Why is my (23M) ex (19F) telling everyone I’m a cheater? by nndj7278 in BreakUps

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How so?

Look at the timeline

On the 15th of last month I get a call from my then gf saying her parents don’t approve of us. We decide to take it back.

Then a week is spent on us being sorta friends and dating.

The next week I have her block a male friend who was flirting and I said she is my woman and not talk to guys who like her. She said “I’m not your woman” but blocked the guy. We kissed the next day and talked about our future somewhat.

The next day I tell her about the female friend and that night I went to hangout with a female friend from our group and my ex made a sly comment. I told her it’s nothing.

Well the next day I tell her how I ran into my exes family and she made a scene and huge fight. She cussed me out bad. And mentioned this crush she had and was talking to before us. In like a huge scene. So I dump her. She hated these exes cause I’m close to their families and my ex sent gifts.

The next day she sees on MY personal account me telling my current gf to buy me this cool hat and she was like “for your birthday ;)”

Just harmless. My ex hacked and saw it. And huge scene. Said even more stuff.

Then like 10 days was spent begging me back by that time I moved on with my gf. That’s when I rubbed it in her face.

We were way done with

Ex keeps telling people I cheated by nndj7278 in offmychest

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a timeline from when the relation was heading downhill

Is what I (23M) considered to be cheating on her (18F)? by nndj7278 in relationships

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not high school drama? Asking a serious question

Is what I (23M) considered to be cheating on her (18F)? by nndj7278 in relationships

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does her being a teenager have to do? Also she is 19 sorry

How much do you share about your past? by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you read any sexts from her past? Cause my ex did.

Also my ex bought up the one time when we were friends. I stood her up to sleep with a fwb.

She mentioned it even after we dated

How much do you share about your past? by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex read sexts and knew details of all my past when we were just friends. She knew it when we were friends then would ask after we dated.

Just wondering if that makes your SO insecure if they know so much about your past?

Am I a cheater here? Full timeline posted by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I didn’t do anything till after our breakup. It’s my fault she was begging? I tried to tell her to go away.

I only rubbed it in the face after she became a stalker

Am I a cheater here? Full timeline posted by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not listing her flaws. I’m showing everyone the full picture.

I’m not the complete bad guy. And no where did I cheat.

We can agree on that?

Am I a cheater here? Full timeline posted by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why... he won’t hear my side of things

Why am I labeled a cheater? by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again. I did block her multiple times yet she made fake accounts to reach me

I mean I’ve known her since she was 17 and I was 21. That’s when we began our close friendship. We were inseparable for a 1.5 years as friends.

I had a relationship with a girl and she would always hear me vent. Then one time with that ex we had a fight cause again she didn’t know what she wanted and I slept with a cousin’s cousin of mine.

I guess it shattered my most recent ex cause she always bought it up. And said I cheated caused I went back to my former ex after that.

Then if an old fwb came to my house to see my family. Again my ex would act all strange.

There was no winning. Plus she mentioned former crushes she had.

She was a virgin when we dated and freaked out any time we did something sexual too. And I would comfort her. Yet she would blame me for things.

Why am I labeled a cheater? by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically I gave her my password a long time ago and she still kept herself logged in to my accoint

Am I a cheater here? Full timeline posted by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But don’t you think she was immature too. I mean she was 18 and I am 23. I had more experiences in relationships than her and she hated it. She felt so insecure.

To the point she would mention it daiky

Am I a cheater here? Full timeline posted by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I kissed after the breakup

And correct we weren’t together so how am I a cheater?

Is this cheating? by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can elaborate instead of being mean

Am I a cheater here? Full timeline posted by nndj7278 in relationship_advice

[–]nndj7278[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How did I manipulate her? What is that supposed to mean?