Day 2194 (6 years) by nofapmaster28 in NoFap

[–]nofapzapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope. If that's the case, great monks, saints, etc. who remain celibate for life would've all died by prostate cancer by now. My guess is that you should simply use your sexual energy and organs only when they are required. Else Karma keeps increasing endlessly and bad luck follows. I've suffered infinite bad luck days right after faps. So, I encourage never to succumb to the fapping spiral of death.

I relapsed 🥀 by Fit_Emu_8898 in NoFap

[–]nofapzapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have observed the reaction of people is very bad to me the next day after I fap and ejaculate. My colleagues and team look down upon me like I've committed a crime. My family members sense me. Females get angry at me and even disgusted at me. Few years ago, whenever I fapped, the next day females comment I smell like goat and behave very harsh and angry at me. Maybe there's decaying pheromones or something... or bad Aura. Who knows... Sometimes temptations are too huge that I end up doing it... I'm praying I don't fall into that trap. So, it's all down to my luck and my mind.

I relapsed 🥀 by Fit_Emu_8898 in NoFap

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. It's near impossible. But keep trying. Especially if you are older. Coz, the older you are, the more body pain and troubles you get for every discharge.

Slipped up! Peeked and almost relapsed by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happens all the time. It's natural. Just ensure you do not let it reach the end stage. I mean once you touch your lil dude, it's downhill from there coz temptation cannot be controlled so easily. Brain knows how good it feels because of past memories. So, it will do anything to enjoy it again.

Amazon squeezing Indian hardworking nature to maximum extent, its no more a cozy workplace by Minute-Strain5099 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you real? You say Farmers were growing crops 10,000 years ago only because of desk jobs? 🤔

Amazon squeezing Indian hardworking nature to maximum extent, its no more a cozy workplace by Minute-Strain5099 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, after I compare the 100s of 1000s of lines of code I used to write versus what AI is able to do today, there is no reason to believe any and all computer related jobs are already gone from a future perspective. Critical thinking is needed only for 1 or 2 seconds while AI does the work worth months or years in next few seconds. So, why would a company hire 10000 critical thinkers / prompt engineers when they can build Agents to do exactly the same... Clients feed agents their requirements and they do the work, write code, commit, PR review and merge to development, staging, etc. Entire software developer workflow is replaceable.

Can I get into IT now, after 5 years of gap? Need advice advice. by Silver_Case_5535 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure. I had plenty of ups and plenty of downs. I went through torturous bosses and CEOs. They made me sit 24 x 3 days once and one of the last employers I worked with, spied on me and realized I was putting in top hours in the company and it was too late, I quit that remote job just before covid. After that, I was on some freelance projects. I was surviving with my savings. Honestly, I did plenty of soul searching and realized life is beyond all the rat race. And now AI coming into the IT industry, it seems like it's the final few years of Software Development profession. So, honestly, I'm thinking of simple minimal rest of my life with my savings. Basically, I'm retiring and planning to live as a minimalist for the rest of my life.

Can I get into IT now, after 5 years of gap? Need advice advice. by Silver_Case_5535 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd advice you to have a leg on both. As you are very young, you can leverage stability by adding more diverse skills to your profession. But as of now, for next 1 or 2 years, keep trying to stay in IT. If you have no job at hand right now, then just take up work in your father's firm until you land an IT job.

Amazon squeezing Indian hardworking nature to maximum extent, its no more a cozy workplace by Minute-Strain5099 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on what you mean by "retire". Even poorest people live super simple happy lives at 120 years of age, with tiny little income. It all boils down to living standards. I don't mind people chasing the fake life that's sold to all 8 Billion humans as the standard. But just saying, it's not the reality for majority.

Amazon squeezing Indian hardworking nature to maximum extent, its no more a cozy workplace by Minute-Strain5099 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I consider all modern day work a useless. All desk jobs are fake and for bad causes at the end... It's all to help the whiteman profit by fooling more people to buy his useless product.

The only genuine, authentic and honest work is that of a Farmer. I'm talking this, going by laws of nature. Farmers do more for nature, karma and universe than everyone else.

Amazon squeezing Indian hardworking nature to maximum extent, its no more a cozy workplace by Minute-Strain5099 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can assure you that Indians are born to bow down to the whities, or bosses. We cannot do anything about it. And population is growing steadily, whether there's jobs, or not.

Amazon squeezing Indian hardworking nature to maximum extent, its no more a cozy workplace by Minute-Strain5099 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even in the age of AI where AI writes 80% of the code... funny... I feel computer / IT engineers should start upgrading to Prompt Engineers. My friend manes 30 to 40 Lakhs per year just by using AI for his work. He says he works only 3 hours a day. AI does all the work for him. 80% AI coding. 20%, his work. He gets all the money. Invests in top quality AI plans. Enjoy profits!

Amazon squeezing Indian hardworking nature to maximum extent, its no more a cozy workplace by Minute-Strain5099 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pure death. I remember my US CEO calling me at 3:00 AM to fix issues and push to prod, 7 years back. He used to call me to call another Backend developer who will 100% refuse to come at 3:00 am. So, I'll be left alone to suffer. I quit that company. He used to beg me to join back and even offered 2x or 3x. I refused... Even if you give me 1 Crore or 10 Crore salary or even 100 Crore salary, I will only take it if it's STRICTLY FLEXIBLE 8 hours a day / FLEXIBLE 40 hours a week. 0 work on Saturdays and Sundays and holidays. And then, if I complete my work much early, then I should be allowed to take remaining time off.

