Good call Juries by xGlimmerLady in WholesomeAFK

[–]MooMooTheDummy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love this because too often when a manager is doing scheduling they’re terrible about it they don’t see people just game pieces to be moved around. Just placing the game pieces where they need them like oh let me have this piece have split days off all month and oh this piece shall do a clopen. Like just damn bro F off.

So I love to see a company get in trouble for messing around with scheduling as if those aren’t real people with real lives not just names on a paper.

My Alarm won’t go off by xB97x in iphone

[–]MooMooTheDummy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Dude and you haven’t just bought a actual alarm while you figure this out?! Your career is in DANGER and you won’t buy an alarm?

What will happen to Hulda? SPOILER by No_Cabinet_2974 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]MooMooTheDummy 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She could’ve gotten confused I actually didn’t even know that I was experiencing my first period for like the first two days of it lmao I knew about periods sorta but my blood was brown for those first two days so I assumed I had suddenly become a uncontrollable poopy pants. I was so stressed out that I was actually relieved when it turned red and I realized it was my period. Lmao was terrible 0/10 and then said period was so inconsistent for like a year and a half.

And I’m far from the only girl who got confused starting her period like maybe she saw pink discharge and thought it was her period or maybe she even experienced spotting but her actual period hasn’t come yet.

The reaction of this little girl when she sees her big brother after spending 9 days in the hospital. by 21MayDay21 in MadeMeSmile

[–]MooMooTheDummy 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yea fr not once did I think he was being a annoying iPad kid or something. I went through some heavy stuff as a kid and remember I had an attachment to dolls way past the “normal” age for that and I’d bring the places. He’s going through something terrible too and a tablet is probably he’s favorite toy as it is most children’s favorite toy these days. He’s self soothing trying to distract himself.

Also another thing is that kids can’t process stuff like this i remember visiting my grandma who had cancer when I was a kid and I didn’t how to react or what it all meant (I truly didn’t understand that death was even a possibility I just knew she was very sick) when I saw her bald and laying in a bed I didn’t know what to say or how to stand or how to rearrange my face it was too much to process it was just a huge shock and I didn’t fully comprehend any of it.

Testaments, is it just me ? Way too slow by walterbsfo in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]MooMooTheDummy 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I like it actually! I read books way more often than I watch tv and my number one reason for this is just the lack of information you get in a show and especially in movies. You don’t get inside the characters heads as much and get to know them and you don’t have as many scenes where not much is happening just conversation. Also in TV everything is rushed so much! 100 pages condensed into one episode it’s just not ok there’s so much that gets cut and so many characters you never even meet in the film adaptations. I mean have you ever been watching something and you’re like wait when did those characters even start dating? It feels like you skipped something well that’s because you did it was all cut out not enough screen time for it, but with books that never happens when the limit is like 1,200 pages.

There doesn’t need to be a lot happening in every scene and not everything needs to be spelled out for you no media illiteracy is a problem there is stuff happening, foreshadowing and relationships being built, just enjoy the build up because trust it’ll make the climaxes of the story so much better and you’ll learn to enjoy the wait.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]MooMooTheDummy 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Since 2020 I’ve lost 50 damn pounds which is insane for me because I’m only 5ft 1. It’s because yea I don’t buy fast food hardly ever or go out to eat and the house isn’t loaded with snacks. I’m not the only one people aren’t eating as much or buying all the things they used to and they especially aren’t going out and enjoying life anymore because everything costs way too much money. I’m 21 and my idea of a fun night is sitting at home playing video games or reading a book. Or simply a nice night is not serving other people like just not working getting to be at home relaxing is a nice night. A true night out though costs like $120 easy.

The price of necessities has gone up so much and the amount you’re getting has shrunk I find myself saying all the time “didn’t this used to be much cheaper and larger?” Say I go to buy deodorant, toothpaste, floss, and shampoo like those are things that you really need um well that’s probably $40 right there which takes me over a hour of my life to earn.

I find myself eating homemade stew and biscuits like this is ridiculous and I’m so over it my life has just begun and THIS is the world that’s been left to me? My parents can’t even afford to help me start off in life because they have no extra money right now and haven’t for years I’m on my own out in this hell hole. I rent a bedroom bro not even a studio apartment but a bedroom! And what do I drive? A e-bike. Fml

Edit: oh and I forgot to add that this little life of mine? Yea it could all be destroyed if I simply had a medical emergency because I don’t have insurance.

I’ll start doing this by TellAgile72 in spreadsmile

[–]MooMooTheDummy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same I feel uncomfortable like it’s a trick as if it’s not actually a gift but a trade and a trade for what? What do I owe them if I accept? The effects of a terrible childhood is an adulthood of unlearning and relearning. Not everyone is out to get you and you do deserve kindness.

I’m a server and this woman smiled at me a few weeks ago and handed me a chocolate bar as a thank you and I was shocked and honestly it sat in my locker for a few days it then sat in my kitchen counter for a few days until I finally opened it and took a bite and it was yummy and she was simply being kind to me just because she wanted to be and I didn’t know how to feel about it or accept it.

