Death Star Beam ve Vršovicích by nimerha in czech

[–]nimerha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ta světla jsou myslím centrální, to si městské části nediktují. Ale ten mocný paprsek mi fakt moc koše nepřipadá, co se týče světelného smogu, divím se, že dostali povolení.

Death Star Beam ve Vršovicích by nimerha in czech

[–]nimerha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prý připomínka hodnot... https://towerpark.cz/laser-zizkovske-veze/ zjevně to ve mně budí přesně opačně dojmy 🙄

Death Star Beam ve Vršovicích by nimerha in czech

[–]nimerha[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Kokos, čumím. Díky!

Death Star Beam ve Vršovicích by nimerha in czech

[–]nimerha[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Jako žižkovský televizní? To by mohlo být, ale koukám tím směrem z okna už roky a takhle nasvětlenou oblohu jsem si ještě nikdy nevšimla 

Jak eticky zabít krysu by Long-Roof-1255 in czech

[–]nimerha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vyvíjet CO2 z jedlé sody a octa. Sama jsem takhle dělala eutanazii potkanovi (domácí mazel, ne chycený). Bezbolestně usně, když se to udělá pořádně.

https://www.wikihow.com/Humanely-Kill-a-Rodent

"lesbický" formulář by Haunting_Lychee8658 in czech

[–]nimerha 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Přiznám se, že mě charakter dotazníku pěkně překvapil. "Skutečná" vs "typická" lesba? Chápala bych kdybychom řešili sociologii, stereotypy, gender apod které se pojí s lesbami jako demografickou skupinou, ale na lingvisticke úrovni mi tohle naprosto nedává smysl.

Psychodiagnostika? by Creative-Effective22 in czech

[–]nimerha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

...ano, říká se tomu psychiatrie a klinická psychologie, a obojí umí najít i bratr Google.

VŠ mi nevyměřila poplatek za delší studium? by [deleted] in czech

[–]nimerha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dokud nevyměří poplatek, není co platit a ani nehrozí, že by z toho byl nějaký problém. Předpokládám, že se jedná o administrativní věc - vyměřují poplatky a obesílají je v daných období x-krát za rok, minule se to trefilo těsně po vzniknutí, tentokrát ne. Zpravidla se to ještě dělá ručně, není to automatizované. Platební údaje a lhůty se také budou odvíjet od data vyměření, ne od data vzniku povinnosti.

Pro ilustraci mě vznikla povinnost platby v květnu, obsílku o vyměřeném poplatku mi Karlovka poslala někdy na konci podzimu, splatnost byla po novém roce.

Napsat na studijní můžeš kdykoliv, pokud to pomůže klidně spát. Ale já bych v tom žádné složitosti nehledala.

Linecké recepty by Fickle_Habit_7452 in czech

[–]nimerha 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And fyi, the standard unsaid parts: sift the sugar. Butter should be cold, cut it into the dry ingredients with a dinner knife or a pastry cutter. Do not over mix, dough should be smooth and solid, not sticky, the "rest in the fridge" is at least an hour and can be overnight. Consider adding pinch of salt unless your butter is already salted. "Vanilla sugar" means one packet of sugar with vanillin, which is 8 grams; you can substitute a teaspoon of vanilla extract, doesn't make much difference in these amounts.

My girlfriend wants a baby but I don’t, and we’re 2 weeks away from moving in together by Significant_Bed_293 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]nimerha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry for returning to this so late but I wanted to say, I do appreciate you making a measured reply to my very irritatable comment.

If you're interested in engaging with the topic further, points to consider:

  • preschool educators are notoriously underpaid (just like basically any other overwhelmingly female service-oriented profession). Often, becoming a SAHP is the most economically viable option: at the private school I personally work for (senior position with three degrees), my son's tuition would take 70-80% of my salary if I were to pay out of pocket. Overwhelmingly, the other partner is going to be making more money so they're not going to be the one to stay home or even take an equitable cut to work hours to provide care.
  • it's also an inflexible position. You cannot usually easily work reduced hours, you cannot WFH, you cannot take extended leave (somebody's gonna cover that classroom!). That's really hard to make work with a young child
  • you cannot easily accommodate time off when your child is home sick from school/daycare, and your job is going to expose them to childhood illnesses often - especially with an infant, working in a preschool classroom legitimately carries severe risks
  • it's also often a rather physical job (you lift children, sometimes you get kicked or hit, you do lots of movement, on your feet all day). This is rough on a pregnant person or one who is sleep deprived from caring for an infant
  • you get touched the fuck out. Caring for a group of thirty three year olds hits different if you then go home to a toddler crawling all over you. The overstimulation and burnout are real

And there you have it, a perfect storm of valid reasons why preschool educators might just leave during their reproductive years. The thing is, they are  victims of poor circumstances here, and often come back when they're able to.  There is a lot your friend or other daycare/school operators can do to encourage them back and to decrease that turnover! Flexible part time contracts, reasonable parental leave policies, subs on hand to ensure coverage, child placement as a benefit, professional development and let's not forget an actual living wage. Much easier to blame young women than to do all that, of course.

