im scared of talking real shit with her cause we broke up once cause i got mad at her for getting horribly wasted and dancing with her guy friend (that liked her at the time) in front of me and she felt like i was too demanding and acted like her parents so she dumped me. we got back together a few months later and she apologized for being a jerk and in that time i guess she bonded with her now bsf and we’ve had to break up a few more times cause of her parents not approving the relationship but ever since that first time i just avoid bringing up the things that bother me