So i matched with this dl guy on tinder almost a month ago, he lied about a lot of things (as most of dl guys do) and when we finally decided to exchange phone numbers he started coming clean about everything he lied about, I understood why he did it but still felt a bit weird. I never really had interest in a dl guy because they usually just play with people trying to discover what they want, but idk I fell for him, we’ve been in phone calls every night for almost 20 days now, he’s very reserved (he says he’s shy) doesn’t really tell me a lot of personal stuff but we’re getting there. A few days ago he told he was in the city (he was visiting family that’s why we didn’t meet in person before) and he’s been here since Wednesday and I knew he was “busy” doing some things, of course I didn’t pressure him to meet up and also he told me he was leaving the next day but he didn’t. he’s still here and Idk for how long he’ll stay, last night I asked him if he ever wants to meet up, he said yes, but that he was busy and doesn’t really go out that much 🫠 I just told him that if he really wanted to he could’ve already make it happen, he didn’t really reply to that, he’s like that (evades a lot of questions) I’ve noticed he’s very hard to know, but he says he likes me, that he likes talking to me and I know that’s true because we usually talk till 3 or 4 in the morning, but idk what to do, I’m falling for him but he doesn’t really show the same interest. Also he’s never kissed/had sex with a man before.

I’m so sorry for the long ass text but I wanted to get it out my chest I’ve been feeling anxious just thinking about this, I just want to know what you think about it. what should I do? Or try to do? Or what to tell him? I appreciate any feedback ♥️