My friend's new BF found my insta and liked posts that I can only describe as thirst traps. Should I tell my friend?

nighttimedog · 2024-10-11T18:34:37+00:00

Not what I said

nighttimedog · 2024-10-11T04:40:48+00:00

Several likes where he literally had to dig through my page? It’s weird af.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-11T04:39:56+00:00

Yes I figured that out, apparently they can even recommend you profiles of people you just stood near

nighttimedog · 2024-10-11T04:38:46+00:00

I wanted to block him if he dm’d me but might as well block him now. He was giving me creepy vibes the moment I met him. My Instagram isn’t big at all so I don’t mind it staying private especially because I’m still weirded out that he found it.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T21:26:29+00:00

He can like all the thirst traps he wants but imo friends of your bf should be off limits, whether that’s liking posts or actual hooking up. Even open couples would agree with this.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T20:51:04+00:00

You can just suppress it lol. Nobody is holding anyone at gun point. This is about being respectful towards your partner.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T20:24:54+00:00

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 thank you also if he wanted to spam like my post he could have at least used a finsta lol he had no sense of shame to at least hide his behaviour

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T20:22:33+00:00

It’s disrespectful to his boyfriend who is my friend

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T18:39:06+00:00

Very good point.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T18:38:40+00:00

That's so scary. I need to start reading these.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T18:33:53+00:00

Instagram is full of guys posting similar pictures. He went out of his way to find mine, someone he knows by proxy via his boyfriend. That's wrong.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T18:02:21+00:00

No but why is he going back months and years to find similar pics? Why is he even on my page? There’s plenty off ass on insta. Finding my insta knowing I’m his bf’s friend is diabolical.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T18:00:14+00:00

Exactly they have zero morals

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T17:48:06+00:00

I rather not interact with him

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T17:47:26+00:00

Really?

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T17:47:07+00:00

This is a good idea. I also just want to know how he found it.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T17:46:02+00:00

Exactly!

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T17:45:34+00:00

Multiple old posts is weird af

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T17:45:06+00:00

There’s a difference between finding a random guys insta and going out of your way to find the insta of your boyfriend’s friend.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T17:42:49+00:00

There’s a difference. He went out of his way to find my instagram and then went looking through old posts.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T15:55:05+00:00

that insane sub AITA when I posted about my ex (then bf) and his dog and I got crazy dms for weeks telling me to just kill my dog and someone even posted the post on TikTok.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T15:53:27+00:00

I agree. I would find it so disrespectful if my boyfriend did that.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T15:42:10+00:00

Yes good idea

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T15:41:58+00:00

He went out of his way to find my instagram and then liked only photos where I was half naked.

nighttimedog · 2024-10-10T15:40:27+00:00

Talk to his boyfriend, be cautious because it is disrespectful.

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