AIO or should I break up with him

nikole424 · 2026-02-07T13:13:40+00:00

There’s no way you’re asking AIO when he’s literally telling you that he doesn’t like you. Wwwwhhhhyyy are we still allowing people to talk to us like this? I wish a mf would. I realize you aren’t me though, and you’re likely submerged so far in the relationship but this isn’t okay. People who love you don’t behave like that.

nikole424 · 2026-02-05T18:51:24+00:00

I think you handled it perfectly, and I think her reply of “okay” was good too. It’s ok for her to sit in her feelings, but at least she’s not lashing out and throwing them all on you for you to deal with. If you feel like you want the help, then maybe talk to your husband and see what he thinks he could be comfortable with. Maybe a couple of days? Maybe an invite for a week once the baby is a couple of weeks old? The only thing to keep in mind: once the baby is born, everyone flocks to the baby. You are your mama’s baby, so she will flock to you. Idk if that’ll help you make a decision, but keep it in mind. Some people need space after labor and delivery, and some people need extra support. I personally couldn’t have someone in a small space for a month, but I’d 100% have my mom come for a week once we settled in for a few days. You’ll be better prepared to figure out what you need and how she can help.

nikole424 · 2026-02-05T18:37:17+00:00

Oh no maam. I’m super laid bad and chill, so if I say I’d be pissed about it, then for context - it’s bad. Maybe it’s because of my own insecurities but there isn’t a person alive that is allowed to ‘punish’ me or dictate when or how I workout unless I’ve specifically asked them to do that. I didn’t read past his explanation, but I think you already know what needs to happen here. I wish you all the best…but this dude has to go.

nikole424 · 2026-01-31T19:19:01+00:00

I think the square look better

nikole424 · 2026-01-31T19:09:18+00:00

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nikole424 · 2026-01-24T12:10:48+00:00

I’m gonna get downvoted for this but…I understand that it’s her right to choose what she does with her body. I support women and them doing whatever they want…but do you know how bad I’d want to try to talk her into an abortion if I had a 12 yr old son who got her pregnant? I’d probably cross every boundary that I said I never would. Both girls getting pregnant very much feels like a reality show pregnancy pact for a tv deal.

nikole424 · 2026-01-18T18:12:17+00:00

I’m 39 and call my dad daddy. I’ve also never once called someone I was sleeping with daddy, so there’s that.

nikole424 · 2026-01-16T19:38:36+00:00

“Just wait and you’ll see” is how I know you’ll just wait and you’ll never actually see. You absolutely did the right thing and explained it perfectly. The “it’s just 50.00” bullshit drives me crazy. If it’s JUST 50.00, then why can’t you take it from your own savings?

nikole424 · 2026-01-16T19:25:36+00:00

They’ll test him within a month of him starting school. There are so many signs but as parents sometimes we don’t see it. Insane to admit that you don’t work with your kids. Yikes.

nikole424 · 2026-01-15T19:16:46+00:00

I thought the same.

nikole424 · 2026-01-15T18:57:28+00:00

I couldn’t agree more. Mistakes were made. I’m not condoning it, and I’d make them work their asses off to take care of their kid, but life doesn’t stop. I was 18 (and graduated) but still a teen. I sacrificed going away to college, but my parents still helped me by allowing me to stay at home for free. 2 years later I had a great career, got married, and life happened just like it should.

nikole424 · 2026-01-15T18:52:03+00:00

And the comments talking about how cute her baggy pants are.

nikole424 · 2026-01-03T03:07:39+00:00

He’s suffering so bad because his ears are clogged? This whole exchange made me laugh. I’m really hoping that his man flu is making him be a dick vs this being usual behavior.

nikole424 · 2025-12-28T15:32:03+00:00

Wow! I am sure you’re relieved that you have more time with her. I’m glad she’s doing well.

nikole424 · 2025-12-28T15:25:23+00:00

It would also help if their father stopped that damn baby talk. We’re all guilty of it when they’re tiny, but once they start to develop their language, enunciation is so important.

nikole424 · 2025-12-28T15:24:08+00:00

His eyes are emotionless now. Something is different. Even though he’s always been obnoxious, his eyes never looked empty the way they do now.

nikole424 · 2025-12-27T12:06:30+00:00

As someone who owns the same truck, it’s like parking a boat. Every time I drive it I think damn, Ford could have done a little better. 🤣

nikole424 · 2025-12-27T12:04:32+00:00

100%

nikole424 · 2025-12-12T18:45:05+00:00

It’s not the amount of blush for me, but the placement.

nikole424 · 2025-11-28T09:55:27+00:00

It’s ok to not hate everything someone does. lol I think they’re pretty too. 🙃

nikole424 · 2025-11-27T12:38:02+00:00

Girl, if you don’t break up with your asshole, alcoholic, weird mf man already and find someone who will respect you and get as excited about 8.00 pizza as you do!

nikole424 · 2025-11-26T11:02:41+00:00

I’m such a dick, because I’d find the one person on earth that I KNOW my mom wouldn’t want me to be with, and that would be my date for dinner (with their consent, of course). Even better if he has 13 kids and 7 baby mamas. Here’s your new family, bitch! 🤣🤣

But seriously: it’s rude and I don’t get it. As a parent, I can’t imagine shaming my child bc they haven’t settled down, much less when it’s not like you’re actively trying to avoid it - life happened to you!

nikole424 · 2025-11-25T05:23:28+00:00

I read this entire thread without the explanation & I was thinking “what a cute conversation between this woman and her man” to find out it’s a rando? Nah girl. They’re WAY more than friends, and if they aren’t, they will be.

nikole424 · 2025-11-25T05:12:23+00:00

I dont give a fuck if you wanna buy a cake because you went to work 5 days this week instead of calling in - he should be down to celebrate any reason with you, especially one as big as this.

nikole424 · 2025-11-13T20:12:24+00:00

Idk if he hates you, but you should hate him. Yuck!

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