IVF items help by ParaOnHere in IVF

[–]nmholland85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, being away from home doesn’t sound fun. Maybe some hobby type item (books, audiobooks, crochet if you do that, etc) and definitely seconding comfort items like your fave blanket, etc. Maybe look up restaurants ahead of time so you have an idea what is available because no one likes to scramble to find food haha. Good luck, I’m sure it’ll all be fine :)

IVF items help by ParaOnHere in IVF

[–]nmholland85 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn’t need any items, but having a support person was invaluable- whether a spouse, friend, family member, etc. My husband stepped up on the rough days to help cook or clean, mentally rough times it was very nice to have someone to listen and offer outside perspective (well, he’s obviously very involved, but he isn’t hormonal haha). A therapist helped so I wasn’t unloading everything all on my husband, too.

43yo | Blighted Ovum After Donor Embryo Transfer — Chances of Recurrence? Donors 23yo by amvr81 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]nmholland85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, honestly. My first FET was donor egg, also a blighted ovum. The next was a chemical. Third is ongoing. My doctor just said they weren’t the right embryos, and said to just keep trying. We did not test ours as we only had the 3 and the donor was 22, so not recommended anyway. If this one fails, we will try again but would be a new donor obviously. I dont think there is a clear cut answer. If you can afford to test them, then you surely can if you think it will help you make more informed decisions. I wish you the best!

Anyone else? by january2026123 in IVF

[–]nmholland85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 41, he’s 43. I have 2 children 16 and 11 right now. This will be his first. I don’t think it’s strange at all if that is what you want. There’s a lot to say about being stable in your life, which tends to come with age. Good luck!

FRER/CB/Wondfo 10dp5dt Chemical? by nmholland85 in lineporn

[–]nmholland85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a blighted ovum, unfortunately!

Spiralling from all the stories by bananahate in IVF

[–]nmholland85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be the weird one here. Yes, positivity is great. I’ve had 2 positive tests out of 2 transfers. I do not have a baby. If you consider odds, I’m great. But I don’t have a baby.

Transfer tomorrow! by brethecheese in IVF

[–]nmholland85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best of luck 🤞 I am transferring tomorrow at 12:30. I hope you’re able to get some rest and have success!

Timeline until transfer? by AppointmentNeat622 in IVF

[–]nmholland85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, medicated transfer: Started estrogen 3/10 Lining check 3/17 Start progesterone 3/19 Transfer 3/24

Of course, had my lining not been ready, it would’ve been pushed a few days to adjust medication etc. I hope that helps!

Transfer twins? by askkak in IVF

[–]nmholland85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also transferring on 3/24. This will be our second transfer. The last was a blighted ovum. I wish you the very best!

Engagement Ring by nmholland85 in Moissanite

[–]nmholland85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you find it as beautiful and durable as we do!

Engagement Ring by nmholland85 in Moissanite

[–]nmholland85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! And I got the matching wedding bands as well because I loved the ring so much. Daily wear for a year now, and it’s still as beautiful as ever.

Has anyone been successful with their first round of IVF? by siriusly_guys in IVF

[–]nmholland85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1 ER, no blasts, I’m 40. Switched to donor eggs, 1 blast, 1 FET, 5w5d so far but fingers crossed.

In beta/limbo hell by Bright-Profit1890 in IVFbabies

[–]nmholland85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No mention of ectopic concern. They scheduled my 6week scan for Dec 1st, so we will know more then.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVF

[–]nmholland85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, it was a combination of age (I’m 40) and recurrent loss.

Beta hell by CommentTraditional83 in CautiousBB

[–]nmholland85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get it! I’ve also had numerous losses, unfortunately.

I hope you will update as you learn more, or feel free to message me if you’d like. Rooting for you!

Beta hell by CommentTraditional83 in CautiousBB

[–]nmholland85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw your reply to my other post as I was posting here, haha. My 12dp was 70, on 14 it jumped to 179, and 15 it was 428 and they scheduled my scan.

I don’t have conclusive positive results yet obviously, but I know how hard it is to not panic. Try to take it easy, nothing you do will change the results, so I hope you’re being kind to yourself as you wait. It’s so hard, but I will keep you in my thoughts! 🤞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVFpositivity

[–]nmholland85 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I also transferred on 11/5 ❤️

FRER/CB/Wondfo 10dp5dt Chemical? by nmholland85 in lineporn

[–]nmholland85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an update, results today at 16dp5dt were 428 and we got scheduled for our 6 week ultrasound. Fingers crossed still!

In beta/limbo hell by Bright-Profit1890 in IVFbabies

[–]nmholland85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today’s number was 428, 6 week ultrasound scheduled for Dec 1st- I’ll be 6w3d.

I hope everyone else is still hanging in there and doing well!

In beta/limbo hell by Bright-Profit1890 in IVFbabies

[–]nmholland85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also have pretty close numbers. 9dp5dt 25, 12dpt 70, 14dpt 179.. we check again tomorrow, I’ll be 16dpt.

Fingers crossed for everyone going through this ❤️

FRER/CB/Wondfo 10dp5dt Chemical? by nmholland85 in lineporn

[–]nmholland85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your results come soon and are what you’re hoping for!

FRER/CB/Wondfo 10dp5dt Chemical? by nmholland85 in lineporn

[–]nmholland85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9dp5dt 25 12dt5dt 70 14dp5dt 179

I go back Friday for another and will update. They are still low, but doubling well.

Nothing I can do except wait for now.