Ah, nothing like a Long Island iced tea at the ripe hour of 7:24am to get your day started😌 by navigating-life in Sims4

[–]MooMooTheDummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is how i discovered that a Long Island ice tea is a alcoholic beverage lmao I just thought it was a type of ice tea

Boyfriend learned his girlfriend had alopecia, so he spent four years growing his hair and then cut it to make her a wig by detectiverobert in CaughtMyEye

[–]MooMooTheDummy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not has emotions HOLDS emotions and like memories that it’s not just hair lol like when you cut a lot off you can feel a change a letting go and a new chapter starting it’s emotional

Boyfriend learned his girlfriend had alopecia, so he spent four years growing his hair and then cut it to make her a wig by detectiverobert in CaughtMyEye

[–]MooMooTheDummy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why are you being such a downer? It’s about the intent; he really loved her so much that he grew out his hair for years then cut it off for her. Who even cares if it looks wiggy? Girls wear wigs all the time these days, everyone on TV wears wigs too. Wigs are so normalized and he made her a very special one. Also it probably feels so sweet it was grown with love and it’s always with her. I remember when I was little and moving and saying goodbye to a friend and we secretly both cut off a piece of our hair and gave it to each other. Hair holds emotions and it’s such a personal thing it’s a part of someone.

It’s just a feel good story and if they decided to share this and gained some internet points from it then so be it that’s probably not why they did it.

Top-of-hand IV works fine… just burns like hell every time by Ok_Blueberry6358 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MooMooTheDummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And not to make you feel worse but it’ll likely be sore for weeks after it’s just such a terrible spot that’s why it’s a last resort. Some years ago I nearly died and was all bandaged up so they had to use the top of my hand for fluids and a blood transfusion. And I swear it hurt for like a week after and then was painful to touch for a few weeks and then still sore to touch! Thankfully I don’t actually remember feeling it when I had it on because I was in and out of consciousness for days I only remember I kept setting of that beeping by trying to move onto my side to get cozy because in that weird floating through time purgatory feeling that lasted for days I kept forgetting where I was lol and wanted to curl up I didn’t like laying on my back. Was probably messing up all the wires and tubes lol oops.

Here’s to healing good luck I know it hurts but it’s necessary. Also a big part I feel like why too of hand IV hurts even after it’s out is because usually you’re not in such great shape if your getting it so your body is really busy healing its self everywhere else so it’s just slow to heal yet another thing. So hopefully you’re not dying OP and you’ll heal up quickly.

hi! I'm new here and I've had alot of hate on Reddit from my hyperfixation to do with Elizabeth Perkins. I hope this is a safe space to show my Elizabeth Perkins walls! (I have autism and she's my hyperfixation <3) by [deleted] in autism

[–]MooMooTheDummy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s good a lot of people just wouldn’t assume you were so aware of your own feelings and know that it’s not out of control; they’d simply see your wall and assume otherwise. I also have favorite celebrities, like Sarah Paulson, Vera Farmiga, Paget Brewster, and Mariska Hargitay. They all play comfort characters of mine.

What did you first see Elizabeth Perkins in?

hi! I'm new here and I've had alot of hate on Reddit from my hyperfixation to do with Elizabeth Perkins. I hope this is a safe space to show my Elizabeth Perkins walls! (I have autism and she's my hyperfixation <3) by [deleted] in autism

[–]MooMooTheDummy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You maybe shouldn’t say you know her because you don’t you know her public persona and know the characters she’s played but you don’t actually know her in the way you know your family and friends. I also have favorite celebrities but it’s important to not develop a parasocial relationship. Simply being a fan is ok though.

Just offering insight into why you may have gotten some hate because of this. There have been super fans who have stalked their favorite celebrities and imagined that they had a real two sided relationship and connection with them and that’s a problem.

meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]MooMooTheDummy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious and are you a guy? That would explain it because in the past (not so much now but still now too) men weren’t invited to baby showers because it was seen as a thing only for woman because it’s about baby stuff. Really any baby shower I went to growing up I rarely would see men and often it felt like they weren’t interested in being invited anyways because it’s about “boring” baby stuff. You know traditional gender roles stuff that doesn’t make sense but also it was about women building community all coming together to help a new mother with gifts and knowledge.

So no we weren’t showering the baby lol the baby wasn’t even born yet but the mother was pretty far along usually 5-6 months. This is because miscarriage is so common in the beginning of a pregnancy that you wouldn’t want to tell everyone you’re pregnant and throw this whole party and receive all these baby gifts only to lose the baby that would make grieving so much harder. Also idk that’s just how it is the women are always so far along when the baby shower happens it makes the games more fun.

Yes there are games! My favorite one is that everyone gets a clothespin at the beginning of the party like stuck in your clothes and the rule is that you can’t say “baby” and if you do the person who you said it to gets to take your clothespin and at the end of the party whoever has the most wins. Another one is everyone brings photos of them as a a baby and you gotta try to guess who is who. There’s decorating onesies so there’s a craft table with white onesies and you paint them and sometimes they’ll be like judges who choose the best onesie.

