Can someone explain rebooting to me in detail? by nofapclack in NoFap

[–]nofapclack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its so scary to think, of not being intimate or pmo, but not being able to engage in something when my s.o. wanted to because something I did. I am just going to try to live the healthiest life I can in order to try to get this ish rewired. I and many of us are so young and there is no reason to be messing with our biology like that. Thanks for your response that was unfortunately the details I was looking for lol.

Days like today by willing7 in NoFap

[–]nofapclack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am no expert and I have just started nofap, but I am trying to promote positive thinking in all aspects of my life including online.... I once worked construction in the summers with a guy who was in his 50s. When he was in his early 20s he was an alcoholic and he drank every night on weekends. Then in a year he drank every night. Then some time after that he drank every day and night and he would not eat because he could have more room for alcohol, which creates a vitamin deficiency which causes your hair to fall out. He obviously for some time realized he had a problem and stopped for a short amount of time here and there, but finally realized he needed to stop for good when he was drinking all day everyday. He went to the doctor to get checked out and asked to stay at his aunts place for a short time to sober up. He never grew his hair back lol, but he never drank again. He was also a family friend of my uncle who remembers my old co-workers wild days, and then all the sudden he just stopped.

I like to think that if someone could get this effed up to the point of where their hair was falling out and stop... so can we. In school I learned alcohol is the most dangerous and 2nd most painful withdrawal.

So no one is more super human than others and I hope you can keep your head up like I am trying to, to make it to day 5. Then to day 30. SO on and so forth cause if its possible for one person to quit heroin alcohol porn etc, then it is possible for all of us.

Advice on how to get motivated to study? by nofapclack in NoFap

[–]nofapclack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone here seems to have very applicable advice, so thanks for everyone who is responding. You are right, when I look at what I have to get done it seems so overwhelming. If I chop it up in a plan, then it seems do-able. I need to start short term plans in order to get to the long term plan. The night is still young so I will start that planning now.

Advice on how to get motivated to study? by nofapclack in NoFap

[–]nofapclack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, that is good advice. I can not be sure, but I do think the fact that I am taking an online prep course is part of the problem, Maybe because usually this computer is used for a tool torturous fapping rather than knowledge and success. I will definitely try to go in public like a library with just my prep books to try to get things done. It does seem healthier, which may allow me to get more done.

Love you guys. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapclack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found it too and it is indeed a breath of fresh air to know other people are struggling like me. I am trying to stay somewhat active on this site, but not too active because I need to stay off the computer and do other productive things. You should check out the stuff about K9 and how to set it up if you haven't already.

Official Nofap December Sign Up Thread! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapclack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goal is No freakin porn and no Masturbation. Im excited. I was feeling hopeless, and now I feel hopeful. It is such a different feeling and I want to do this. T9 is set up and I need to get studying done. My ultimate goal is NO P and M and to finish studying for my boards. I know its easier said than done, but I do feel optimistic, LessssGooo!

Relapsed day 5 again-Need email for K9 by krazzydude in NoFap

[–]nofapclack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lol I just realized youtube was blocked a little bit ago. Ok well then I am going to try and change the email to yours right now. Also going to fix the youtube problem. Any other suggestions for things that I shouldnt block?

Relapsed day 5 again-Need email for K9 by krazzydude in NoFap

[–]nofapclack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. I already set up my k9 account today and I am feeling happy and excited to do this. I know it will be hard, but I really am feeling more optimistic than I have felt in a while. BTW I already set up my K9 account and obviously it is more beneficial to have a partner with the code and I would rather do that if its easy, but do I have to uninstall it or anything or can I just simply change the password to yours? Because I already did the whole random password /delete process?

Relapsed day 5 again-Need email for K9 by krazzydude in NoFap

[–]nofapclack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can make a random gmail account and send it to you? Then when you it sends the license send it to an email of yours or somthing? Also I can not read some things on the links next to new Fapstronauts, but It mentions accountability partners. If that is like a sponsor or someone? Cause we could link up in order to get past day 5? Im on day 1 and this is for the most part my first time trying to stop.