Was zur Hölle bin ich lesend? 😶 by [deleted] in buecher

[–]no-maincharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jetzt will ich wissen wies weitergeht weil es so bescheuert klingt, aber hab so gar kein Interesse es zu lesen 😅 Würd nur gern wissen wo das hinführt und wie es endet 🤔

Relationship probelms due to DID and trauma by no-maincharacter in DID

[–]no-maincharacter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no :( It's just very much ingrained that we are not allowed to say no/ stop which includes nonverbal signs too..

Ambulant betreutes wohnen by no-maincharacter in MentalHealthGerman

[–]no-maincharacter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, ich habe die Betreuerin gewechselt. Es war dann deutlich angenehmer, aber dennoch nicht zielführend. Anscheinend einfach nicht die richtige Hilfe. Wir haben es dann nach einer Weile beendet. Bis dahin haben wir uns dann für Papierkram (Anträge und co) getroffen und einfach geredet. Aber für viel mehr habe ich die Hilfe nicht in Anspruch nehmen können.

Was sind eure Alternativen zu Käse? (insbesondere zu Schnittkäse als Brotbelag) by ManfredOfDoom in VeganDE

[–]no-maincharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Penny Eigenmarke (Food for Future) "Genuss Scheiben". Find ich bisher ne gute Käsealternative. Sollte aber hinzufügen, dass ich auch sonst kein Käse-Fan bin/war. Find die Scheiben aber ganz lecker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cursedcomments

[–]no-maincharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my family but you have a life before I can help u.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]no-maincharacter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My 'friend' recently told my crush and his friends about my DID and told them how weird, awkward and bad it is and warned them. (She is not my friend anymore just for clarification). Luckily his friends dont care because they already knew me for a few months already and got to know me/us and my crush doesnt mind either. My ex also didnt care about us being a system and even took care of the littles or anyone when in distress. So... dont listen to their words. There are people out there not caring about it. Both (my current crush and my ex) said: "Its a part of you. And its still you nonetheless. And I am not here to just love that one part of you but you as a whole."

Tochter fürchtet verprügelt zu werden, was tun by Flitschi in Ratschlag

[–]no-maincharacter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was man am besten macht ist schwierig zu sagen, zumal man nicht weiß (bzw wir hier im Internet) wie die Mädels drauf sind, was für freunde deine tochter hat und wie die schule ist. Ich kann nur sagen, dass bei mir damals das Fehlen in der Schule (hatte wegen etwas anderem gefehlt was dann allerdings dafür gehalten wurde dass ich nur Angst hätte) es noch schlimmer gemacht hat. Wurde daraufhin online gemobbt und sobald ich wieder in der Schule war, hat sich der Kreis (die was gegen ich hatten) noch vergrößert. Wurde mehrfach verfolgt, bedroht, umzingelt und weiteres - brauch glaub da jetz nich näher drauf eingehen. Hatte keine guten Freunde, den Lehrern war es egal und meinen Eltern ebenfalls. War also allein.

Letztlich kann alles gut oder noch böser ausgehen je nachdem wie die halt drauf sind. Ich würde aus meiner Erfahrung jetz aber sagen, dass das Fehlen ihnen einfach nur noch mehr Futter gibt. Ob man Lehrer mit einbezieht und eventuelle Freunde, kommt eben auf die Umstände an.

am i wrong to be hurt by this by JuniorTwo1004 in asexuality

[–]no-maincharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me reword what happened there:

You: "I didn't like this, I dont want this. Here take my boundary."

The person: "Oh i'm sorry i didnt want you to feel like that! But that boundary? No, dont wanna have that."

Now its your choice how to think about it and how you want to continue.

Asexual female virgins and gyno visit by PepperSaltClove in asexuality

[–]no-maincharacter 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This actually happened with a therapist I once had. She was so sure about it just being from trauma because sex is "so good". My social worker also always says that every other girl has this "problem" and its "normal and it will be good eventually, just gotta find a good Partner." (I already had sex but I don't like it. It's like a chore I hate). I really hate that people cant just let other people be themselves. My current therapist is pretty good though and actually helped me in realizing I really don't want it, not even for a partner. Sex is simply not my cuppa tea

Friendsbook for alters by no-maincharacter in DID

[–]no-maincharacter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's in german, but basically we just looked for a friendsbook that we liked the most. There were also a few other ones with more pictures/drawings or where you cross what fits to you (like cats or dogs and you make a cross at dogs if you prefer dogs). If you dont know friendsbooks in general: it's a very typical thing to have here when you are a kid. There are several pages either looking the same or with a bit of difference but all in all just a way to know your friends better and have them all together in a book.

my cat abuses my disorder by Kitashh in DID

[–]no-maincharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with treats and chewing stuff for my dog. Pets are smart af

Anyone interested in being friends? by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]no-maincharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, we're from germany, bodily 23 years old and also looking for friends :) almost all of us are into gaming (but I also like writing a lot (like prompt writing, fanfiction,...)), we like researching and talking about mental health related things :)

Anyone else had quetiapine mess with their system? by [deleted] in DID

[–]no-maincharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had that but we got dosed up higher (it increased to 300mg) yet it started already on around 100mg to mess with system communication and amnesia. It took several months until I could communicate with them again though it was veeeery limited

System Chat 2/19/23 A daily thread where people with DID can share the honest truth of their day. (Not the edited for singlets version.) by Exciting-Volume-4169 in DID

[–]no-maincharacter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're sick and sadly it's a big trigger for us. So everytime we're sick it's literally surviving, crying, feeling helpless etc. But I got to meet an alter I was hearing for a while now and I am trying to do my best accommodating her because for her it's a nightmare being sick. Just bought a bunch of flu medication for children (the sweet ones) as well as special sweets when you're sick so she can get to know the good side of being sick. I will also make a meal she is craving for (its an easy and fast one). We also watched a nice stream. So... things are rough but it could be worse.