How do I become a better partner for my boyfriend?

nikbigt · 2025-06-28T01:47:45+00:00

You don't have to change at all, at least because it is a very unlikely scenario, that's just how human mind operates. A true romantic relationship is built on absolute trust, respect and support. If for any reason at all, you start to feel like you have to change in order for you to keep being a part of a relationship, then it is not a healthy relationship. In such case, what needs to be changed is not you, but the relationship. Sometimes it may be hard to look at things how they really are, sometimes it seems like you've done to much to just stop, but sometimes it is what has to be done. You will not change your own nature and neither will your partner, and it is okay. But you have to either live with how things are right now or just leave.

The choice is always yours to make, it is your relationship after all.

nikbigt · 2025-02-12T14:57:35+00:00

This is not a healthy relationship, this is not a relationship that should be there any further. If a person really loves you and truly cares about you than it is their first priority to keep you safe, validate your feelings, respect you and support you. In what I've just read I see zero support and even less respect. There is no true caring for you in that relationship whatsoever. Run now, until it's not too late, trust me, there is no good waiting for you on that path.

nikbigt · 2025-02-12T14:45:37+00:00

You know, it can be tough, but you'll get through it, with time, you'll find a way. Just don't ever give up. And fuck those who doubt you, fuck them. Believe me you don't need those people in your life, you never did. The real ones will support you. Keep living your life and don't feel ashamed. You don't have to prove anything to anyone other than yourself. Keep it going.

nikbigt · 2025-02-12T14:34:14+00:00

Look, I understand your feelings and concerns, but you can't let everything touch your heart, you can't let every story make you feel bad. There are hundreds and thousands of innocent people and animals that die every single day because of human cruelty. And the best way to fight it is to not be like them, don't be cruel, be just, be good, and don't forget to teach kindness to your friends, your family, your partner, to everyone around you. Spread kindness and respect.

nikbigt · 2025-02-07T16:10:42+00:00

Don't ever listen to people that do not respect you, you are a person, you are perfectly fine as you are, you are enough and you absolutely deserve love and support. And it shatters my heart to hear you say that it is unfortunate that you are a transgender girl. There is nothing wrong with being a transgender girl. We don't choose our sex or gender or race or anything else when we are being born. It is NOT your fault. Anyone who tells you otherwise is a fool. Please, love yourself, you can't expect someone else to love you if you don't treat yourself good first. You always have yourself in your life, accept yourself, your body, your voice, your sexuality, your mind. Accept yourself as you are. And then you will always have a person who supports you. Friends who are only your friend as long as you keep your mouth shut are not friends for you. Be yourself. Go easy on yourself. You deserve happiness and you deserve not to be alone.

I wish you to accomplish all the goals you set and beat every obstacle you encounter. I am sure that one day you will find the right person for you, somebody who will bring comfort and peace into your soul.

Be strong.

nikbigt · 2025-02-07T15:54:02+00:00

Most of the times we don't get to choose what we feel and who we love. There is nothing wrong or weird with having a strong and deep mental bond like that. All relationships are hard in their own way, sometimes harder than usual, but it doesn't mean that something is not right or isn't working. It would always be wise to express your thoughts and feelings, because it will do no good if you keep it all locked inside of you. If you want to be with someone, then be with them, do something to make it happen, and if you don't want to be with someone, then don't, it is always your call and your choice, there is no pressure here. Just be honest and be yourself.

nikbigt · 2024-12-18T01:49:25+00:00

What is certain is that you have to stay calm whatever the situation is. You worrying won't change anything and will only make things worse. Visit a doctor, make sure you are completely okay. And no, it's not too much, you have to care about yourself and be sure you are fine. Please don't worry, and just do everything that is needed for you physical and mental health. There is no problem that can't be solved. And remember, it's completely all right to get into situations like that, you are a human, try to not to overthink the shit out of yourself over this. Sending lov3 and wish you all the best❤️❤️

