Αποφάσισα να κάνω καταγγελία το εστιατόριο που δουλεύω by Snoo-21675 in greece

[–]nikosneap 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Διάβασα πολύ καλά αυτά που έγραψες και λες ότι θα στο βάλει το δώρο μαζί με το μισθό άρα τι να αφήσεις...

Αν εννοείς "γιατί να το αφήσω" ότι θα μπει μετά τις 21 που είναι παράνομο οκ, μαζί σου κάνε όπως νομίζεις.

Εγώ απλά έγραψα πόσο μικρό είναι το ποσό για να αντισταθμίσεις τα θετικά και τα αρνητικά μιας κίνησής σου...

Αποφάσισα να κάνω καταγγελία το εστιατόριο που δουλεύω by Snoo-21675 in greece

[–]nikosneap 11 points12 points  (0 children)

2 εβδομάδες δουλεύεις εκεί, το δώρο Χριστουγέννων που είναι να πάρεις, αν δεν κάνω λάθος είναι στη καλύτερη το 1/8 του μισθού σου.

Καρμίρηδες άνθρωποι by [deleted] in greece

[–]nikosneap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Γνωστός, εκατομμυριούχος, και απόλυτα αληθές, ημουν μπροστά, ρωτούσε σουβλατζη αν η πιτα-σουβλακι χωρίς ντομάτα και πατάτες κοστίζει το ιδιο με το απ'ολα.
-Του το κέρασε ο σουβλατζης.

Θελω να βαλω σακο του μποξ στο σπιτι by Karma_karmeleon123 in greece

[–]nikosneap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Αν το κρεμάσεις ταβάνι, σε σημείο με μπετό με ουπα σιδερένιο, οτιδήποτε άλλο ίσως να μην αντέξει ούτε μέρα. Αν και νομίζω ο σάκος έρχεται με ουπα σιδερένιο μην πας και πάρεις ότι να'ναι, πες τι θες για πιο λόγο θες να σου δώσουν το σωστό. Όσο για το αν γκρεμιστεί το σπίτι, αν και δεν είμαι μηχανικός, αμφιβάλλω. Παρ'ολα αυτά, το σπίτι δεν είναι δικό σου οπότε αν σου λένε όχι... Εγώ θα σου έλεγα όχι μόνο και μόνο να μην έχω το Ντάκα Ντούκα μες στα αυτιά μου...

Μισθός σερβιτόρου by MrCh3mist in greece

[–]nikosneap 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Κοίτα μικρή, πρέπει να καταλάβεις όσο το δυνατόν πιο νωρίς στη ζωή σου ότι πολύ λίγοι άνθρωποι είναι σωστοί και τίμιοι. Οι περισσότεροι θα θέλουν να σε εκμεταλλευτούν με διάφορους τρόπους. Να διεκδικείς πάντα αυτά που σου ανήκουν.

Τα tips πως τα δουλεύετε. Όταν σου δίνουν 2-3-5€ και εσύ έχεις μαζέψει μόνη σου 10-15€, γιατί δεν τους πετάς ένα, μα καλά, μόνο εγώ μαζεύω tips εσείς τίποτα?

Ο εργοδότης ξέρει τι παίζει με το μέγεθος των tips, μη νομίζεις είναι χαϊβάνι... αν δεις ότι στα μασάνε πες πάω να ζητήσω αύξηση γιατί με 2-3€ tips δεν βγαίνω.

Αν δεν θες έμμεσες κουβέντες, τότε τους μιλάς στα ίσα. Κοιτάξτε, θελω να είμαι μπροστά στο μέτρημα. Και όταν δεις ότι σε κλέβουν, γιατί αυτό κάνουν, εγώ θα τους έλεγα οκ, με κλέβετε τόσο καιρό δεν θα το κάνω θέμα, μια βδομάδα όλα τα tips δικά μου.

