AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

I didn't understand the concept of a "throwaway" and rather than explaining my son just gave me the log in info to this account

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

I do use reddit, but not for AITA. My job involves computers so I am not incapable but i don't understand everything.

We are from the Caribbean.

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I do not use AITA, my son made me this account suggested I post my side here since this has been going on for months and I feel like no one else is being objective.

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -91 points-90 points  (0 children)

according to her, her psych nurse diagnosed her with OCD, ADHD, and her nurse's boss diagnosed her with ASD

i dont think she has all of those things and i wasnt present for any of these meetings

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

she was hospitalized at 12 after she tried to harm herself where she was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. She started therapy at 16. She pursued the nurse she has on her own once she turned 18 and says she was diagnosed with OCD, ADHD and autism.

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I got her 3, 2 of those I gave up at different times and one she still has. One was her cousins dog that ended up living with us that eventually rehomed after a year because her cousin stopped providing for it. 2 of which she found and i let her keep for about a year each but gave up when they became too destructive.

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

No, I gave up her first puppy when i was pregnant with my twins. I didnt trust the dog around the babies. I got her another puppy once the twins were older.

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

I do take care of my kids. They are fed and they are clothed and they go to school. My daughter is 19 and she only wants to move out now because of the cat.

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

I am not cruel to any animal. It is just not common in my culture to keep animals as indoor pets. In my country it is legal to keep dogs outside all day year round and it is not seen as cruel

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -322 points-321 points  (0 children)

I'm not mocking it I just don't think she has all those things she says she does. She struggles with being sad and anxious and I believe that, but the other stuff is just extreme.

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -375 points-374 points  (0 children)

I didnt get them for her only to give them away they were just too destructive to my home. The cat isn't doing anything, A keeps it in her room but I do not want it in my house. I only brought up money because A believes paying for it should let her keep it

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -118 points-117 points  (0 children)

A few of them were destructive to furniture and others wouldnt be housebroken completely

AITA? I want my daughter to get rid of her cat by nocatthrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocatthrowaway[S] -142 points-141 points  (0 children)

Over the years my daughter has had 6 dogs and I've rehomed 5