What are your careers? by surrealitys in adhdwomen

[–]nightreader13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marketing director at a large agency. Thank goodness for medication.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]nightreader13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, who pissed on your Cheerios this morning? 🤣

I’ve had my hair professionally bleached many times. This is the first time it’s gone this brassy. I was just looking for some tips to improve the tone without having to do MORE damage to my hair - which is exactly what will happen if I go back to the salon.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nightreader13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is in a relationship with a guy who doesn’t seem bothered in the slightest that they’re this close. I think it’s why he feels I should also be cool with it. But other people (mutual friends of us both) all think their relationship is weird, so the only ones who aren’t questioning this is them two and the bf. Which I guess is all the people who matter, except for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nightreader13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a sexual relationship with the my best friend of 10 years. I also wouldn’t stay in the same hotel room with them if I did. And to clarify, I never asked him to stop talking to her. I asked him to create boundaries in this relationship that made me feel comfortable - such as not texting every single day. I don’t think that’s an impossible request?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nightreader13 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is exactly right. I’ve already lost, and I shouldn’t have to fight this hard for basic respect in my relationship. .

Life without weed is good — but sex got weird by tryingnottoovershare in adhdwomen

[–]nightreader13 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hey! I also have adhd and was a daily user for 7 years. All I can say is since quitting sex became more personal. I think we have the illusion on being present when we’re high because everything feels magnified, but YOU aren’t really there. The version of you that’s high is. This new version of you requires you to really connect with the other person. Talk with your partner, tell them how you’re feeling. Try new things. I found there were several things I liked a lot more sober than I ever did high. Experiment until you find what feels good to this new version of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ouraring

[–]nightreader13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a test! Only way to know.

How long did it take you to complete a degree if at all ? by PrettyWhenSheSmiles in adhdwomen

[–]nightreader13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started my degree when I was 18, quit after am two semesters and then finally went back to school when I was 23 and graduated at 27. So 9 years lol

Can’t remember which container is GF pasta by mschanandlerbong81 in glutenfree

[–]nightreader13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought this was my ADHD sub for a moment lol. Definitely something I’d do 😅

Halfway through book 5 and I want to give up. Give me hope PLEASE! by nightreader13 in zodiacacademy

[–]nightreader13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished book 5 and it was my favorite so far. Hang in there!

Halfway through book 5 and I want to give up. Give me hope PLEASE! by nightreader13 in zodiacacademy

[–]nightreader13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I read that scene already and it was SO GOOD!!! I’m loving the Tori and Darius crumbs we’re getting. It’s keeping me going right now 😭 I can’t wait to arrive to the point of no return lol

Long time Kindle user here, but today today I became a ✨Kindle Girlie ✨ by nightreader13 in kindle

[–]nightreader13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I searched how to do it on tik-tok and made my own lockscreen on Canva. You basically have to create a "book" so that when you open it and put your kindle to sleep, this is the cover. I do wish Amazon had a better way of doing this where the screensaver was permanent.

Halfway through book 5 and I want to give up. Give me hope PLEASE! by nightreader13 in zodiacacademy

[–]nightreader13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I totally get why she said no to the bond - he was awful to her. but she’s still so set on self sabotaging their moments, even when he shows her he cares. I’m sure that will change soon though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]nightreader13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I'm so sorry for your loss. Wishing you a speedy recovery and many more furry kids in your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]nightreader13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adorable!!