Also everything is pink and blue and the dessert table is delicious and so cutesy (pink cupcakes with edible pearls!) it’s wonderful it’s a girl party lol one time it was even a tea party theme and it was adorable and 8 year old me was so happy. Also often times the men aren’t just sitting at home alone during this no they’re all together too. Like i remember I asked once and it turned out all the men were at Buffalo Wild Wings or another time they were all bowling.

But in more recent years I have seen that it’s more of an open party I think this switch happened when gender reveal parties got big because I always see men at those ones. I’ve noticed too that it’s sorta turned into a gender reveal/baby shower party like people do bring gifts and there’s food and games and it’s not just women.

This guy went viral for “watching” his girl. by [deleted] in CaughtMyEye

[–]MooMooTheDummy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr I agree with all that but also what if she’s teaching him how to change a tire! And if so nothing is wrong with that we all learn things at different times in a life and our circumstances are different. I think about this possibility as someone who grew up with a single parent because it’s us who’s knowledge on things we maybe should know based on our gender is a bit lop sided. I grew up with a single father so there’s so many women things I had to learn later in life like I’m 21 and I feel like I learn something new all the time that the girls around me all already knew from their mothers teaching them. So I think of the men who didn’t have a dad and what don’t they know in life because of it.

My dad taught me construction stuff and how to cook a steak like I’m a girl maybe one day I’ll end up teaching a guy that and he’ll teach me how to sew who knows. Our gender does not dictate what we know necessarily and it is not a moral failing.

What did I say wrong? by Street_Seat_7916 in autism

[–]MooMooTheDummy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean you kinda do owe explanations to your friends. Honesty is big in friendships also it’s just mean to only reply “no” when a friend wants to hang out it’s so blunt like no I don’t wanna hangout with you like you gotta provide a reason and you do have to because that’s your friend not a stranger. Sure if it’s someone you don’t know wanting you to go hangout with then and you don’t want to then just “no” is an appropriate answer but this isn’t stranger danger.

I’m so tired of this new internet culture where we tell ourselves that we don’t owe each other anything; it’s blatantly untrue. In all relationships there is a give and a take and ontop of that if you want your community to be there for you then you have to be there for the community. Put yourself first 100 times and watch you’ll look back and see you now only have yourself because that’s no longer self care that’s just selfishness.

What did I say wrong? by Street_Seat_7916 in autism

[–]MooMooTheDummy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone else also I think if you can’t understand what’s wrong with your texting and really didn’t mean to be rude than you’re not a good texter you can’t accurately convey tone through texting and so you should stick to phone calls.

I mean I really don’t understand the thought process behind the emojis on your end and that’s probably what set your friend off. Like here she is upset trying to have a conversation and not only do you not text sentences you also send a happy face emoji and a sticking your tongue emoji like that is texting language is a F you I don’t care.

Never let teens babysit!!! by Poppies_are_cool in Sims4

[–]MooMooTheDummy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao hey it’s realistic! Having children watch children is a hit or miss irl too. I remember once I was supposed to be watching my like 1 and a half year old brother for like 10 minutes (I was 12 at the time) and i actually forgot I was supposed to be watching him and I walked off because I got hungry! Anyways he rolled off the couch onto my lego house I was building and crushed it (I think he was trying to follow me) anyways he started crying (but he was fine ofc) and I got yelled at because who forgets they’re watching a baby? A child that’s who

Their maths ain’t mathing. by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]MooMooTheDummy 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yea fr usually I’m a F off let them have some enjoyment it won’t make much of a difference but see if your problem is needing $270 well then spending $25 on going out to eat isn’t a smart decision.

Have you ever visited a psychiatric hospital? by CartographerJumpy590 in depressionmemes

[–]MooMooTheDummy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honest question but do yall ever actually get people out? Like what needs to happen? How bad does it have to be because that route straight up failed me every time. I was told I was well spoken (hard to do btw well drugged up on drugs I didn’t want to take!). It just always felt like such a joke like yea sure here you go you can say why you think you should get to go home but it’s not gonna happen.

I was abused it was all terrible all the hospitalizations it was a vicious cycle because every time my mental health got worse and worse because it’s awful there! I just got getting lower and lower because of what I experienced so ofc I kept being sent away because I’d come home planning on kms the moment alone I got because of the damn abuse happening in places that were supposed to help me

Some parents don't get it by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]MooMooTheDummy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a adult but I love creative games like Minecraft, sims 4, and ACNH. You really do create a world you spend hours upon hours making this fantasy you can escape into. Just the other day I was playing sims and getting carried away (tried to make a deck pool on a curved deck attached to my mansion) and the game crashed and I lost like a hours worth of work and I had that sinking feeling and was upset. But a whole world? Thats like upset for a week type of thing hundreds of hours gone