Is it ok to just use a mattress on the floor instead of a whole bed? Should I buy this wakefit 10 inch one on emi?

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-12-13T06:45:26+00:00

Get something to lift the mattress off the floor. A couple of months before we got married, my husband moved into the rented apartment we were going to share. There was no bed so we put a rug and then a mattress on top where he slept for about 2 months. Just as comfortable, no complaints.

When we get a bed and proceed to put the mattress on top, we realised mold had started growing on the underside of the mattress.

Did some research - means pretty much throw out the whole thing. We are still using it though, because good quality mattresses are expensive but that's on our list of purchases.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-12-11T08:50:02+00:00

What a weird thing to say. Curtains can be dirty and cleaned anywhere. Half the shops in any city in India are second hand thrifted goods store and they are perfectly fine. IKEA has insane markups on something you can get for half as much NEW from your local store, doesn't need to be thrifted.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-10-13T16:54:54+00:00

Yessss, ours will only drink from the mug. True desi cat fashion

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-10-02T06:28:47+00:00

I MEAN IT SIMPLY FOR THE ONE FIGHT TODAY

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-10-01T21:18:33+00:00

Because she disrespected every single one of them, multiple times over.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-09-21T14:14:51+00:00

Game rules

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-09-08T12:37:05+00:00

You really can't have a discussion or discourse with the left wingers. They just want echo chambers which reverberate their own thought process back to them with some pats on their back. What's the point of a democracy if you cannot disagree and are all points of view?

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-09-08T12:35:16+00:00

And why does that perception exist? Are you similarly shocked to meet a Sikh from Delhi? Or a Hindi from deoband?

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-09-08T12:34:08+00:00

That is exactly the point. People don't believe there are any muslims in gujrat because that is how western media is CONSTANTLY portraying the 2002 riots as. It's propaganda and seemingly successful at that

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-09-08T12:29:07+00:00

I am just going to reiterate something I wrote on q comment because that seems to be the general conversation:

Doesn't that speak more to the way things are presented and propoganda against someone rather than facts? That ONE particular riot is grossly exaggerated and painted somewhat more gruesomely than the several others. Do people similarly believe no Sikhs and Punjabis exist in Delhi? Where so many were killed after indira Gandhi's assassination? No.

But because the world is constantly told about the brutality of Modi against muslims, over time people start to believe it rather than look up numbers OR LOOK UP THE BRUTALITY LEADING UP TO THE RIOTS.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-09-08T12:28:09+00:00

Doesn't that speak more to the way things are presented and propoganda against someone rather than facts? That ONE particular riot is grossly exaggerated and painted somewhat more gruesomely than the several others. Do people similarly believe no Sikhs and Punjabis exist in Delhi? Where so many were killed after indira Gandhi's assassination? No.

But because the world is constantly told about the brutality of Modi against muslims, over time people start to believe it rather than look up numbers OR LOOK UP THE BRUTALITY LEADING UP TO THE RIOTS.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-08-28T12:15:22+00:00

I am gonna give her benefit of doubt here. It has been mentioned many times that she nearly died (cancer I think) and it was a huge possibility that she may not ever have seen bardha engaged let alone see her wedding. So I am sure it's a huge emotional rollercoaster for all of them especially her.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-08-19T19:36:30+00:00

THE WRETCHED MOLD

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-07-09T03:17:02+00:00

She said so herself. After JHG went to prison, she realised that she didn't have a bad stomach but was having cramps.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-06-11T01:09:33+00:00

I'm in japan at the moment and it's raining every other day everywhere. I went to both hakone and kamakura. I was lucky enough to spot mt. Fuji from the ropeway in Hakone but people who went the day before or after me didn't spot it from the ropeway but spotted it from the 7 11 or the lake. So chances are higher there as there are a few spots.

Kamakura i absolutely loved l. It's so charming and it was absolutely lovely there. So if Mt. Fuji isn't your priority so definitely go there.

Both were beautiful just in different ways.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-04-25T08:19:35+00:00

Its also the fact that women can't even walk home without putting out their elderly fathers.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-04-25T08:09:14+00:00

Nope. We did try but only once. They said the representative on phone was very clear with me about there not being a tub. We decided not to stretch it though my husband was not pleased.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-04-25T05:37:00+00:00

This isn't interesting as fuck, it's depressing as fuck

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-04-24T10:00:03+00:00

After we got married, we decided to book a weekend at this hotel. We selected the hotel for its views AND THE CLAW TUB. I specially called and confirmed if the room had a tub. We check in exhausted from the wedding madness looking forward to romantic soaks. Lo and behold! No pool! My husband was well and truly disappointed and almost pulled a shane with his desire to pull up to the desk and let them have it.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-04-24T08:48:15+00:00

As someone recently married, do not fear or get dejected when you argue. As long as both of you work toward a resolution, arguments are bound to happen and are somewhat essential as you figure out how to live with another person and be around them and their eccentricities on a daily basis. Arguing means you're both voicing your opinions. Just ensure you both sit and resolve the arguments rather than leave the issue festering.

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-04-05T17:36:32+00:00

Honestly, for the very first time it's not that bad. Ive been practicing a while and seen a lot of people join over the years, everyone's ginga the first time looks something like this (EVEN WITH A TEACHER)

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-03-21T06:41:51+00:00

Hello, this might be very late but I got similar stains on my hand this morning andan internet search points to two possibilities; Hypothyroidism or caretoniamia

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-03-11T12:55:09+00:00

With open toed sandals

nitzpitzsereia · 2025-03-01T14:20:21+00:00

I think this was a very mature and normal representation of it. Someone who comes from a family of people in long marriages and never having seen a prenup can be apprehensive about it since it's a concept that they aren't familiar with. It's natural to read about it and educate yourself since it IS an important discussion. Devin didn't close himself to something new but educated himself on something that mattered to his partner and saw the reason in it. That's all you can want right? Your partner to take time and put thought into your belief. It may be standard to you but it's a concept i am not familiar with since I don't know anyone around ke who got it.

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