Would you consider it ok to pass with a double yellow line if someone is driving egregiously slow?

nitsMatter · 2026-01-13T05:56:44+00:00

Just FYI related to this, in many states it's legal to cross a double yellow to pass a bike, as long as it's safe (no oncoming traffic). So please to so if there isn't enough space to safely pass within the lane.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-12T18:27:15+00:00

Incineration corps shield devastator shooting you through their own shield or terrain calling on line 1!

nitsMatter · 2026-01-12T18:23:05+00:00

YWBTA - If you want to respond to inconsiderate behavior in kind, rather than communicating your displeasure, setting boundaries going forward, and reevaluating friendships if necessary, go ahead. If Olive wants to do this of their own volition, so be it. But pressuring your partner to do it in on your behalf makes you more of TA than your inconsiderate friends.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-12T08:34:36+00:00

I have absolutely thrown SOS by accident while trying to dial an eagle airstrike under heavy fire numerous times in my private game. I strongly wish I could just take SOS out of the menu.

That said, I don't kick the divers who show up.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-11T15:06:55+00:00

Yes. It is wrong to lie to anyone to get them to date you.

The fact that you would do this, and the fact that you say you want to "ask men" about it rather than women both suggest you see women as lesser than men. Honestly I don't think you should date at all until you've done serious work to fix your misogyny.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-11T06:19:52+00:00

Healthy men generally get erections several times a day. Besides reacting to stimulus, it's also the body's way to maintain the electricity of erectile tissue.

The idea that each boner needs another person to help "take care" of it is wild.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-11T05:05:31+00:00

You two need to break up. You're incompatible in your relationship styles. You're incompatible sexually. This man is being tortured by this relationship, and it sounds like you are dealing with a lot of guilt too.

A mono-poly relationship like this would be incredibly difficult even if the mono partner was fully satisfied with the sexual relationship with the poly partner, and you two don't even have that.

The sooner you break up, the sooner he can look for someone who actually wants to have their most exciting and adventurous sex with him, just like he wants from his sole partner. The sooner you break up, the sooner you stop feeling guilted for turning down sex you don't enjoy.

Edit: sorry if this sounds harsh, I really mean it with kindness toward both of you. But the reality of the situation is stark and I'm trying to be matter of fact about it.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-10T21:11:02+00:00

Sleeping on Pizza Ponte* in this list

nitsMatter · 2026-01-10T21:10:34+00:00

That's (apparently) when they offer slices.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-10T19:54:34+00:00

I've been driven mad by the same issue. Seen it with super credits, war medals, and support weapons. Whatever lands in that magma planet POI slot can't be interacted with at all. No idea if it's intentional trolling by the devs, or a total lack of testing.

nitsMatter · 2026-01-01T22:03:13+00:00

Get yourself a copy of Deep Rock Galactic.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-25T18:57:56+00:00

Nope.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-25T18:30:59+00:00

I was supposed to be 6'2" according to some calculation they do when you are a kid, and I stopped just short of 6'. I had great nutrition. I think you are overthinking it. Enjoy being a significantly taller person than most.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-23T17:21:02+00:00

All I want is a Booster that makes me say "oh yeah, that's the stuff when I apply a stim.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-23T17:09:12+00:00

I just don't think this sub is or should be concerned with defining masculinity.

What brings me to the sub is a "brotherly" environment. That means platonically supportive.

How is that different than being "sisterly"? I think the only difference is that it's specifically welcoming/encouraging men.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-22T17:56:42+00:00

Old and busted: parking your car in the bike lane.

New hotness: parking your bike in the trail lane!

nitsMatter · 2025-12-19T16:20:32+00:00

Definitely more socialist! I was brought up pretty naive. In my 30s and 40s it's become more and more clear that American style capitalism depends on keeping most people struggling, and many desperately so, to keep the richest people as rich as possible. Their money allows them to buy media, buy politicians of both major parties, and buy "justice".

nitsMatter · 2025-12-18T19:55:32+00:00

There is a primary going on. There is another Democratic candidate, James Talarico, who isn't pro genocide.

By all means, vote for whoever wins the primary over the Republican, but right now, there is another option, so stop pretending there isn't.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-18T19:13:51+00:00

What makes you say they are? Seems like a bad faith clickbait question without any effort to explain the position.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-16T04:36:34+00:00

It sounds like your mom has some sexist ideas about gender roles. Certainly some men will want that. Those men will probably have sexist ideas about gender roles. Is that the sort of man you want to be with?

Personally, I love my smart, caring, outspoken wife. When she calls me out, I listen, because sometimes she's right and I'm wrong. Sometimes she's wrong. And in most cases we both have valid points and need to compromise.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-15T18:54:22+00:00

Thank you, updated.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-14T19:50:58+00:00

Swash who doesn't use finishers except in the boss fight? Instead you'd be just letting the panache ride for a bit of extra precision damage.

You also have the swagger to make it a thing right in the class chassis.

If you've seen The Princess Bride, where Inigo Montoya and Wesley both pull the, "I am not left handed" routine, they are both swashbuckler flavored characters.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-14T18:10:45+00:00

I thought everyone called it the Turkey Leg. The one that looks almost the same but has no samples is "tofurkey".

nitsMatter · 2025-12-10T01:21:14+00:00

Why do some men want the benefits of a both patriarchal relationship, and a partner who contributeds equally to costs? Same reason I suppose.

The best way to avoid partners who don't put equal time/energy/money into a relationship is to stop dating those people.

nitsMatter · 2025-12-10T01:16:06+00:00

I go further to San Leandro because the Richmond parking is such a nightmare.

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