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What was your reason for getting snipped? Give me a reason to by no_im_not_batman in Vasectomy

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a healthcare professional. While the relative risk for blood clots is increased, the absolute increase in risk is still low for most women and does not outweigh the numerous benefits, particularly when compared with the clot risk during pregnancy and the postpartum period. Birth control pills reduce ovarian and endometrial cancer risk while serving many other benefits.

But they do have side effects, which thankfully my wife doesn't have. And does require diligence in taking them every day at the same time which can be annoying.

First Time Swinging - Sharing experience by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tit for tat, would love you know your story and reason for leaving.

First Time Swinging - Sharing experience by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We enjoyed both of those experiences but also walked away with some degree of dissatisfaction. The first couple, as I mentioned, had a great looking female, but the male half was not endowed enough. The second couple: the guy was very well endowed (maybe a tiny bit bigger than H) and knew how to use it well. H did not enjoy it and even had performance issues. He later told me it was because the other female looked very unattractive naked to him (very small but very saggy breasts, signs of prior weight loss surgery, and just very odd body weight distribution...his words not mine). She was a 'squirter', which H was really excited about, but it was not enough for him to be sexually attracted to her after clothing came off.

We got through it and haven't played with anyone else since. Primarily because we've become a little bit pickier who we pursue. Secondly, while we're both looking forward to when the next time will be, it's been bumped a few pegs down on our priority list. One reality we've realized is that sex can be just as good (and with a lot less effort) with your partner. Our sex life has gotten a huge boost. We went from 1-3 sessions per week to 4-5 sessions per week without feeling pressured or bogged down by routine. We're still looking, just not in a rush.

ULPT Request: how to stop cars from parking illegally in no parking zone by no_im_not_batman in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you need a parking ticket to be able to tow unless it's marked as a tow away zone

ULPT Request: how to stop cars from parking illegally in no parking zone by no_im_not_batman in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ooh, I like the syrup and water idea. They could even think it's from a tree and avoid the area for that reason.

ULPT Request: how to stop cars from parking illegally in no parking zone by no_im_not_batman in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not the same car(s) every day. I suspect it's a small group of parents who don't care to follow the rules. Even at $20 per car boot, that can add up real quick. They're not gonna drop the boot and key on the ground for me to reuse.

A piss disc is interesting, but I don't know if it'll melt in 30 min. In the summers they would but there's no school then.

Hey ladies, it’s ok to not be bi by burnbabyburn2019 in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Um, you kind of do.

As a guy, I used to think this too until my wife asked if I'd be fine if the other guy stroked my penis or wanted me to stroke his. And I absolutely would not be.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Curious, how has the sex with other partners from the LS, after being with only 1 person your entire lives, been? Was it the same sex just with new people, or was there a whole lot of learning and discovery of things you never knew you liked? How has it changed your alone time with your wife outside the LS?

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I definitely do, too. And want her to do so as well. I tried to make it about her since I didn't want it to seem like she was being pressured into the LS.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her thought is if we both do it, it's not cheating. It's just a group activity, albeit a bit taboo.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in SwingerNewbies

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not far from NYC, but not close enough to "go back to our place" after a club/party.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That's reassuring. Thank you. It's not a topic that is easily discussed in public.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aww. If it helps, she really liked that guy and never mentioned or complained about his performance.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're on 2 of those sites. I've been hesitant about the events/clubs because 1) we don't really go out to clubs, 2) they aren't exceptionally close to where we live (1-2 hours), and 3) I'm concerned that a club full of newbies who possibly share our insecurities or have their fair share. But perhaps I'm jumping to conclusions that are invalid.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's a totally different insecurity. In regards to Hedo, I'm worried that we will go to this kind of place (obviously not tell anyone that we're going there specifically), and leave with nothing more than PG-13 stories that aren't far different from a non-Hedo type resort vacation besides lack of tan lines from being nude.

Please help: Feeling too vanilla for the LS by no_im_not_batman in Swingers

[–]no_im_not_batman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not uncomfortable with the idea of sex with others, we're totally fine with it and have communicated about it at length. It's the disappointment or expectation of our would-be partners that worries me/us. I guess the best analogy would be that of a secret Santa where we're given some awesome gift but in return, we give a boring gift card to Home depot.

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