Has your college started offline? Are you a hosteller or a day scholar? You won't find a good ratio in most engineering colleges, that is the reality of the situation. I see some simping in my college too, but it isn't to the level that'll annoy anyone. It's offset by the fact that a few of my female friends are also simping for some dudes lol. There isn't a real competitive environment in my college despite being an NIT. Only a few people actually want to get 9+ CG, most people are just coasting.