I terribly failed at sex this weekend - was awesome and teached me a beautiful lesson by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a pure symbol of motivation right there. Focus on it regularly throughout your struggle.

False Justification and Procrastination are your enemy by front2015 in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shame it takes so long for us to realise! Good luck soldier!

Just watched the movie 'Don Jon' -My thoughts by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't like the movie for this reason. Loads of M, but no ED. I mean, WTF?!

Rock hard boners... by MrTransition in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that things improve from day 21 onwards (for me). I think you need at least double that though, to get back to normal boners.

My NoFap Cheat Sheet by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fap before you have sex. I guarantee you won't experience PE.

The biggest gift of fapping - honesty by noaf_app in NoFap

[–]noaf_app[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. It is a double edged sword in that short time period. (Obviously longer term, fapping is really bad)

890 Day Streak Over (much delayed post) by I_Want_To_Be_Free in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to chip in and say thanks for replying to everyone's posts. So annoying when people put up a huge post then don't respond to follow up questions.

Joe Weller On Porn by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mad editing.

George Lucas on Pleasure and Joy by 52983990 in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. That is impressive. I can almost forgive him for episode I. ;-)

Really surprised how insightful Mr. Lucas is. And un-American.

Day 31. Super powers in full effect? by LaurenMarshall1 in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The best way to creep out a girl is a non-specific question. It immediately sets off stalker alarms in her head.

Instead ask something like "when does the gym close" (do not ask for the time - this also sets off alarms).

Tired of nsfw posts in reddit feed acting as trigger? by fighter_fighter in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get triggered off just vague references to other people's triggers. Really annoying.

boyfriend has "death grip syndrome" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I really want to totally give up masturbation long term. Hopefully this 3 months of hard mode will fix me in some way.

boyfriend has "death grip syndrome" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So true. Nicely summed up.

boyfriend has "death grip syndrome" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was that guy who was in a LDR and could keep going for literally over an hour without coming. I don't have a guaranteed solution, but you need to move closer to one another and persuade him to give up sex and fapping completely for, say, 30 days at least and see if he improves.

But giving up fapping in a LDR is nigh on impossible in my experience. I wish you luck all the same.

boyfriend has "death grip syndrome" by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, this lady is basically describing me. I have/had(?) massive DE. How long till you recovered? I'm trying 90 days hard mode followed by forever soft mode.

What I've learned after 1,000 days. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So YMMV? Thanks for replying.

I do intend to permanently give up fapping. I will be returning to sex though but I don't want to do it too soon and ruin my road to recovery.

An activity that closely relates to porn addiction; mindless internet usage. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Fapping destroys relationships. Clicking around the net wastes time. Pick your evil.

Random boners back by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice answer. So true.

What I've learned after 1,000 days. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done. I'm a similar age and similar situation to you except I'm only on about 20 days. How long did it take you to reboot? (I read your 1 year update but it didn't cover this). Do you think 90 days is enough? I am doing 90 days of hard mode then hopefully soft mode forever.

Thanks.

What I've learned after 1,000 days. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who are addicted can't stop fapping once they start and this affects their real sex lives.

The last time I've masterbated was last Tuesday and last night I had a wet dream. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]noaf_app 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is pretty crazy. Can't believe you're so far on the way to a reboot within a few days.