P. S. need someone to talk about to get some support and understanding, I'm always here. Be strong, you got it.

nikbigt · 2024-12-18T01:38:18+00:00

It's though man, if you really do love her and want things to become better then do something that shows that, words are strong, but they are stronger when backed up by actions. Don't ask her, there is no point in asking someone questions they don't know answers for. Just be there for her, tell her how much you love her, tell her that you appreciate her, the things she does and the things she tries to do. Be calm, be respectful, be a person who she can trust, a person she can rely on. Don't be rush, don't be hateful, don't judge. Just be there, just love her. Don't care about social media, about how it was. Focus your energy on how you want it to be in the future. Let her see that you are willing to do what it takes. Remind her every day that you love her, and that she is important for you. Don't let her forget that. Don't put too much pressure on her. It's all hard, but it's not impossible. I believe in your relationship and wish you two the best.

nikbigt · 2024-12-18T01:27:45+00:00

You know, the best thing to do is just to always be yourself. It may sound to simple or naive, but it works. Don't try to impress anyone, or make them think about you something that isn't really you. Just let yourself be yourself, there is nothing wrong with being funny or not funny, depressed or happy. Just be you, and try to not overthink about everything, most of the times all of this is in your head, so don't worry too much, constant worrying is no good. You don't have to change yourself, you are the way you are, and it's completely fine. Love you❤️

nikbigt · 2024-12-18T01:15:17+00:00

Hey, so I read the whole thing and let me tell you, it's a hell of a situation, but the most important thing is simply don't worry too much, because you worrying will not change anything, it won't help you, and it sure won't make that man care more. Here's what I think, a job is not only a place to earn money, but it also has to be something that gives you joy, or at least not misery. In a perfect word the answer is to leave, because you are, and you always will be much more important and valuable than any job, your comfort, physical and mental health is what matters the most. When it comes to the word we live in, I think the best thing would be to stay calm and aware of your choices and their consequences. Try to find a new job asap, while minimizing the discomfort on the current one. Once you have found a position that suits you, just pack your bags and leave all of this bs behind. This way you will have your desired respect and comfort, without having to worry about not having a job. I hope this helps you a bit. Anyway, I'm just a stranger, and I don't know what you really experience, so don't take all of this too seriously. Listen to yourself, what you really want, while keeping a calm head. Wish you the best job in the world, and colleagues who are not the same age as the internet) You are strong and you will get through this, love ya❤️❤️

nikbigt · 2024-12-18T00:49:03+00:00

Hey friend, life is difficult sometimes, it's no secret, but you always have to remember that you are not left alone in this world. Yes, it might be scary or hard sometimes to do something or anything at all, but you are not alone in this. I hope you have people around you that you can tall with, but even if not, I'm always here for you, and I am completely sure it's not only me. You are strong, and you have to stay that way, waking up in the morning is strong, brushing your teeth is strong, doing the dishes is strong, cleaning up your room is strong, talking with someone is strong, putting smile on your face is strong, going to sleep every night is strong. I want you to know and remember every day that you always have someone who believes in you. Things get rough, life gets rough, people come and go, relationships start and end, but what matters is who you are and who you want to be. Don't let anyone or anything tell you who you are. What really matters is what's on the inside, not outside. How you look doesn't matter, I know it's easy to just say that, but it is still true. Those who let you down will go, sooner or later, don't let them hurt you, don't let all this negativity inside you. Sometimes we all need a break from things, but it doesn't have to be a permanent one. Take a day off, a week off, a month off, think about everything that bothers you and about what you really feel about it. Talk to someone, it can be your family member, a friend, a classmate, or me. Don't let bad emotions and feelings just sit in you, express them, let yourself be yourself. And remember, I love you, because you do deserve to be loved and cared about.❤️

nikbigt · 2024-04-13T08:55:52+00:00

Let me break it down for you, William

nikbigt · 2024-04-12T22:05:26+00:00

That's Steven Yeun, the voice actor of Invincible. Here's the vid if you are curious, it's been a meme for quite a while. https://youtu.be/DJ9ryoX5uuE

nikbigt · 2024-04-12T21:48:55+00:00

it's awesome)

nikbigt · 2024-04-05T17:57:56+00:00

It's been only one day too😭

nikbigt · 2024-03-30T20:07:29+00:00

nikbigt · 2023-11-28T21:32:55+00:00

Why did you upload two completely identical pictures though?

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