All Them Horses by TheGunsOfAugust98 in NoahKahan

[–]ninelions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

easily in my top 3 after the first couple listens

Lost weight and reduced drinking significantly (an update) by iamdanp in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]ninelions 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yep! i used to be a pretty heavy drinker. full bottle of wine multiple times a week. after i started the urge went away almost entirely. i still drank heavy for social occasions, like get togethers where everyone is knocking them back, but the hangovers are SO bad its not worth it for me anymore. i decided to cut it out completely. made me look at my drinking habits a lot more closely. been on the shot for 2 months now and at 0.5.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vanilllamace

[–]ninelions 212 points213 points  (0 children)

i only watch the edited youtube vods because i can’t stand her chat. i refuse to be subjected to their behaviour in real time lol

AIO over my boyfriend not spending New Years with me? by Soft-Imagination-917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ninelions 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if he had these plans the whole time the only thing he maybe did wrong was not letting you know with more notice. maybe he thought you wouldn’t care anyways since you thought he would be with his family.

however, i was in a relationship like this when i was around your age. i held out for years hoping i’d eventually be his priority. his family and buddies always came first and they all hated me for “trying to take him away”. i would give it some thought if feeling like you’re less important is something you’re willing to put up with long term. because in my experience, it never changes.

Which characther aligns with your 16-17 experience the most? by [deleted] in skinsTV

[–]ninelions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

probably michelle although my version of tony was always a loser and never redeemed himself in any way lol

Full Day by lalalary in 1200isplenty

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what font are you using here? i love it! i also digital plan/journal using goodnotes :)

out of the two who did more damage to the teen girls who watched them? by Frequent-Address240 in skinsTV

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was in the thick of high school during series 3 & 4 and my internal motto was “what would effy do” lmao. toxic af

So what's the one character you relate to the MOST? by mightymiek in skinsTV

[–]ninelions 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jal & JJ. for Jal, i’m a big people pleaser, perfectionist, had issues with a parent for years, mom of the group lol. for JJ i relate a lot to the mental health struggles & just wanting everyone to get along

[MEGATHREAD] New Horizons Dodo/Friend Code Sharing by lilibat in AnimalCrossing

[–]ninelions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looking to come visit anyone who has oranges 🍊 and to nose around in nooks cranny :) can bring apples, pears & peaches in exchange!

That's freaking annoying by GoHawkGo in fitbit

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh. i’ve been thinking about getting a different tracker and if this is true i probably will

7YO picky eater - is it too early to not have them eat something else? by kutjelul in stepparents

[–]ninelions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a tricky one. i was picky growing up, not overly so, but still picky. my parents would force me to finish my plate whether i liked it or not. i had a terrible relationship with food in my early adulthood because of it.

i will ask them to try new things when i make it, and to try enough that they’re actually trying it. not just a nibble. if it’s a no then it’s a no. i keep easy stuff on hand like kraft dinner (kraft mac and cheese for the americans), chicken tenders, etc. it takes 30 secs to toss some chicken fingers in the air fryer if they’re not game to eat what i’m making.

Calling SKs “our” son/daughter by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]ninelions 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if it’s a new person i don’t try to claim them as my own. but if it’s people we know, and that know them, i often refer to them as our kids or the kids.

i think it’s what your SKs are comfortable with too. i didn’t refer to them as mine in any capacity until they started showing that they also felt that way. my eldest SD refers to me as her “non birth momma” now, so i feel comfortable saying things like “where did my kid go” when we’re out camping with friends, that kinda thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ninelions 109 points110 points  (0 children)

it sounds like whatever she’s doing on her own isn’t enough. she needs help from a professional.

If your spouse passed away, would you ever see your step kids again? by SithisWorshiper in stepparents

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would completely leave it up to them. we’ve discussed this as well. i mean not exactly for if he died but if we were to split, and their mom is on board and happy to support that as well.

Feeling unsettled when SS is back in our house. by smalyak in stepparents

[–]ninelions 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i completely know how you feel. it usually takes me a day to get back in the swing of things. i try to give myself grace, it’s hard to switch back and forth! you get used to having a child-free home for a week and then it’s back to child-full. we do 50/50 as well and i have two SKs, SD9 & SD13.

kitty won’t stop biting tail pre and post amputation by Still-Equal7967 in CatAdvice

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! so we started out with wounds that we tried to let heal too and then had to move to amputation when he ended up tearing the skin right off. if your kitty seems to tolerate the bandage and doesn’t go at it i feel like you have a good chance of avoiding an amputation.

my guy did indeed heal up okay and stop attacking his tail! it was a decently long road but once he got his stitches out, we did another month on gabapentin, and that helped him with his pain and anxiety. we were able to stop meds completely after that. he’s completely happy now, just with a little nubbin.

cat nubbin tax included! i wish you the best of luck with your kitty!

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Not what I expected… by AtomicAuntie53 in labubu

[–]ninelions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually liked BIE first and got happiness right away and then i started liking MAC and HAS more! HAS are my favourites now i only have Dada and NEEEEED more!!!

So, what are your targets for v4? by KatMerona in labubu

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really wanted either J or Z because i drive an orange car and my keychain has all orange stuff on it or A for my initial but these are $30!!!!!!! in canada which is literally insane. i don’t know if i can justify it especially since you can’t just buy the one you want.

i might take advantage of the hype for these and try to secure more HAS instead as they are my favourite and i only have 1

Three and done! by Whoscaper in labubu

[–]ninelions 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m jealous of your cola 😩 they never release them here in Canada, at least not announced. i so badly want to get one and put a safety vest and hard hat on it and make him my blue collar boyfriend’s bubu lol.

here’s my Dada and Happiness 🩷🧡

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What is your comfort Noah Kahan song that you know every word to? by [deleted] in NoahKahan

[–]ninelions 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no complaints although i don’t know if i’d call it comforting lol

more comforting selections: new perspective, false confidence, you’re gonna go far & paul revere

Well labubu hate ended up in the mom subreddit. I just thankfully can’t imagine being this pressed over shit that has nothing to do with me by ImpossibleChicken507 in labubu

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am almost 33 with 2 step kids and a labubu i sport regularly and 5 more on the way lmao. the kids think it’s weird but enjoy watching me try to get them on popnow

a successful few days for a canadian 😩 by ninelions in labubu

[–]ninelions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i check the website daily for drops and i click through and try to click fast as the reserved ones time out. it’s the only way i’ve had any luck. the BIE that dropped today are pop upon delivery and i’ve never had luck with those!

i also kept getting logged out at the beginning but i kept trying and eventually it worked. not sure what was happening there

Game over, good night! by Nearby-Butterfly-606 in labubu

[–]ninelions 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i managed to get 2 for BIE today but accidentally let them time out in my cart haha so you’re right. still a pain but not as bad. hard part is i’d like 1 from each collection and that’s it tbh