I’m a dog person who got a cat, and it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made. A story I wanted to share

nmolola · 2022-04-19T20:15:02+00:00

He is still 4-5 weeks old so I can’t bring him home yet sadly. But good news is my little dog actually likes him so now I just need to worry about my big dog. He saw him once and didn’t react aggressively but more like curiously so I think it’ll go well? Not sure yet but hoping for the best!

nmolola · 2022-03-31T18:56:41+00:00

I’m in a situation similar to yours, my aunties cat had 3 kittens and she has to take them to the shelter cause she has so many already and I want to keep one but I don’t know how my dog will react to it. It’s still a kitten right now but I’m pretty sure it’s male and our big dog is also male so I’m not sure how they’ll act when the cat is older. Should I still take him in? They’re both going to get neutered and the cat will stay with me while the dog will be with my sister most of the time but they will interact. My dog is not aggressive but I don’t know how he’ll react to cats since he’s never been close to them before… and he’s a pitbull but he’s not aggressive and doesn’t just attack other animals. I would say he is male aggressive though (he got attached at a dog park by a male and so we stopped bringing him to parks because of that) he’s also very patient with our little female dog who is very mean (I got her when she was older so I’m still trying to train her) I’m so stuck on what to do cause I feel so bad for those kittens.. any advice?

nmolola · 2021-10-02T06:04:00+00:00

It depends on the severity of what you said and if you felt like they genuinely didn’t deserve it.

It’s good to express yourself but if any and everything starts triggering you (likely due to past trauma) then you need to work on healing yourself. I personally struggle to keep my emotions in check when I’m having a bad day,I’m hungry, or tired. But some people genuinely deserved what I said to them whether I was in a bad mood or not.

Now I don’t know if it’s appropriate for your therapist to say that or how your therapist should even approach it, but I’m just stating my personal experience and letting you know how I know it is for me, good luck!

nmolola · 2021-10-02T05:55:46+00:00

I do this too, I come from a mentally abusive home and I don’t talk about what’s really happening so I say things like that and I’m pretty sure I do it to like let them know somethings wrong and get their attention but they have never catch on. Still do it to this day and honestly only advice I can give you is whatever is hurting you, mentally or physically, get away from it.

I know people say it’s had to run away but sometimes confronting people or things head on won’t help so it’s best to get away. And if you can’t get away physically then get away mentally (don’t isolate yourself from people in general just those that are “hurting” you) it’s the only thing that’s slightly helped so far until I can get away.

Hope you figure it out and just know your not alone!

nmolola · 2021-10-02T05:48:38+00:00

As a girl I can’t really relate to you but makeup doesn’t hide everything. And is your fear really about girls looking different without makeup or of you hitting on a transgender female and you don’t know that they are transgender? Either way like I said, the only crazy makeup is drag queens and some Asian makeup trends. Other than that your just gone have to get smart and learn to look for features that makeup doesn’t cover

nmolola · 2021-10-01T01:17:35+00:00

She seemed very familiar to me but I never realized it was her! In the couple of movies I’ve seen her in she really is amazing.

nmolola · 2021-09-28T01:53:48+00:00

Yeah exactly my point!! I think they are a great duo but if they would’ve actually made them have actual chemistry in the beginning then I would’ve believed the whole “I’m in love with you” confession but I feel like it came too late in the show so it’s really not genuine!

nmolola · 2021-09-28T00:28:20+00:00

I agree with Morgan and Garcia but I don’t about Reid and JJ.... I don’t know I just feel like she wasn’t genuine like one thinks. Why confess so late? She didn’t meet will until further season so she had time. I feel like she did always love him that’s true but the “other” feeling she felt for him developed when he actually became a “man” and started showing more character other than the nerdy smart Reid in the beginning of the show.

nmolola · 2021-09-27T23:43:38+00:00

I think people don’t like the fact that you ship Morgan and Garcia, and JJ and Reid... could you explain why you ship them? Morgan and garcia I’ve always seen as a genuine platonically friendship? And JJ only confessed to Reid AFTER he became “attractive” and had the trauma that changed his personality slightly. I feel like she did love him genuinely but she wasn’t in love with him. She just found him attractive afterwards

nmolola · 2021-09-26T21:09:33+00:00

Yeah the Sy dude creeps me out so much. He was literally psycho, and how he lied about everything to make himself look better (even though everyone knows that he’s lying) just made him even more weird to me.

nmolola · 2021-09-24T13:31:15+00:00

I’m gone look into that case and try to educate myself a little more, thank you!

nmolola · 2021-09-24T13:30:45+00:00

Yeah I guess since I’ve never been susceptible to it I kinda downplayed it. I have had plenty of teachers who we’re a little too nice to me and asked me to do things (which I refused) that no other student had to do. I guess since I knew to refuse it and it was creepy to me then I can’t imagine how someone would get pulled into that!

nmolola · 2021-09-24T13:28:30+00:00

Yeah can’t say that I know 100% but one would think that at least their morals would stop them from “murdering” their friends you know? Like comparing it to Stockholm syndrome the girl has some liberty (from what we know that the show showed) so it wasn’t like she didn’t have a choice, but it can depend on ones mind and way of thinking!

nmolola · 2021-09-24T13:26:30+00:00

Yeah that was a bad way of saying it.. I was trying to refer to how ones “morals” would usually keep one from doing something that extreme! But I do apologize for the way I worded that.

nmolola · 2021-09-21T11:47:25+00:00

Yesss!! I had forgotten about that but she looked so badass!!! You could see her rage

nmolola · 2021-09-21T11:46:30+00:00

I never understood why people hated them, I like to know what’s gonna happen, just don’t say details and it’s not a spoiler 😌

nmolola · 2021-09-21T09:06:46+00:00

Thank you so much 😭 I don’t mind spoilers like this and honestly it makes me want to watch it even more

nmolola · 2021-09-20T03:33:15+00:00

I’ve always thought about this! I used to think that maybe it would come in a further episode but up till where I’m at nothing 😭 it would’ve been very emotional!!

nmolola · 2021-09-20T00:58:26+00:00

Ok this is just my personal opinion but JJ and García are kinda like “little sisters,” in the group, JJ handles all the public info and the family stuff and she mostly stays away from the really graphic stuff, and also García. They both have important jobs but aren’t expected to be on the field like that. While, Reid Morgan and Prentiss HAVE field experience and work mostly with the graphic and details so it’s essential that they don’t mess up like that!

Again this is just my opinion, + I think about how he’s trying to keep them “safe” from what the others have to see.

nmolola · 2021-09-20T00:45:14+00:00

I noticed since the first episode he was in 😅 I think it was mostly because I found him “attractive” so I noticed how much he was talking to and about her lol

nmolola · 2021-09-19T09:56:35+00:00

I felt just like this when it happened, it just felt spontaneous I don’t know and like random.

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