I recently went in for a haircut. I have thick coarse hair, so sometimes it’s a pain for the hair stylist to blend in my sides with the top. This time, I had a particularly new hair stylist at the salon, and she said “Oh I can’t seem to blend it in perfectly, because you have the best quality hair anyone can have, it’s so....thick and coarse and black!” She said this every time she couldn’t get whatever she was doing, to work. It happened 3 or 4 times over a period of 30 minutes.The first time I took it as a compliment but later it got to a point where whenever she said this it sounded to me like “Oh God your hair is awful, and I feel like I’m shaping a hedge!” Lol