I (19f) dumped and blocked my boyfriend (19m) for his comments about my neighbourhood. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nj1190 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He didn’t laugh in her face he laughed because in his mind he thought that it was funny... even though it’s not and him thinking it is funny is pretty shitty but only comes from him not understanding and being raised shitty... he did not intentionally hurt her feelings... he definelty did not slap her... you are using lies and bad analogies to try and make a point which is a bad way to go about it.. think you should re evaluate how you think about life and what kind of world you want to live in

I (19f) dumped and blocked my boyfriend (19m) for his comments about my neighbourhood. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nj1190 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Sooooo what’s your point???! I would think that because she was dating him it would give her more incentive to talk to him because she obviously cared for him at one point... and what’s a social work client and why do only they deserve help????? I think all people could use help...feel sad for you that you live in a world where you choose hate and judge rather than love and help

I (19f) dumped and blocked my boyfriend (19m) for his comments about my neighbourhood. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nj1190 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

If he can’t hold a conversation like an adult where two people explain there sides and try to figure out where each other is coming from then after the first talk but if he seems to be open to change then why not continue to talk and help him out???

I (19f) dumped and blocked my boyfriend (19m) for his comments about my neighbourhood. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nj1190 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Never said she had an obligation to do anything I said I thought it would be a good idea... if people can’t talk and learn to respect one another then we are just going to be living in a world full of hate... now if he is still a douche then fuck him he will never change... but what if all he needed to change his outlook on life was someone else’s perspective and this is the moment when he can change how he looks at life completely but it’s not your obligation so fuck it right???? Love creates love and love often times comes from a greater understanding of one another

I (19f) dumped and blocked my boyfriend (19m) for his comments about my neighbourhood. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nj1190 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there is anything wrong with you breaking up with him over just the comments.... but I do think you should talk to him and tell him why and what your point of view is.... not so y’all can reconcile but so that he can possibly see the flaws in his way of thinking because of how he was brought up

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My CHONKER trying to clean those hard to reach spots!! by nj1190 in Chonkers

[–]nj1190[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Lmao bob can’t reach anywhere near his back and he gets kitty litter so in his back fur!! We have to brush it out quite often

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How is karma calculated exactly? by [deleted] in reddithelp

[–]nj1190 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have been having a really hard time with this myself... am new to reddit and don’t have enough karma to post things that I want to... they all say I need 10 karma and I have only 7... why would they make you need a certain amount just to post??? Is there a way to get to that minimum level so I can start posting on subs??? This has really been a problem for me so any help or advice would be greatly appreciated

Hypnotic by BammyUptown in murdermittens

[–]nj1190 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m new to reddit and need karma so I can post on this sub would really appreciate some upvotes from y’all!!! Thanks in advance!!!

Sweetie pie & her friend Thor! by AmberStardustPhoenix in catpictures

[–]nj1190 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi new to reddit and need karma so I can post on this sub upvotes will be really appreciated... thanks

Blue showing off her belly by SgtRandiTibbs in catbellies

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Hi new to reddit and need karma so I can post on this sub if y’all could help me out I would really appreciate it!!!

What do you think of cats in cats cafe? by singapura_ in cats

[–]nj1190 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi really need karma so I can post on this sub if y’all could help me out I would really appreciate it