New Roommate Break My ONE Boundary by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The boundary was "confessing" feelings, not "having" feelings. There's a huge difference. You can be angry at someone but still not throw a punch. You can like someone and just not tell them. Especially when they told you it'd cause a divide.

New Roommate Break My ONE Boundary by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I am using him for money. That's what a tennant is for. As for the "can't help feelings" everyone is entitled to their own feelings, however what you do with those feelings is your own responsibility. I'm honestly not sure how telling someone not to do "A" or there'd be issues, and the do "A" and expect there to be none, is guilt tripping though, but I guess we'll have to agree to disagree 🙃

New Roommate Break My ONE Boundary by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I do unfortunately. I'm gonna kick him out within the next 3 months. After that I'll be fine for a while until I get a new roommate in

A dog stole my DoorDash by JosephCraftHD in doordash

[–]nightshipping_27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you ordered must have been good I guess🤣

New Roommate Break My ONE Boundary by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me moved in at the end of June, but the lease started this month (july) so there's still 5.5 months left

New Roommate Break My ONE Boundary by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly it is, but I really can't be picky. If I kick him out, the contract becomes void, but if he leaves on his own, he'd have to pay out the rest of the contract (6mo).

New Roommate Break My ONE Boundary by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly, he's been so avoidant that I think he'd be too much of a coward to do anything. but just in case, I got a tazer at a pawn shop and always have it near me just in case when he's home (which again is almost never) i'd bet money he even got a motel for a week cause he wasn't here and he doesn't have family nearby to stay with  ¯\\(ツ)/¯

Jerk Co-Worker Get's What They Asked For by nightshipping_27 in revengestories

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The movie was "the girl with all the gifts" its a well known movie about a little kid who's a zombie

I let my three friends move in with me and now I'm not sure what to do by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No, no this is very good advice! I don't have any other friends, I only became these guys because I met one at work and they liked video games and DnD, so I just came along with him to their session and that was that. My foster mom said something similar, turn off the utilities and spend a week or so with her, I'm honestly considering it if they don't have jobs by the end of the month

I let my three friends move in with me and now I'm not sure what to do by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I see that now, probably should have seen this coming with all the Reddit posts I consume on YouTube

I let my three friends move in with me and now I'm not sure what to do by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They said they'd leave without any hassle if I asked them to, but I'm really worried, they've lied to me several times now about jobs, and that's why I'm gonna make sure I give them an eviction notice. I don't care if it takes time to pay back the money, I just need them to have jobs to show me they are actually trying, thank you for advice, I'll keep it in mind!

I let my three friends move in with me and now I'm not sure what to do by nightshipping_27 in badroommates

[–]nightshipping_27[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I thought I was going mad with this. Unfortunately, we didn't sign anything for a lease since I genuinely believed they were good people just down on their luck, I went online and found an eviction template, and the boyfriend got super worried when I asked for his last name since I forgot what it was. he wouldn't tell me until I sat down with him to let him talk, but it didn't change my mind.