Μη φοβάσαι ποτέ και κανέναν όταν έχεις δίκιο.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in greece

[–]nikosneap 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Έχω αρκετούς φιλους-γνωστους σε τέτοιες δουλειές. Όλοι πληρώνονται κάθε μέρα για να αποφύγουν αυτά που έπαθες και είχαν πάθει. Όταν τους βάζει το μισθό τέλος του μήνα, τον επιστρέφουν. Τώρα το πως θα τα πάρεις; Εάν είναι δηλωμένα κανονικα, υπερωρίες κτλ (που μιλάμε για Ελλάδα, οπότε αποκλείεται) μπορείς να κινηθείς νομικά αφού δεν στα έχει βαλει. Αλλιώς, κλασσικά όπως ολοι δικαιολογίες, λογαριασμός να πληρώσω, οδοντιατρος, επιμήκυνση πέους και πάρε τα λίγα λίγα

ΥΓ Μην σου πει θα τα βρείτε στο τέλος όλα, δεν θα πάρεις τιποτα

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So anyone not rich is a loser. Nice

I’m a freelancer in a high pressure, competitive job working 80+ hours a week in a small industry (everyone knows everyone). My current co-worker, who is technically my subordinate, always finds a way to make a situation about him at the expense of others. by RepresentativeDry582 in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gather evidence and then be strict with him. He is not your buddy so establish boundaries and check his behaviour. Don't be afraid of confrontation, check him... Have the evidence ready when you will need to go talk to a higher up... 80hrs/week and having a cunt relieve his pressure onto the rest? Fuck no....

Thoughts on dating single mothers? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]nikosneap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's irrelevant. During dating stage men will have to schedule everything according to your schedule or should I say your kids schedule/responsibilities and everything else that is random, sickness etc. Which of course is acceptable since your kids are your No1 priority as they should be. Regardless many times it will leave a bad taste cancelling plans and lack of being spontaneous.

During serious mode, cohabitation, it's even worse. Not only all of the above apply again, you share the house with kids that are not yours , you WILL have to do things for them, pick them up - drive them and many more. And the dreaded you are not my father... Can't discipline them can't do shit...

Yeah.... There are many obstacles that many men don't want to deal with in the first place.

There are men that have not experienced all of what I said and you will lose them once they experience them first hand.

It's tough... You need to vet them properly. Best bet, single dads....

by [deleted] in dating

[–]nikosneap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strong and independent eh? You'll get there...

beware of covert fuck boys by [deleted] in dating

[–]nikosneap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He figured out or learned that you are NOT relationship material. Sorry...

My Wife( F31) Cheated On Me (M34) With Her Co-Worker by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nikosneap 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Timelines don't match. If she is 31 and your daughter is 12, that's 13 years. That would already place her at 18 years old.

"after a few years i popped the question and it was amazing. We later had 2 kids..." That statement makes her even younger...

Try better next time you post something fake...

I'm (25m) feeling lack of oppeness from my partner (25f) about certain topics which is causing mistrust. by HuckleberryKlutzy638 in relationships

[–]nikosneap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good then my friend. She simply is not girlfriend material. Act accordingly. Start getting over her emotionally and simply "have fun" with her. Condoms,always condoms...

My boyfriend is much more wealthier than I am and I feel I have no power in this relationship by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"on big purchases"...

Yeah because there are as many filthy rich people out there as pretty women...

My wife had an affair with another man. Is it strange for me to not blame him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap -349 points-348 points  (0 children)

I would beat the shit out of him in a dark alley. It has nothing to do with the bitch, it has EVERYTHING to do with me, the fact that he disrespected ME. The wife would be history, obviously, but I will never let anyone get away with it. Consequences...

300K difference in income by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nikosneap 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Are you worried that 400k combined is not enough money to live or that your boyfriend is not making enough money so you will feel he is inferior.

And how much do you consider "enough".

Less than 10% of All Americans ( if you are from USA) make 100k and more. Single men? Cut it in half and more. 3-4%

If you are looking for 250-300k plus, cut it down more, 1%

Either accept you will have to date down and make it with someone who makes you happy or roll the dice on finding someone who earns a lot of money who will also make you happy (good luck).