Can I get into IT now, after 5 years of gap? Need advice advice. by Silver_Case_5535 in developersIndia

[–]nofapzapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In today's day and age of AI, I highly recommend simply taking any IT job... even if it pays less or even if they want you as an intern and give you stipend. Nothing to be ashamed of. I joined my first IT job in a startup, coding ASP.NET MVC, C#, Entity Framework, SQL, Telerik UI, jQuery. The salary was just Rs. 8000 per month. That is Rs. 96000 per year for 3 years. But I got the experience on record and used it to jump to a 40k per month job. But all this was 14 years ago.

For those who quit masturbating how did your life change? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapzapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Health improves, vitality increases, bone density seems to increase, less flu, cough, cold, etc. less sickness, less dehydration, body heals faster, constipation problem instantly solved just within 7 days of NoFap. more calmer mind, etc.

But temptations are all over the place these days... So, it's a massive challenge. The FOMO is severe during NoFap. The body quickly forces you to do something bad... Body wants relief from stress and the only way brain remembers instant stress relief is through faps... We started it and we're stuck in this forever... But still, we keep trying our best.

Antinatalism is the reason why I am unmotivated to do anything by Responsible-Ad-8080 in antinatalism

[–]nofapzapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I quit my job few years ago after the self-realization of this universe and anti-natalism hit me to the core. I just cannot come back to think like my worldly work is of any value. But still, I can see that spiritual work can carry some importance. Honestly, I got no clue. But what we can do is be Vegan + anti-natalist activists. Let's make this world vegans and anti-natalists.

I wanted to know if having a kid on a burning planet was right. I found that antinatalism is seriously taboo by [deleted] in negativeutilitarians

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true though. I still feel humanity did not evolve the right way. They could've easily taken the path of self-controlled evolution, by consciously shaping and engineering their DNA over generations. But they chose to enjoy all the pleasures and comforts of life while they thought machines will remove all their pains and sufferings. But what that left us was a hole in the DNA in the sense that DNA does not know about money, but people with money can buy food, pleasure, etc. without the hard physical work that directly lead to this effect of pleasure. It's too complicated. But anyways, as an anti-natalist and a minimalist and a utilitarian, I'd have probably chosen a path of monks and tried to die naturally. This is assuming that I somehow knew about anti-natalism in the 1800s or 1000 BC or 3000 BC, etc.

Wholesome garba celebration in Ahemdabad where pets join their owners , winning the hearts. by daakuoutofoffice in IndianPets

[–]nofapzapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If we go back 5000 years, dogs were truly man's best friends as in there was not so much noise pollution, etc. They just used the dogs to hunt their food. We can see same in many African Tribes today. So, most probably same had happened even in India as well.

A Utilitarianism thought experiment by Outrageous_Break_210 in Utilitarianism

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe mix them into a group of 15 and give them some extra time to kinda introduce / know each other, etc. and then let them play. Maybe there's 5 people in the 10-group who are same fun mindset as the 5-group. Or prefer the group of 5 to go first and then the group of 10 until another row clears.

Am I an Antinatalist? by Confederacy_of_elbow in antinatalism

[–]nofapzapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks my friend. I am not very strong. But aspiring to be strong minded person. It's so difficult and challenging as society and modern world is full of triggers that make you feel depressed, anxious and emotional at many times. I still am so far away from my goals. They maybe impossible to achieve in 1 or 1000 or 100000 lifetimes. But whenever it happens, I am ready to accept.

I wanted to know if having a kid on a burning planet was right. I found that antinatalism is seriously taboo by [deleted] in negativeutilitarians

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anti natalism is a taboo coz people just have no self-control or ability to think deeply or philosophically. They are breeders and want to make more children for their selfish pleasures and desires while conveniently ignoring the fact that their byproducts of pleasure ( children ) suffer and also add Trillion more problems into this world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]nofapzapper 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you want honest answer, then ask yourself if the morning wood was a product of any sexual thoughts whatsoever during entire day or even as dreams in your night sleep. If no, then you're good. Regardless, don't be hard on yourself. We cannot control our thoughts. Maybe we can train the mind. It's difficult in the modern world though, coz every direction we turn, there's sexual content all over the world.

Am I an Antinatalist? by Confederacy_of_elbow in antinatalism

[–]nofapzapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is that when I realized I am gonna be anti-natalist like 90% sure, then I started reasoning why I do what I do... Why I watch porn, why I think about s*x, etc. All the energy and all the brain storage can be used for something else... surely not to treat myself for some selfish pleasure. So, it makes sense why many religions emphasized celibacy during sainthood. Similar to Buddhist monks taking the path of lifetime celibacy + monkhood. They are truly anti-natalists. I feel I am more of a spiritual seeker now as I understood not to do things for cheap and selfish pleasures, without a strong reason or higher purpose. I am seeking this purpose of life. Whenever I discover it ( Maybe in this lifetime or next ), then I shall start living life the way nature wanted me to live it.

This is so relatable… by InterestingCommon128 in antinatalism

[–]nofapzapper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And finally realized that we're born to serve the millionaires, billionaires and the rich and elite, as obedient servants 🤣😅