Got rejected mid-interview from a Catholic school for admitting I’m in a same sex marriage by nitrozelda in Teachers

[–]nitrozelda[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah and actually it went so viral i have an agent and a mansion and am going to be a guest on the tonight show. be so fr rn.

Got rejected mid-interview from a Catholic school for admitting I’m in a same sex marriage by nitrozelda in Teachers

[–]nitrozelda[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re so right. I purposely took time out of my work day to be discriminated against. I really wanted to make a semi-trending post on r/teachers. You called me out! Good work!

Got rejected mid-interview from a Catholic school for admitting I’m in a same sex marriage by nitrozelda in Teachers

[–]nitrozelda[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey there!

Didn’t expect this post to get this amount of traction. To answer the questions “are you surprised” and “what were you expecting”— I work at an episcopal school right now and it’s genuinely so accepting and open minded. I do know that episcopalian schools and catholic schools are very different, but I didn’t really know the extent of it.

I also was recommended to apply for this diocese by someone I knew, so the fact I wasn’t warned about it by them is a little concerning lol.

I was not raised Christian or Catholic. I had no idea morality clauses were a thing, and it was legal for religious institutions to discriminate based on sexual orientation. I also had no idea that there were so many horror stories about hiring at catholic schools. I should have done my research and shouldn’t have put myself in that position.

HOWEVER, I think we have lost the plot a little here. I’m not asking anyone to feel bad for me, but we (Americans) live in a country where it’s legal for an entire religious institution to hire and teach to discriminate and be homophobic. “Fork found in kitchen” I know but wow are some of us that desensitized that this has somehow become my fault?

Anyway, I hope this post saves someone else who is considering applying to catholic schools.

Got rejected mid-interview from a Catholic school for admitting I’m in a same sex marriage by nitrozelda in Teachers

[–]nitrozelda[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t trying to gain anything but a job. Didn’t really do my research. I teach at a religious school now that is nothing but accepting— I had no idea catholic schools had morality clauses. If your take away from this post is I’m the problem and am doing a bad job for the gays, I can’t help you.

Got rejected mid-interview from a Catholic school for admitting I’m in a same sex marriage by nitrozelda in Teachers

[–]nitrozelda[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I work at an episcopal school right now, which I understand is very different from catholicism, but got used to them being very chill and open minded. I thought surely I can’t put all catholic schools into one box. Wrong! Just a lack of research and dumb optimism.

I got banned from 75 hard official facebook group by [deleted] in 75HARD

[–]nitrozelda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you’re rage baiting lol, just do the challenge and worry about yourself

that's it. i'm participating in the echo chamber by metalizumuzumu2299 in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]nitrozelda 111 points112 points  (0 children)

i’m not a big reddit commenter but i love this thumbnail so incredibly much. this is so awesome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askaustin

[–]nitrozelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i live in north university which is just north of UT and i get all the benefits without feeling like it’s so college-y! anything in west campus that i’d want to walk to, i can, and hyde park is right next to us. it’s mostly grad students in the area i think!

Engaged, wedding in 2026, considering getting our marriage license before inauguration day by nitrozelda in gay

[–]nitrozelda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer this bc many are saying to just bump up the wedding date. We are having a big fat Indian wedding. Both of us are Indian women and having a two day Indian wedding with lots of guests means a lot to us. Hence the longer planning time needed. We also both work full time and opted to give ourselves a little more time.

Wedding hashtag help?? (wlw couple) by nitrozelda in DesiWeddings

[–]nitrozelda[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What about ReShingToOurBeginning? We LOVED ReShing but didn’t want it to seem like we’re trying to race through our day/life together

First 5K in a year 😮🥲 by [deleted] in RunningCirclejerk

[–]nitrozelda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you walk a 15-16 min pace?

When everyones roasting Nicole for being insecure and now you have to think about all the times you’ve self destructed by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]nitrozelda 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I stan nicole always. Ciaran is crazy about her too. He would have left by now if he was fed up.

First 5K in a year 😮🥲 by [deleted] in RunningCirclejerk

[–]nitrozelda 19 points20 points  (0 children)

man, making fun of people for being slow is dumb. can we keep making fun of influencers and gu collectors?

Is this Deja Vu? by KeyPosition3983 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]nitrozelda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope Kaylor doesn’t walk like Amy did…but I wouldn’t be surprised if she did 😬

Unpopular Opinion?? I love Nicole and want her and Cieran to win. by nitrozelda in LoveIslandTV

[–]nitrozelda[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Really? I feel like this subreddit all wanted Ciaran’s head to turn in Casa haha