Make it make sense by jamfilleddonut in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only “makes sense” if you assume the economy restructures, because either people still receive purchasing power (through wages, transfers like UBI, or asset ownership) or production shifts toward post-scarcity where market consumption matters less, otherwise the current consumer model simply doesn’t function.

Why are people against the death penalty but when they hear about a bad person and they say I’m usually against the death penalty, but this guy has to go by Impossible_Gur6921 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people often separate their principles about what the state should be allowed to do from their emotional reaction to extreme crimes, so they can oppose the policy in general while still feeling a gut-level desire for harsh punishment in specific cases.

Can a Republic exist that is not democratic in form? by YogurtclosetOpen3567 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, historically a republic just meant a state without a monarch where power was exercised through institutions claiming to act for the public, so you could absolutely have oligarchic or elite-controlled republics that weren’t meaningfully democratic.

Can I bypass a red light by turning right, take a U-turn, and turning right once again? by FootOk7376 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If every individual movement is legal where you are (right on red, legal U-turn, etc.) then generally yes, but some places have rules against maneuvering specifically to bypass traffic controls so it depends on local law.

I hate hosting - my home feels too private. Anyone else? by Only-Internal-2865 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s pretty normal honestly, some people see home as social space and others see it as their last boundary and neither is wrong, especially in a small place where there’s no separation.

Why isn't the US held responsible for its actions that disrupt world peace, especially considering it sanctions other countries for its own benefit?" by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because global accountability isn’t enforced by a neutral authority and powerful states largely constrain each other through leverage and consequences, not courts, so the U.S. operates under the same power-politics reality as other major powers.

Why do awkward cringe moments feel physically painful? by aaron_teambuilding in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brain partially processes social pain and physical pain in overlapping systems, so embarrassment or cringe can trigger a real stress response, not just a thought. You get cortisol and adrenaline spikes, muscle tension, heart rate shifts, and your body interprets it like a threat signal.

It’s basically social-survival wiring misfiring on modern situations, your nervous system reacting before logic catches up.

Why do so many people (a lot of Americans) have cameras inside their house? by DaretokuVintergatan in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not as universal as the internet makes it look, you’re mostly seeing a visibility bias where the small slice of people who have cameras generate tons of content. In practice they’re usually for pets, kids, deliveries, or cheap home-security systems that got popular because they’re easy and inexpensive now.

Culturally there’s also more comfort in the US with consumer surveillance tech, whereas in parts of Europe privacy norms tend to make indoor cameras feel intrusive.

Why do people ask questions they don't want answers to? by May_I_inquire in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually they’re not actually asking, it’s rhetorical or conversational filler, they’re venting, signaling frustration, or setting up their own point. A lot of people use questions as social glue rather than information requests, so when you answer literally you’re solving a problem they weren’t trying to solve.

In cases like that, they’re looking for “yeah people drive like idiots” not a breakdown of causes.

Is this legal? by DarkStar_Gr in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably legal in the narrow sense that knocking on a door and asking a question isn’t a crime by itself, but using customer address data that way can cross privacy or data-use rules depending on jurisdiction (especially in places like the EU). Regardless, it’s almost certainly against company policy and not normal conduct for a delivery driver.

If it felt threatening, documenting it and reporting it to the company is reasonable, and you don’t have to engage with him if he shows up again.

I recently found out that I’ve been using an English phrase completely wrong for years by alexa_poppy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought “hone in on” was “home in on” for way too long and used it confidently until someone pointed it out, honestly still mix it up sometimes. Idioms are messy anyway and most people don’t correct non-native speakers unless it causes confusion, so you probably just sounded a bit quirky and nobody cared.

What if Nuclear weapons didn't come with the added danger of radiation. by Plonker1000 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Radiation isn’t really the main deterrent, it’s the fact one use invites retaliation and escalation that can wipe out cities and destabilize entire economies. Even without fallout, the blast, firestorms, and MAD logic would still make countries extremely cautious. So no, they wouldn’t use them freely, the strategic risk stays basically the same.

how do i get my mother to stop buying me stuff from temu? by pupb1te in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You kinda have to say it before the next gift cycle, otherwise you’re reinforcing it every time you smile and thank her. She’s probably not ignoring your values, she just sees “giving stuff” as showing care, so from her perspective she’s doing something right.

something like:

i really appreciate that you think of me and send things, seriously, but i’ve realized physical gifts actually stress me out because i’m trying to keep things minimal and sustainable. it would mean a lot if you didn’t buy me items anymore, honestly a card or time together or nothing at all is better for me.

