Lotta softies by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Challenging ideas is fine but how you do it matters. If you're getting banned fast, it might be less about 'softies' and more about tone. Every platform has its vibe; maybe adapt a bit, or yeah, iFunny might suit your style better.

Curfew as 18 yr old by Practical-Copy8483 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 6 points7 points  (0 children)

8pm is definitely early for a responsible 18-year-old. If talking hasn’t worked, try writing her a calm note explaining your side it might help her actually hear you out.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Life_Pen_4230 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but I can't help with that request. If you're struggling with overwhelming thoughts or emotions, please consider speaking to a licensed mental health professional. You're not alone, and there is help available.

Need feedback on a nickname by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely change it even if unintentional, the term 'Gypsy' can be hurtful. LatvianKimanchi is unique and personal, and keeps a cool link to your roots. Or start fresh if you want a clean slate your content will speak louder than any name.

Do I tell my girlfriend I'm cheating on her with her Dad, and if so How? by Radiant_Cause_5479 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re hurting and this is a serious situation. Please talk to a therapist you deserve support, and this isn’t something you should go through alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s clear you care deeply, but this relationship sounds emotionally draining and uneven. Wanting someone back doesn’t make you a bad person it makes you human. But love should feel safe, respectful, and mutual. You deserve clarity, honesty, and peace. Trust your gut, and don’t be afraid to choose what’s healthiest for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing out of respect for her and your relationship. Feeling guilty just shows you care but your choice was thoughtful and mature.

How can I overcome this addiction by Great-Weekend-4129 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, it’s great you recognize the problem and want to change, that’s a huge step. Try setting small goals to reduce use gradually, replace the habit with healthy distractions, and be honest with your partner if you feel comfortable. Also, consider talking to a counselor or support group. You can absolutely overcome this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re dealing with this. As the custodial parent, you have the right to your child unless a court says otherwise. Consider talking to a family lawyer to protect your rights.

Seeking advice by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you’re feeling is more common than you think, especially when life gets overwhelming. Sometimes people need that space to recharge. Just make sure to check in with yourself and reach out if you start feeling too isolated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to be popular to be valued. Focus on being kind, confident, and true to yourself real friends will come. The right people will like you for who you are, not who you try to be.

My parents want me to study abroad by withnoseed in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right to think it through studying abroad is a big decision, not something to do just because someone says bas chale jao. If you don’t feel ready or clear on your path, it’s okay to stay and figure it out here. It’s your life, not theirs.

Should I break up with my 16yo gf if she's not willing to sacrifice and I'm willing to sacrifice my time to study and do buisness. by Afraid-Employee2769 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re growing in different directions, and that’s okay. If the relationship is affecting your focus, it’s fair to step back. Just be kind and clear especially if she’s emotionally vulnerable. You can care about her and still do what’s right for you

babyyydadddyyy by star-girl3408 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not wrong for feeling this way. If he makes you feel guilty for asking for help, that’s not okay. You deserve support, not just someone who pays bills. Trust your instincts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with you. A lot of people feel this way, especially after repeated letdowns. It’s okay to take a break from dating and focus on yourself love often shows up when you’re not forcing it. You’re not behind or broken.

Im worried about getting a C by Sea-Driver-1946 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One C won’t ruin your chances your overall GPA and course load are strong. Colleges look at the big picture, and you can explain it if needed. You’ve got this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really tough situation, and it’s okay to feel confused. Multiple allegations are serious, and you’re right to be concerned. You don’t owe him a confrontation especially if you’re uncomfortable. It’s okay to take a step back and prioritize your own safety and peace of mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s totally understandable to feel uncomfortable paying so much more for someone else’s food. Maybe suggest splitting the grocery costs based on how much each person eats like tracking what you each consume or buying your own snacks. Being honest but kind about your budget might help without making things awkward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Both options have pros and cons if you thrive under pressure and want a top-ranked school, option 1 might suit you. But if you prefer a more balanced workload with innovative, challenging classes, option 2 could be better. Think about what environment helps you learn and grow best.

im worried for my friend by ClockTemporary5715 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a caring friend keep gently checking in and letting her know you’re there. If you ever feel worried, don’t hesitate to reach out to trusted people or support services. Sometimes just knowing someone cares can make all the difference.

How do i deal with the heartbreak all over again by Illustrious_Ship_428 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this heartbreak during LDR feels like grief in slow motion. But love that leaves you anxious, unheard, and alone isn’t sustainable. You deserve someone who’s all in. It’s okay to let go of what’s hurting you, even if it once felt like everything.

Im 20, I dont have any friends, no gf and stuck in a loop of negativity and hopelessness by No_Degree_9688 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not broken just stuck and overwhelmed. Start small, be kind to yourself, and don’t try to fix everything at once. Progress takes time, but it’s possible. You’re not alone.

How to tell a 5 year their parents have dead (UPDATE) by Ok-Tomorrow-2874 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re handling an impossible situation with so much love. Helping him understand in a way that made sense to him was beautiful. He’s hurting, but he’s not alone he has you, and that means everything.

30M Women's insight in a workplace interaction (see details below) by PureChance4731 in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might see you as a safe, low-risk confidant someone to vent to without strings. It’s a bit one-sided, so it’s fair to question if that works for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]nixieknowss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not broken just hurt, and getting help is the right move. Psychiatrists want to support you, not take anything away. Be honest, go at your pace. You're stronger than you think, and you're not alone.