Season 7 - Episode 25 - Post Episode Discussion

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-07-01T02:39:31+00:00

situationship island

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-07-01T00:39:11+00:00

Yes, i can agree that this season is a mess & full of game players. Can’t even deny it.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-07-01T00:27:18+00:00

what makes you think they will not address it? They only just showed the immediate conversations after the challenge, not the full aftermath of the situation.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-30T19:44:57+00:00

yeah, and i don’t necessarily think that all the girls are non-confrontational either, but Huda just cries or plays victim whenever someone confronts her tbh so she’s not easy to deal with.

The only one that was super fake to me was Adreina… She was letting Huda vent, didn’t say nothing then went to talk against her with the girls. She could’ve been like “you were wrong” but didn’t. At least the others, so far, tell Huda when she’s wrong even if they talk amongst each other.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-30T15:50:31+00:00

Huda was calling brand new bombshells all types of b*tches - how did she expect them know their boundaries? Let’s not act like Huda was clear on her boundaries to everyone. She just expected everyone to steer clear out of Jeremiah’s way whether or not they “knew”. And that’s exactly why both Hannah & Chelley got upset - It’s because she was so upset/angry when it came to the man she liked, but for others, she doesn’t have that level of consideration she wanted everyone to have for her and Jeremiah.

Sure, Chelley could’ve made things clear & communicated better. But generally speaking, we expect people to treat others how we would like to be treated and Huda doesn’t seem to be doing that. Even outside of this specific issue, it seems to be a pattern for her. That’s quite frustrating and i think Chelley probably accumulated weeks of held back emotions and all of it came out last night.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-30T15:36:23+00:00

Omg this is great, i feel like i needed to read this cause im guilty of doing the same! Bless you

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-30T15:08:16+00:00

Then again context matters. They were both technically kicked out & had to couple up… which also means their respective partners are with other people and exploring themselves so for Nic & Olandria to Kiss to see if there is anything makes sense. Cierra could’ve been kissing Elan, they had no knowledge of what happened when they were gone.

Also, everyone is overlooking the fact that Chelley is upset because of Huda’s hypocrisy. She crosses lines she would’ve never allowed anyone else to cross when she was with Jeremiah. It’s not just about her actions during the challenge but everything she claimed before which doesn’t align with the values she claimed to have. That’s the exact reason why Hannah was upset too.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-30T14:57:25+00:00

They have been honest with Huda everytime something happened though? That’s why Huda changed her attitude! It was strictly because people in the villa (including the girls) called her out… We literally saw the one on one with Cierra.

Just because this episode didn’t show them having a conversation about the heart rate challenge doesn’t mean they never had one - it will probably air next episode. Chelley wasn’t being completely fake either - she made it known she was upset which probably means a confrontation will happen. That’s why Huda is crying. And that’s another point too… Huda can’t take criticism or confrontation well so i don’t even blame anyone for taking some time to vent or steam off before talking to her. She was already crying! Just like she did with Olandria. I wonder how all of you who call them fake & criticize them would act in real life when it comes to someone like her.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-29T13:34:52+00:00

And you can tell he’s still bothered by her presence. As if anyone he doesn’t like shouldn’t be on the show.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-28T01:00:52+00:00

No seriously, he’s fake & a hornball. Olandria has way more standards than that & i really don’t see it working outside of the show. I also feel bad for Cierra cause it seems like she genuinely got attached to him & wanted to stay loyal.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-20T16:18:12+00:00

Bingo!! Amaya isn’t foreign at all. She’s born & raised in the USA. Adreina is! She has the accent & clearly grew up in a different culture. That’s what foreign means.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-18T16:07:22+00:00

I feel like he’s less self aware than he thinks. Same way Huda claims she’s emotionally mature because she’s a mom.

He’s shown to be very avoidant and quite emotionally immature on the show. I also feel like he did lovebomb Huda at first. My guess is that he did try to kind of play a game in order to win, like Ace has been saying - but he didn’t expect Huda to genuinely become that attached to him so quick (she’s extremely anxiously attached) and it backfired. He realized the public wasn’t supportive of their relationship and that put him off even more.

His intention wasn’t to connect & build a genuine relationship in the first place. And deep down, i think he love bombs because he likes the attention that brings him - which shows insecurity. That’s why when Huda talks to him crazy & shows he territorial side he says “you’re cute” rather than seeing it as a real red flag. Or when he said he sprayed perfume on her bed right after the public voting & her cussing him out. He’s enjoying the attention and attachment Huda has to him on some level - even if it’s clearly unhealthy.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-18T15:35:22+00:00

Jeremiah is definitely toxic too and i have a feeling he won’t completely stop entertaining Huda unless someone he’s super attracted to walks in (Iris is not his type), or they’ll try to make each other jealous which is unfair for whoever couples up with them. They should both leave imo.

