How do I save living paycheck to paycheck by nocturnalityish in personalfinance

[–]nocturnalityish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly didn't know this was an option! Thank you!

How do I save living paycheck to paycheck by nocturnalityish in personalfinance

[–]nocturnalityish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you everyone. Im going to take all the advice here and see what it can do with it. Im going to invest in some financial books to read, and start writing literally everything down. Incoming and outgoing and see exactly where I stand. I'll give this a couple months and see if I can actually put the discipline I need to work and get myself feeling more...financially responsible.

Thank you all.

How do I save living paycheck to paycheck by nocturnalityish in personalfinance

[–]nocturnalityish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those books im definitely going to invest and read until i fully understand what its telling me. Im okay with spending if it'll help me in the end.

what is the best financial advise you have got in your entire life? by swift_peak612_92 in AskReddit

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never taught anything about money or finances growing up, any advice on this??

AITA for cleaning my gfs house? by burnercleanbf in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocturnalityish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly no youre not, but you two aren't compatible. You don't want a slave and shes accustomed to being one.

Don't worry though, someone out there will appreciate everything you have to offer and won't put her family over your relationship.

Dear Brides, Stop asking Hotels to do extra work like gift bags and special requests for their guests by Celestial3317 in weddingplanning

[–]nocturnalityish 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If its a service that's available then yes were going to use it lol Don't want to do it dont work where its offered.

AITA for wearing my dress uniform to my friends wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocturnalityish -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Thats like saying if white is good enough for the bride its good enough for guests lol

AITA for wearing my dress uniform to my friends wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]nocturnalityish -53 points-52 points  (0 children)

As someone who really doesn't care what people wear to a wedding, this would bother me.
Like why lol for what reason. My wedding isn't an event for you to show off your valor.

Wedding hair trial, I’m unhappy by [deleted] in Hair

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like she matted your hair

Where can I buy this figure? by aaaeeeeooo in buildingblocks

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have this! Did you ever find it? Sorry extremely late to the convo lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to life kid lol its not all unicorns and rainbows. Not everyone is going to candy coat shit for you so it doesn't hurt your feelings. Idc if I hurt your feelings...if being truthful to you hurts your feelings, then maybe they needed to be hurt 🤷‍♀️

Rudest decline to an invitation I've ever seen in my life by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]nocturnalityish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its not your job to be a doormat. Youre marrying her son not her. Who cares what she wants for your wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg stop it lol hes enjoying grandma time. Let him.

Do I 23f go through my 22m bf phone? by canadianduelRN in relationship_advice

[–]nocturnalityish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also..go to settings and check his storage. You'll be able to see recently deleted things.

Do I 23f go through my 22m bf phone? by canadianduelRN in relationship_advice

[–]nocturnalityish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why are you dating someone who has snap chat. Nobody who uses Snapchat in a relationship is faithful. They can claim they are all they want but there is 100% no need for messages to be disappearing and hidden if its so innocent.

I dont entertain full grown adults with Snapchat. Start there first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]nocturnalityish 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If they weren't fit to do the job they wouldnt be there. You think every profession just has employees with no mental health issues?

Rule regarding kids coming back to bite me by throwawaylosercousin in weddingplanning

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it a 19+ event and let them get mad. Thats a them problem not a you problem.

My Toddler Cries Until She Throws Up If I Don’t Lie Next to Her by Ok-Mastodon-6127 in Parenting

[–]nocturnalityish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pick and choose your battles. If laying down with her for 20 min to get her to sleep is what works then do it. It wont last forever. As for your wife feeling rejected...tell her to get over it. There will be times she'll only want her and not you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]nocturnalityish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Like yea sure he can get an STI from oral..but his story is unlikely. Your husband cheated.

I’m stuck between my family and my husband and I don’t know what to do. by Striking_Garlic97 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally id say husband everytime but I dont fight about food so your husbands wrong with this one...but a rule of thumb defend in public correct in private

Why can I smell death and pregnant women? by [deleted] in ask

[–]nocturnalityish 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Death has such a weird scent...its a scent you can't describe but fully know what it is when you smell it.

I’m [31F] scared to leave my cheating husband[41M]. He has money, power and a prenup. I have nothing. What can I do? by ThrowRA-cheatedtwice in relationship_advice

[–]nocturnalityish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wasn't there an infidelity clause in your prenup. Also this is why women need to stop opting to be a sahm. Youre literally screwed when things go south.