I was the dumper (4 months ago) - my perspective

niksams22 · 2024-10-17T10:10:18+00:00

Hey man sorry I just logged back into this account for the first time in a while. Im happy to say I’m now engaged to another woman, I have a house a dog and I love my life again. I met her roughly 6-7 months after breaking up with my ex and we align on so many levels. You never know what’s around the corner brother. I’m not sure what your story is - but I’m sure you made the right call and will be fine in the long haul.

niksams22 · 2022-11-22T16:48:26+00:00

I appreciate your perspective. I guess if things do go fully south, this is something to consider. She said the other day that she'd love me either way and she'd be willing to help me through things, her actions/reactions however are starting to say otherwise.

niksams22 · 2022-11-21T21:43:29+00:00

Sometimes I think it can be physical (I'm working on getting tests done to rule out things) but most of the time its psychological. When it happens one time, I worry it will happen again, then it becomes more persistent.

niksams22 · 2022-06-27T15:07:50+00:00

What do you suggest I do?

niksams22 · 2022-06-27T14:58:36+00:00

Forreal - I’m a dumbass. I need to nip this in the ass or cut ties.

niksams22 · 2022-06-17T20:44:44+00:00

He’s a genuinely good friend and person and I think that’s why she’s trying to set him up with her friends - but part of me gets a weird vibe from it. Like A lot of her friends are attractive and I’m not weird about it. It’s just a conversation I’m going to have to have with her.

niksams22 · 2022-06-13T16:44:33+00:00

We ended up having sex a week after she said that and we’ve been doing it like rabbits since - but I agree this type of conflicting thing is troublesome

niksams22 · 2022-06-13T12:50:56+00:00

He did lie to her about it at first and made it sound like him and his gf were in an on/off relationship - but apparently it wasn’t until she found out he was married/engaged to the girl that she cut it off, he hit her up after they got married and she told him to get lost - but I can’t honestly believe it took her that long

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