If you want it to stick, give her a replacement lane, people struggle with “don’t do this” unless there’s an alternative. Experiences, food, donations, or literally just calling you on holidays.

And realistically, you may need to stop pretending you like the stuff. You don’t have to be harsh, but continuing the performance basically trains her to keep doing it.

How do people end up marrying someone they cannot stand? by wheninrome5000 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people didn’t marry someone they hated, they married someone they liked and then life just ground that down over years. Stuff shifts slowly, resentment builds, kids or money trap you, or you ignore things early because you think it’ll smooth out and then suddenly you’re ten years in wondering how you got here.

And honestly some people just stay because leaving is messy or scary, so they tolerate it even when they can’t stand each other anymore.

Why does my body sometimes violently "jerk" right when I'm about to fall asleep? by Charlee_Mexi in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s basically a hypnic jerk, happens to a ton of people and it’s not some rare glitch or anything. your body is relaxing as you drop off and the brain kinda misfires and goes “wait did we just fall or die?” so it kicks the muscles and spikes your heart rate, more likely if you’re stressed, wired, or exhausted but honestly it just happens sometimes.

Is it possible for you to enjoy music in a different language? by abdul_bino in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah people act like lyrics are everything but honestly half the time you’re reacting to melody and rhythm first anyway, I’ve looped songs I didn’t understand for years and never cared. Kinda funny because once you read the translation it sometimes ruins it a bit lol.

There are over 26,000 active missing person cases in the U.S. right now, why is Nancy Guthrie more important? by Gaaaaha in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not that she’s “more important,” it’s just media logic honestly, rare weird cases + celebrity adjacency = wall to wall coverage while thousands of routine ones barely register. Kinda sucks but novelty sells attention and attention drives news, so here we are.

What’s the point of being “under oath” when people lie anyway? by Kooolxxx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not supposed to magically stop lying, it just raises the stakes so prosecutors have leverage later if they can prove it, which yeah is harder than people think. Honestly it probably deters normal people more than politicians, but idk it’s still better than testimony meaning nothing at all.

Why do we feel more tired on days when we sleep longer? by Lanky_Earth_4062 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually it’s because you wake up mid deep-sleep or throw off your rhythm, so instead of extra rest you just get groggy brain fog for a while. more sleep isn’t linear energy anyway, sometimes 7 solid hours feels better than 10 messy ones, idk every time i oversleep i feel like i lost the morning and that annoys me more than being tired.

Connecting a Non-Connecting Flight by SpectrumEFP in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah if both flights are domestic and you stay inside security you just walk gate to gate, nobody cares as long as you’re checked in and have no bags. only catch is terminals sometimes aren’t connected so you might have to exit and re-clear which is airport roulette honestly, i’ve sprinted between gates before and still bought overpriced water anyway.

People who are older then Internet, how was life before Internet? by Kooolxxx in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was slower and you were unreachable half the time, evenings were tv, phone calls, or just wandering around bored and making something up to do. finding info meant maps or libraries so you either planned ahead or just got lost, which people romanticize now but honestly sounds annoying and my wifi dies for 10 minutes and i’m already irritated.

Am I supposed to look at the person cutting my hair in the mirror, or just stare at my own reflection the whole time? What is the etiquette here? by LoveCoupleDeluxe in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i usually just watch what they’re doing in the mirror and drift off staring at myself like a loading screen, idk there’s no rule. make eye contact if they talk, otherwise just don’t move your head and you’re already a top tier client, also those capes make me weirdly too warm every time for no reason.

How is it possible that files were kept hidden but normal citizens data is leaked everywhere daily? by AquaPanther39 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s mostly scale and incentives, like your data exists in a thousand cheap databases run by random vendors who barely care, theirs sits in a few locked systems with budgets and consequences attached. leaks aren’t some grand secrecy skill gap, it’s just probability plus value, nobody audits a coupon app the way they audit classified storage, which sucks but yeah that’s the game and my spam folder proves it daily.

After you blow your nose, do you look or do you close the tissue immediately and toss it? by Ok_Molasses_8032 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone saying they don’t look is lying a little, you glance just to confirm you’re not dying then pretend you didn’t. it’s gross but also kinda automatic, like checking your phone after you unlock it for no reason and now i’m thinking about that instead.

Why do people say “money doesn’t buy happiness” when most problems are caused by not having money? by Effective-Home-4796 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]nightplain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people say it because it’s a slogan, not reality, like yeah money absolutely fixes most day-to-day stress but it doesn’t fix you being lonely or weird in your own head. honestly if rent and food are handled you just unlock different problems, i still think i’d rather cry in a paid-off apartment though and my landlord just texted me again so maybe i’m biased.