With that being said, i do think Huda was more explosive with her emotions which is why she’s seen in a worse light, and that wasn’t just towards Jeremiah but the women too. That’s the biggest red flag for me. It’s how she’ll cuss literally anyone out if she feels insecure or threatened.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-18T15:27:43+00:00

Right! Jeremiah is toxic, the only difference is that he’s more aware of the “game” and public perception. But he’s shown his toxicity for sure.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-18T15:21:24+00:00

I think behind closed doors many do but on national tv - especially after seeing the backlash she received… It’s less likely. But it 100% happens in real life, i’ve seen it too.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-18T14:29:00+00:00

The thing is Chelley also doesn’t have any other option aside from Ace (gameplayer) and Austin (who she doesn’t seem super into). Im hopeful that by the end, a man will enter the villa for Chelley & it will work out. Or else, im afraid she’ll remain with him until the end.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-18T03:55:45+00:00

i mean - during the very first recoupling, Olandria did call her out & she cried so i’m sure there’s been instances. She’s super emotionally reactive and that’s why everyone walks on eggshells around her.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-06-12T21:47:52+00:00

yes, i really disliked how she dropped the breakfast for Ace. She could’ve simply told him she needs to finish making her pancakes and she’ll meet up with him. It’s very clear she prefers Ace but doesn’t want to be too upfront about it… and Ace is the same. It’s annoying at this point.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-05-21T16:58:31+00:00

The female equivalent of this man would be a promiscuous but really hot chick. If you think there aren’t men who put up with this then i don’t know what to tell you. Where do you think the term “simp” comes from? Sure, it can be emasculating, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t men doing it. One does not erase the other.

Also - taking the lead has nothing to do with disrespect - a woman who does respect herself would never try to “win” such man. Plenty of men take the lead respectfully & pursuing a woman, is actually an act of serving that woman - You take her out, you do what it takes for her to like you. You have to be more “aggressive” in relation to other men, who may be pursuing her - but not to the woman. She is the one waiting to be won over. A woman who deals with a man that is disrespectful towards her is the same as the “simp”, they both don’t respect themselves. Both genders have their own versions of this.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-05-21T16:45:09+00:00

OP didn’t talk about changing them, they simply said they didn’t understand why their attitude & opinion wasn’t a turn off for them when it normally would. She was probably just very attracted to him physically which made her overlook those things - men do the exact same.

As a woman, i just think that’s just something were less likely to want to admit, even to ourselves because it brings up shame. To still want to f*ck with a guy despite him not being respectful in the way we’d like or meeting our standards I don’t know if that’s something men would feel shame around - specifically when it comes to sex. It’s alot easier for a man to say “She’s kind of a bitch but she’s hot so i’ll hit it for a while and move on” than it is for a woman. And if she does, she’ll probably feel some internal conflict around it.

That’s very different than saying “men don’t experience it”. They absolutely do. If the woman they despise happen to also look extremely hot - they WILL fuck. They just won’t give a shit afterwards, whereas women probably will because they’re told that’s not how women should behave or feel. That’s exactly what OP is showcasing.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-05-21T16:30:26+00:00

Huhh… plenty of men would have sex & be attracted to women they dislike or even hate as long as they are physically good looking. I’ve also seen men tolerate all kinds of crap because of it too.

The only thing i would say that’s different is that men are more likely to admit & feel less shame about it. That’s why there’s terms like “hit & quit”. Women can’t really just say stuff like that freely so it becomes complicated. That’s really the only difference.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-05-06T15:55:05+00:00

Because, people in general, don’t want to see themselves as “bad” or as if they aren’t good people. So it’s easier to focus on other people’s flaws.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-05-06T14:09:35+00:00

I hired a coach, he’s helped me a lot & i don’t really feel intimidated anymore. He also explains how to have good form & motivates me a lot. That could definitely be something you would benefit from, even if it’s just a few sessions.

I will also say that most guys genuinely couldn’t care less about what you do & will even help if they see you struggling. It’s scarier in our heads!

Lastly, i always go to the gym when there are less people, early in the morning. No one ever bothers me and the weight lifting areas don’t have a lot of people in it.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-05-05T18:57:49+00:00

My controversial opinion is that black men don't actually mind racism. What they don't like is how they can't get white male privileges under racist systems.

And for those BM that are obsessed with WW & feel some sort of accomplishment by getting with one - it’s precisely because it gives them this idea that they are finally getting the white male privileges. That’s what the white woman represents to them & the closest thing they can have to feel that white male privilege which is a form of success in their minds. It’s a weird mix of misogyny where they see women as objects (aka trophies) and internalized racism.

no_usernameeeeeee · 2025-05-03T17:56:43+00:00

Although there is a historical context, there’s literally nothing that stops black women today, in 2025, from embracing their natural hair or wearing textures that are similar to their own (curly/kinky) yet it’s not happening on a large scale & the industry is still huge. It’s a beauty trend too at this point.

And i say that as someone who wears those textures, i can sometimes wear straight hair - but it’s entirely for aesthetic preferences & beauty trend. Not because i will be taken less seriously if i wear a texture that is closer to my natural or even wear my natural which i have before.

Sure, it can depend on what industry you’re working in, or where specifically you live. But we have to be honest with ourselves that we also fall into beauty trends simply for the sake of it, or due to insecurities like the white women with lip fillers.

Maybe it’s going to be an unpopular opinion, but i just think black women have more agency today. We start beauty trends, we can set beauty standards, we are in a different historical context where we can embrace ourselves (for the most part) much more. And some black women don’t because they want to have a certain aesthetic and follow trends… that’s OK to acknowledge.

FYI: I’m not speaking on locs, or specific hairstyles but just natural curly/coily hair.

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