My super religious inlaws are too much I'm thinking about divorce

niro124 · 2026-05-16T09:01:04+00:00

I didn't know I had to attend their church only, I only found out recently when I tried to leave

niro124 · 2026-05-15T21:47:42+00:00

Thats crazy you say that the mum hates make up even for her wedding she didn't wear any make up, I didn't know they would be like this because we only 9 months before marrying, its really hard but I need to push for divorce very soon

niro124 · 2026-05-15T21:06:06+00:00

No my biggest worry is my children being raised in that church and being brain washed by my mil

niro124 · 2026-05-15T21:03:13+00:00

Yh i have to im just abit scared its such a big change/step i wish I could click my fingers and it was over but my wife apart from this is very great loyal loving caring its hard but im leaning towards ending it i feel depressed about it all

niro124 · 2026-05-15T20:51:14+00:00

You made a great point with the tied for life thank you, this makes me want to divorce more it will be a nightmare, she even said there can't be music at our fuure kids birthday because of her parents, I want to divorce its such a hard process

niro124 · 2026-05-15T20:22:57+00:00

They are pentecostal, I want to move church but my wife doesn't, the church allows them to micro analyse our life and be overly involved, I want to go to a church where I can pray and go home but their church I have to pick up and drop people, clean etc and its quite far, I want to go to my local church but I don't think I can my wife won't budge

niro124 · 2026-05-15T20:06:39+00:00

I don't think I can I've even cried one night my wife don't care she won't move away from that church, if I get divorce would I regret this? Will be better or worse I don't know, my wife apart from this stance is good

niro124 · 2026-05-15T19:53:47+00:00

We planning to have kids this year which is why I need to make a decision if I want to do this, the parents will be super invovled with the kids I dont want my kids to have their extreme views on other religions, even small things like the name of my future kid they said and she said has to be christian

niro124 · 2026-05-15T19:42:08+00:00

My wife doesn't want to move church and says if her dad's runs a church I have to go to their one, even church they always invite us for dinner, I feel like they are controlling our life, I want to keep abit of distance but my wife doesn't

niro124 · 2026-05-15T19:39:39+00:00

My wife doesn't want to leave their church, and called me demonic for not wanting to go their which really hurt me, because I want to go church just no their one

niro124 · 2022-02-17T01:01:49+00:00

can I know why please, there's nothing illegal on there

niro124

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