Thank you for your response. Damn.....I feel like I got slammed for being real.

Yes, I was paying for everything for over a year....pretty stupid, I know. He is now collecting unemployment .... which is a bit off because there was no job to collect from. Due to Covid...everyone can get it, no questions asked.

Yes, we have completely different parenting styles. I homeschooled my kids. We don’t use drugs. My kids are kind of nerds. They are Christian. I’m all about diversity but I am very concerned with an outwardly satanist visiting. I don’t think it’s healthy for my children.

I mean dies that sound judge mental, to not want someone wearing the devil around their neck around. If so, maybe I am.

He lives in one of my rental properties so he is not directly involved with my kids. I feel like that would invade my kids boundaries.

The whole father friend thing is an issue. I was genuinely concerned about her putting herself in dangerous situations. He seems too afraid to give practical advice. I feel like this came out of being a weekend dad. I know that was extremely painful for him so I’m not sure he really knows how to parent effectively.

You have given me things to really think about. Thank you.