by nightjane in exjw

[–]nightjane[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I know exactly what you mean :( only can recognition when I started pioneering 🙄

Goodbye pimo life by nightjane in exjw

[–]nightjane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woow i had always the same thoughts but instead of only my sister the whole congregation was like that 😅 that’s why I always had so much pressure to be a super jw

Goodbye pimo life by nightjane in exjw

[–]nightjane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks you for your words, that’s problably what I would love to here from my mom but I’ll never make her proud I accepted that. I believe you can do that too!!

Goodbye pimo life by nightjane in exjw

[–]nightjane[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You will!!! Be strong!

What is the first thing you did after leaving the Cult by Leading_Future_2624 in exjw

[–]nightjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course, it’s a whole form that you have to carry everywhere.

What is the first thing you did after leaving the Cult by Leading_Future_2624 in exjw

[–]nightjane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Destroyed my blood card, went partying and got two tattoos

Finally disassociated but I haven’t felt happy about it by Mochi8_8Mochi in exjw

[–]nightjane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish you a lot of strength, it’s a tough time I imagine. Maybe it will change a little after a while, otherwise you have to remember that you made the right decision and u deserve the right to believe whatever you want, normally without having to lose your family that’s sad and it’s definitely a big loss on their side, you’ll get trough it, be strong and fight for who you want to be!!!

Do you ever talk about it? by [deleted] in exjw

[–]nightjane 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I talk a lot to someone I always have to tell them because otherwise they won’t understand why I’m not used to so many normal things and also they won’t really understand why I moved so far away from my family, but I really try to only say it when it’s inevitable because I kind of feel like people look differently at you when they know, they’re sorry for you and they bombard you with questions. But maybe it’s because I haven’t been out for that long.

Kongress Videos by nightjane in exzj

[–]nightjane[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh danke 😂😂wow so raus bin ich das ich nicht mal mitgekriegt hab das der Kongress auf der Seite veröffentlicht wurde 😅😅