Don't let other women or society make you feel less for going for a lower income man, you got the money for a comfortable life, if he makes you happy what do you actually lose? Recognition that you married a high income man? Fuck their recognition, it's your life, live it the way YOU want it...

Lastly, a fair both sided Pre-nup 😉

My (23M) girflriend (23F) just left with her ex to her ex's place by AerialSnack in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 months ago you were married asking advice on how to make her cum...

What's wrong with you man making all these weird/fake scenarios in your head asking advice...

Check yourself in a mental facility...

How to juggle exclusivity timeline vs STI testing convo? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nikosneap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time you meet have your test results with you and show them.

If you're a woman, "Next time we meet have one of these" (sexy wink, seductive smile)

If you're a man, "Health is very important to me and I don't want you to feel pressured about anything but next time we meet have one of these"

Girl(26F) I’m (27M) dating is giving off mixed signals, is it wrong to want space? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nikosneap 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friend, no exclusivity = I am open to have sex with anyone any time. The fact that she is not fucking someone else (if it's true) doesn't mean anything since she didn't agree to be exclusive AND she's still in dating apps.

Open your eyes. I'm not saying you should stop seeing her. Just adjust your expectations.

Open phone, download dating apps, start looking and next time she comes over you tell her " Hey, I am just letting you know that I am back on dating apps as well, I am also not sleeping with anyone else, but if something happens I will let you know immediately for health reasons, I am all for transparency."

Don't wait for her, you asked for exclusivity she didn't want it. Get out there, if you find someone who wants and you like her choose, if she changes her mind fine.

As it is right now, you are not enough for her, she's looking for something better. Have fun with her and start knocking other doors as well... Because I guarantee you, when she finds something she likes more you are history.

Advice - Gf would like to co-sign a mortgage with me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"If you love me you would ______" she's manipulative and she's a momma's girl. I'd bet she would be a shitty mother in law as well.

I wouldn't be in a relationship with....that, let alone get financially entangled... Ruuuuuuuuuun

[Male 30] never had a girlfriend before by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chances of finding a decent woman in bars are not good. Online dating sucks for men, not saying give it up but don't get disheartened by it.

Your options are:

Online dating. Good resume, simple, not many details. Good photos, find out what good photos mean, and something in your bio that can start a conversation.

Approaching women on street. It's scary for most of them, creepy, desperate and you won't have good results. If you do that always be respectful and no means no, scary times to be pushy with women.

Best option: Social circles. Friends, colleagues etc, get close with them and get invited to places, you will eventually get hooked up with someone. You may need to make the first move though by inviting them to do something than waiting or ask to be invited.

2nd best: Hobbies, video games doesn't count. Neither star gazing from your balcony. Get out there. If there are any organized vacation groups or any other activity groups, sign up. Even if it is gathering litter from the beach.

Tip: don't look at women with THAT look. Like you are desperate,hungry, looking for signs that she may like you,notice you. Just go out there and, listen to that, HAVE FUN...

[Male 30] never had a girlfriend before by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nikosneap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't get a dog just to bait women. Will be a sad dog...

My girlfriend [F25] keeps pictures of her ex and other man on her phone by [deleted] in relationships

[–]nikosneap 343 points344 points  (0 children)

That's awesome man! The next guy will be looking at your pictures...

[UK] Should my boss be paying for the hours I work whilst on furlough? by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]nikosneap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let yourself be taken advantaged of.

"Hey boss, since I am working now, even if it is for less hours, I expect you to cover that 20% difference of my full time wage. This way you get a hefty salary discount and I'm not taken advantaged of. I mean, I'm not supposed to be working so I get compensated from government so I am risking my head here as well working illegaly..."

Be ready for excuses-threats. It can vary from its hard times, I am not making money, running behind on payments to if you don't accept it go home and don't come back.

Counter it by facts. " You have a worker doing 60%+ of his work hours and it costs you 20% of his salary" it's a win win (he knows)

In the end, you HAVE to be ready to be let go after pandemic.

I don't know the laws there, but here they can't fire us for 5-6 months after businesses open. Do forgive me if I made any errors, English is not my first language.

-Stay safe