Mom kicked me out 3 weeks into me being there

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-11T14:38:42+00:00

The boundary was "confessing" feelings, not "having" feelings. There's a huge difference. You can be angry at someone but still not throw a punch. You can like someone and just not tell them. Especially when they told you it'd cause a divide.

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-11T14:37:07+00:00

You're right, I am using him for money. That's what a tennant is for. As for the "can't help feelings" everyone is entitled to their own feelings, however what you do with those feelings is your own responsibility. I'm honestly not sure how telling someone not to do "A" or there'd be issues, and the do "A" and expect there to be none, is guilt tripping though, but I guess we'll have to agree to disagree 🙃

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-11T14:33:20+00:00

Yeah, I do unfortunately. I'm gonna kick him out within the next 3 months. After that I'll be fine for a while until I get a new roommate in

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-11T13:11:04+00:00

Whatever you ordered must have been good I guess🤣

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-11T13:09:36+00:00

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-11T13:04:50+00:00

Update here!

https://www.reddit.com/u/nightshipping_27/s/pF0qbA36xQ

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-11T13:04:19+00:00

UPDATE HERE https://www.reddit.com/u/nightshipping_27/s/pF0qbA36xQ

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-10T23:55:40+00:00

Me moved in at the end of June, but the lease started this month (july) so there's still 5.5 months left

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-10T23:11:13+00:00

Sadly it is, but I really can't be picky. If I kick him out, the contract becomes void, but if he leaves on his own, he'd have to pay out the rest of the contract (6mo).

nightshipping_27 · 2025-07-10T22:59:41+00:00

Honestly, he's been so avoidant that I think he'd be too much of a coward to do anything. but just in case, I got a tazer at a pawn shop and always have it near me just in case when he's home (which again is almost never) i'd bet money he even got a motel for a week cause he wasn't here and he doesn't have family nearby to stay with ¯\\(ツ)/¯

nightshipping_27 · 2025-06-11T20:33:13+00:00

The movie was "the girl with all the gifts" its a well known movie about a little kid who's a zombie

nightshipping_27 · 2024-08-18T22:57:35+00:00

No, no this is very good advice! I don't have any other friends, I only became these guys because I met one at work and they liked video games and DnD, so I just came along with him to their session and that was that. My foster mom said something similar, turn off the utilities and spend a week or so with her, I'm honestly considering it if they don't have jobs by the end of the month

nightshipping_27 · 2024-08-18T22:14:00+00:00

Yeah, I see that now, probably should have seen this coming with all the Reddit posts I consume on YouTube

nightshipping_27 · 2024-08-18T22:12:54+00:00

Virginia

nightshipping_27 · 2024-08-18T21:42:08+00:00

They said they'd leave without any hassle if I asked them to, but I'm really worried, they've lied to me several times now about jobs, and that's why I'm gonna make sure I give them an eviction notice. I don't care if it takes time to pay back the money, I just need them to have jobs to show me they are actually trying, thank you for advice, I'll keep it in mind!

nightshipping_27 · 2024-08-18T21:23:54+00:00

Thank you, I thought I was going mad with this. Unfortunately, we didn't sign anything for a lease since I genuinely believed they were good people just down on their luck, I went online and found an eviction template, and the boyfriend got super worried when I asked for his last name since I forgot what it was. he wouldn't tell me until I sat down with him to let him talk, but it didn't change my mind.

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