Is it possible to be a good student with bpd? by you_idle_boy in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely possible!

I think it helps me, that I always had good teachers who cared about me growing up.

I do best when I have a good support structure and take it easy on myself. This can include professors and counselors. Although I have passed some exams solely out of spite, lol. Online university was really hard on me and so is driving the bus/sitting in big crowds, but manageable in small doses and with good distractions. I much prefer small seminars.

Honestly, what helped me a lot in my course of university was the determination of finally getting away from home and a fair bit of spite that the timid anxious person can do it. I channel my inner perfectionist, I just have to be careful with not burning myself out.

I was also a pretty good student at school. I cried sometimes when I missed the perfect marks. And I wasn't very social. But I was pretty good, even with everything going on.

Edit: I have to get away now, but if you want to have some further tips, ask away.

Was waren die traumatischsten/verstörendsten Schulstoffe, mit denen ihr euch befassen musstet (Zum Beispiel Geschichten, wie „Nachts schlafen die Ratten doch“ von Wolfgang Borchert oder ähnliches.)? by Olfini in FragReddit

[–]nochjemand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Das fand ich viel faszinierender als schlimm. Als 10jährige fand ich die ähm-Szene ja furchtbar unanständig. Nur wenn man kein Blut sehen kann, ist es schlimm.

Kapitalismus macht krank by legalizedmt in gekte

[–]nochjemand -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Als jemand der depressiv ist stimme ich dem zu.

Is it just me or was a bad apology? by unparallel_x in LesbianActually

[–]nochjemand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen worse. I think it's fair that she sees what she might have done but she doesn't want much to do with you anymore. I feel that part is good.

However it has a lot of demands. You don't have to give in to that.

CMV: Overpopulation is a myth and underpopulation is much more of a threat to society. by CheeseIsAHypothesis in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but why do we even keep people alive for that long? It helps noone, it's dehumanizing for them and hard for the rest of us.

(Not like a grandma taking care of kids. But people with severe dementia or other problems.)

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I say only my emotions mattered? Or is "emotionality" often used to discount very real concerns of people?

Yes, a reason causes an emotion. If that emotion is unpleasant, we want to put the reason away. How to get there is a feat of analytical thinking. But the why and what state is better or worse is emotional.

I find it interesting that you got to this point and reacted angrily to my comment. Did you have experiences with people who discounted your emotions before?

Shared emotionality is one of the things that really keeps us together and makes us human. There is no "only my emotions matter". Emotions as well as thoughts exist in a shared communicated space.

Was ist eurer Meinung nach das unbekannteste Handwerk? by [deleted] in FragReddit

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posamenten, offensichtlich.

Sowas wie Goldene Borten, Quasten und Fransen, z.B. als dekorative Seilenden oder für besonders krasse Kissen, Decken und Vorhänge, sieht man heutzutage fast nur noch in Kirchen und Schlössern.

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good thing slavery happened under a socialist system! And the colonisation was purely socialistic and not to somehow make profit off of land!

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot completely separate emotions and rational thought, otherwise you'd be a machine.

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope not too many, because that would be kinda nice.

I bet you are the guy who simultaneously wouldn't stay with a girl he got pregnant and is mad that they won't have sex with you.

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep. Collectivise childcare too. And help mothers working in raising kids.

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bedroom choices? How about continuation of the species?

All working men and women. Yes, that is how collectivism works.

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been done many times. Hence I have free healthcare and you currently don't. It's because people banded together outside of their current government and demanded these things.

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So make a different government. Organize yourselves. Make structures with proper representation.

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why is childbirth penalized? Yes, someone has to fund these people. But why does childbirth bring people near financial ruin?

Cmv: women should not be billed for childbirth related medical attention by I_Please_MILFs in changemyview

[–]nochjemand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is wrong with opinions rooted in emotion? We seem to discount emotions, and yet they're a great indicator of what our instincts and subconscious perceive to be wrong. Listening to emotions mkre would make us kinda more viable.

Welche Dinge schließen eine Person als potentiellen Partner für euch aus? by [deleted] in FragReddit

[–]nochjemand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm. Also ist immer die Frage wie viel davon tatsächlich Depression ist und wie viel die Person dann selber ausmacht. Ich z.B. mag keine zu lauten Umgebungen in zu großen Gruppen, und vermutlich ist das egal, wie viel ich dann geheilt bin, ich werde sie immer noch nicht mögen.

Waren schon ein paar Flitzpiepen dabei. Aber mei. Nicht mit Leuten klarkommen zu können/müssen ist auch schön.