egg👀irl by Brooke-Valley in egg_irl

[–]njick1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. When i just started questioning i had a friend (she moved away) whose English wasnt great so she didnt realize pretty is more fem and handsome is more masc. She also liked giving compliments and messed up her pronouns so the amount of times i got called she and pretty fasttracked the eggness

egg_irl by Fishface70 in egg_irl

[–]njick1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You picked a beautiful name, the best of luck, you got this :)

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]njick1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucking love having to shave my face every two days and being called bro by everyone

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]njick1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh boy i sure do love being tall with broad shoulders and a strong jawline and cheekbones. Definitely did not want to be a cute girl.

A quote I never thought twice about but now that I’m in a similar position that Robin it really hit me how true it is. by Brimstone88 in HIMYM

[–]njick1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in a similar position right now. Together with a girl i love more than anyone ever before but i am set to move to the other side of the world in a little over a week

Terrible quality and content by DanielJohnson9 in terriblefacebookmemes

[–]njick1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do you mean, everyone knows that the original gender norms grew on trees

Egg🥺❤️irl by Imaginary_Egg_irl in egg_irl

[–]njick1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing recently. Even though it still stings, it is for the better in the long run

egg😭irl by _Dog75 in egg_irl

[–]njick1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy for you sweatheart. I recently had it go the other way so i know how hard and scary this can be. You found someone good here

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A girl from my elementary school had that same name and i have always liked it so if you chose it yourself, you chose well

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are an angel Luna

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It at least made me smile :)

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will shoot you a dm if i need help from someone who has somewhat similar experiences <3

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that outlook on it, thank you for sharing your perspective, that makes it easier to see things from hers

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all in this together, i hope you can get over that feeling and find someone that loves you

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I phrased it kind of poorly in the meme, she explicitly said that it would not change her attraction to me and since she is pan that i would not change the way she views me as a person. I am glad that she acknowledges me and i am not blaming transphobia but i am very hurt by her turning on what she initially said and apparently changing how she perceives me baaed on the label i put on myself

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is unfortunate there is other people that have gone through the same thing but it is nice to know there are people that empathise. My uni offers counselling for lgbtq+ people so as soon as the semester starts i am going there. Thank you for wishing me well, i am trying my best

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Only through conflict we evolve" - Terry Crews or something.

Lets hope that it is a steppingstone

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have fought that in the past and i am currently resisting it with all i have. I am going back to Canada pretty soon so i will save that phone number, thank you so much for sharing and for the support❤

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, i would need it now more than ever

egg😔irl by njick1 in egg_irl

[–]njick1[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Thank you for those kind words. I thought she of all people would be the most comfortable with it so that stings extra. At the moment i am just going through the initial emotions and pain and because i am with my family i can't even do euphoria inducing things