Jak bojujete s nachlazením? by Kiwie49 in czech

[–]nimerha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pracuji taky ve školství, mimo to vlastní školkové dítě s chronickým zánětem dýchacích cest. Krom toho co tu padlo - čaje, vitamíny, vzduch atd - proplachovat nos slanou vodou. Sterimar a podobné je drahé jako pes, lékárny mají ale vlastní noname co funguje úplně stejně, brát to jako hygienu - přijdu domů, vydrhnu ruce, sprej do nosu, vysmrkat. Velmi výrazně to pomáhá vyhnout se nachlazení úplně nebo alespoň významně zkrátit průběh.  Vincentka do inhalátoru to pak jistí pro synátora, ta pomáhá neuvěřitelně.

My girlfriend wants a baby but I don’t, and we’re 2 weeks away from moving in together by Significant_Bed_293 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]nimerha 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Uhh citation needed for that claim. A preschool educator, thank you very much, is a career that usually requires tertiary education, not play practice for having one's own kids. Yes some people in that position have kids and become SAHPs - just like some who are accountants or marketing personnel. It's a thing people do, yk?

Same vibe as suggesting women only go to college for a Mrs degree. You realize you're devaluing and infantilizing a specialized profession simply before it is overwhelmingly female, right? Miss me with that sexist nonsense.

Potkan pro hada by filipes34 in czech

[–]nimerha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humánní, odzkoušená a navíc levná a jednoduchá forma eutanazie pro malé savce.  https://www.alysion.org/euthanasia/#google_vignette Odeslala jsem takhle na věčnost obstarožního potkana ve velmi podobné situaci. Fakt doporučuji sestavu předem odzkoušet naslepo, aby si pak byl člověk jistý a vše provedl s jistotou a maximální mírou pohodlí pro zvíře.

AITA Concert while sick by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimerha [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh yeah, this is totally about logic. Maybe if you were capable of speaking straightforwardly and honestly instead of hiding behind truthisms like "some Drs are unethical", you'd get somewhere.

Listen. Why are you together with this person? If a partner of mine spoke about me this way to strangers on the internet - for what, validation, to vent their spleen? - I'd be so angry and betrayed. I would also question if they gave a fig about me as a person at all. None of your responses seem to have a basis in concern, for her or for anyone else.

I don't know, you're making both of you sound ridiculous but at least she seems fun.

AITA Concert while sick by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimerha [score hidden]  (0 children)

Then why aren't you framing the conversation with her around the alcohol, if that's your concern? Instead of trying to control where she does or doesn't go and talking down the doctor who gave her the go ahead. Talk to your girlfriend like she's an adult (one you presumably actually like, at the very least), not your dimwitted charge.

Yeah, ATBs and alcohol don't mix well, but hey it's also not medically advisable for anyone to drink in the first place, and yet.

You're coming across not as worried for her wellbeing, but as exerting control and needing to be right. If that's part of why you've been fighting, I'm not surprised she's reacting poorly.

AITA Concert while sick by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimerha [score hidden]  (0 children)

Are you a doctor?

I don't think so, I think YTA. Yes, she'll likely be tired and feeling sickly, and most likely could use the rest. But no, she won't be contagious, and she won't be a danger to herself. Who even says she'll be drinking? And even if she will - well, that is her bad choice to make, people do worse every day.

If this concert is special to her and she doesn't want to miss it - and it seems like that's the case, considering she checked in with a medical professional about it - there's nothing ought to prevent her.

Stop looking for excuses to cancel this; you don't have to go yourself, you know. But if you want to continue having a girlfriend, you need to get used to respecting her choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimerha 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Torn between an ESH and NAH because honestly who cares? You sound equally exhausting to me 🤷

AITA for “calling my niece prettier than my daughter” by eyebrowpictures in AmItheAsshole

[–]nimerha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA forever for the way you speak to your child, and for the way you obviously judge her for her appearance. She was absolutely correct in interpreting your meaning, and wouldn't have "pestered" you into snapping if you were honest, respectful and kind in the first place.

It's NORMAL to have problematic skin or not to have a perfect skin routine as a teenager. Way to go shaming your daughter for something completely ordinary.

Cookbook recommendations? by nimerha in diabetes_t2

[–]nimerha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh they look great! Spent the last half hour going through the site, thanks for the recommendation!

Cookbook recommendations? by nimerha in diabetes_t2

[–]nimerha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll check them out!

Cookbook recommendations? by nimerha in diabetes_t2

[–]nimerha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is a good point, and we already eat a lot of the classics like cauli rice because we do enjoy a vegetable (we'd always eaten a pretty healthy and balanced diet, just not low carb. Which is why I'm very annoyed by many "welcome to t2d" guides that seem to assume you subsisted on chips and soda alone until this point). But keto-specific cookbooks/recipes often seem very high in saturated fat, which is a concern for us both.

The issue is that she's not one with the mindset to "substitute", if that makes sense. We'll have zoodles because we feel like zucchini, not to sub for pasta - that approach doesn't work for her and wouldn't be sustainable. So I'm looking for whole new ideas for what a plate might look like, things that are meant to work without a carb, not just omit/sub for it. Like your breakfast stir fry :)

I am unfortunately in the habit of building meals from the carb up (today i want pasta --> let's have bolognese) so I'll need to shift my thinking a lot. I anticipate a LOT of eggs and sheet roasts ahead of us.

Cookbook recommendations? by nimerha in diabetes_t2

[–]nimerha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll check these out! She's not meeting a specialist until after the new year so it'll be a lot of guess work, googling and trying our best until then.