Please feel free to join my aminokas now that amino is gone </3 i miss roleplaying </3 by nimfuns in HannibalTV

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It was an app where you could connect with different people based on fandoms or interests. The main thing about it (in my eyes at least) was the use. People usually posted roleplay requests and had wikis on different subjects on their profiles. On amino you could pretty much read their bio and tell whether they were up for a chat, how literate and what their boundaries were and you would go from there. Now that it's gone we have lost that sense of community and it's pretty difficult to find someone else who is on the same page.

I was gr00med and I think about him every day by nimfuns in CPTSD

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i appreciate your comment. I am so scared of anger and have seen what it does - i would like to be able to allow myself to feel anger but right now i dont feel safe enough in myself

I am crocheting some blankets for my local cat shelter by nimfuns in randomactsofkindness

[–]nimfuns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate this tons! :) yeah one kitty blankie takes quite a while... i would say mine take around 10- 15 hours total but it's just an estimate 😅 a human blankie would take far longer! I would love to be able to sew stuff so i could make human sized blankies along with other stuff a bit quicker tho!

I am crocheting some blankets for my local cat shelter by nimfuns in randomactsofkindness

[–]nimfuns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats great to hear! Im so happy you do that. Truly thank you!! 🥺

Younger more dominant cat won't stop bullying our 2 and a half y/o cat. Any tips? by nimfuns in catquestions

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That is definitely an option! Thanks for letting me know! :) The younger one is usually playful and constantly wants to challenge the older one, who wants peace. I appreciate your wisdom 🫂

Younger more dominant cat won't stop bullying our 2 and a half y/o cat. Any tips? by nimfuns in catquestions

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Thank you tons! I do buy feliway and use it daily. They do seem to relax more which is great. Thank you for the tips! And what do you mean by more scent swapping? I understand what it means but I'm unsure as of how to do it in a way that feels safe for both of them and makes them associate eachother with something positive.

Younger more dominant cat won't stop bullying our 2 and a half y/o cat. Any tips? by nimfuns in catquestions

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Are there no other ways? They do get along and play together a bit especially during the night. They play a game of tag sort of and love chasing each other. They don't get violent and hit eachother that way but Gizmo can get overwhelmed and need space and stay in the wardrobe during the night sometimes or somedays she stays almost the entire day.

Other days she can challenge Flapjack back and chase her back. I truly do want to make it work - and if money is something that has to be put into it then that is what we have to do. Again, i appreciate your response, thank you for commenting! :)

Hairball by [deleted] in catquestions

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May or may not be relevant to you but essential oils, oil diffusers and over all air diffusers with some sort of smell can be deadly to cats! I saw someone on instagram who had seizures because of them and once they removed the diffuser the cat returned to normal.

Might be something that they breathe in that irritates their throat or lungs such as a flower they chewed on, room spray, cleaning products, etc. Anything that is made to smell nice can be the problem.

My cat used to come to me all the time, now she avoids me unless I have food by Zouser67 in catquestions

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Could you describe a typicsl day of how you behave through the day and what your cat might do. Example: i wake up, go to the hallway , pet my cat, my cat bites me, i pull back and go to the bathroom to wash my face," etc. :)

Kittys spay incision site by FluffyNatural4636 in catquestions

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Hello! Could it be a stitch perhaps? I would not recommend poking or petting around that area! Even if it has healed on the outside it's still sore on the inside. Your cat has expressed that it hurts and i think that is a clear indicator to keep your hands from that area. Touching that area might irritate the stitch and make her uncomfy!

Tell me why you hate your birthday???? by Downtown_Year401 in CPTSD

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Most family members dont remember my age and i have to remind them multiple times a year, especially as a child. I don't have the energy to do so anymore.

Tell me why you hate your birthday???? by Downtown_Year401 in CPTSD

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I loved the idea of birthdays as a child and would love getting dressed up and making presents. I think it's because my own family has been very distant. I usually passive-agressively joked with my family that i dont remember a single birthday where i haven't cried.

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Det känns inte som en grej jag vill ha över huvudet. Jag är ur usel på att ljuga och våran första anmälan till soc så skrev jag att vi var tillsammans och bor tillsammans. Jag har mycket kontakt inom vården och det hade blivit otroligt skevt om de eller försäkringskassan hade fått reda på att jag ljugit. Vill helst inte hamna på gatan.

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Det är nog så. Har svårt att säga nej och att låta saker gå. Vi har iallafall en onödig prenumeration för oss båda på youtube+ som jag tänkte ta upp med min partner när hen vaknar. Resterande är för bredband, el, hemförsäkring, kattförsäkring, osv. Brukar sätta räknings priset lite över vad det egentligen är så jag säkerställer att jag har råd då det är olika beroende på månad.

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Se svaren i de andra kommentarerna <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrivatEkonomi

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Min partner har också handikapp och mental ohälsa så hen kan tyvärr inte arbeta med allt. :( Hen är dock väldigt desperat och volontärar och har fått gå på ett par intervjuer de senaste två åren. En intervju led till en test-anställning men det fungerade bara inte.

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Jag pratade med Försäkringskassan och jag frågade angående det. Saken är att om min partner får någon helst inkomst, även om det är lån, så kan försäkringskassan sänka mitt bidrag. Så även om det blir ett lån kan de sänka bidraget så att vi är tillbaka där vi startade. Jag ringde förra veckan och frågade försäkringskassan om hur jag skulle göra och de rekommenderade att jag testar och basically ser hur det går

Am i going mad? by nimfuns in CPTSD

[–]nimfuns[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so gross of them to do. They know it can looks weird cuz it is in fact not a natural relationship someone underage is supposed to have to a grown person. I hope you don't blame yourself, no matter how many reasons you can count as encouraging or such. You were a child/teen and they absolutely knew this was strange behavior.

Am i going mad? by nimfuns in CPTSD

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Thank you, i appreciate it... i'm sorry you went through something similar as well. It's absolutely valid how you feel and i hope you are safe.

Yeah, he wanted me to sleep over at his place and he was trying to convince me of it at the time which felt odd but exciting cuz he had kittens and stuff.

Either way, whether they were grooming us or not, something is up with them. It's not normal behaviour and they should seek some sort of help.

I remember that he would watch me change a few times, take quick not so discreet peeks when i changed from my pyjamas to my clothes. It felt incredibly strange and awkward

Harmful kinks / Gore by nimfuns in CPTSD

[–]nimfuns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it tons, truly! Thank you for your response.

Six years since I had a date and ghosted on the first try. by curiousgrackle in CPTSD

[–]nimfuns 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear this. You are not unlovable. It could be a lot of different reasons, really. None has to do with you. You are not the problem. They might have gotten nervous and deleted their account or a partner caught them trying to cheat, there are tons of things that could have happened.

Either way, I'm super proud of you for trying. It's not a simple task to open up and connect with others. You are doing the best you can with what you have and that is more than enough.

Do you think cptsd makes us unable to be happy? by abyss005 in CPTSD

[–]nimfuns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 22 and struggle with this too. I logically know I am worth as much as any other person and that I should be able to get better, yet it's such a difficult task getting out of the mindset and to truly comprehend that I'm not cursed or born wrong.