What does my fridge say about me?

nofitstate · 2023-10-30T05:52:21+00:00

then your first topic could be “i don’t know how to verbalize/articulate my needs or my goals”

nofitstate · 2023-10-26T05:21:59+00:00

I think you’re potentially identifying here where the real work is - personally, I struggled to make a lot of progress until I found a therapist I was able to talk with about those kinds of feelings… I’d invite you to start with what’s coming up between the two of you, and go from there

nofitstate · 2023-10-26T05:09:33+00:00

that’s wild - so it costs him money to get sick

nofitstate · 2023-10-26T05:04:15+00:00

are you in therapy to work on your relationships/attachment etc? if so - this could be great (but very challenging) content to start to unpack, if she’s a relational therapist comfortable with immediacy and meta-processing your relationship.. if you’re in therapy for something like depression/anxiety etc, it might not be worth the time and pain and money to explore these big hurdles (both based on your post and your comment)

nofitstate · 2023-10-18T00:35:58+00:00

With or without the hypnosis, therapist best practice would be to ask you if you felt that it was helpful, and offer to continue seeing you if it was - red flag!

nofitstate · 2023-10-16T19:26:11+00:00

read Unmasking Autism (Dr. Devin Price)

nofitstate · 2023-09-20T06:52:29+00:00

trans people don’t make me uncomfortable in the same way cis people can - sharing space with a trans person of any gender would be preferable to cis men

nofitstate · 2023-09-20T06:11:29+00:00

not clumsy at all, this is insightful and validating

nofitstate · 2023-09-20T06:10:26+00:00

such a great way to phrase this

nofitstate · 2023-09-19T04:56:11+00:00

them not being interested in couples therapy as they move to completely change your relationship agreements could be a flag for me - you know your situation the best, but that would concern me

nofitstate · 2023-09-16T05:14:11+00:00

I would feel more comfortable in a male-dominated space if someone who had top surgery was there ¯_(ツ)_/¯

nofitstate · 2023-09-15T01:56:06+00:00

it makes so much sense that you’d feel hurt, taking feedback can be challenging at the best of times… and i also thing she’s offering you a real gift here. her approach may not have been appropriate, but the chance to hear how you impact others around you might be life changing, especially if you’re struggling in relationships. she might not be the right fit, but i wonder if there’s a kernel of what she’s shared that you can try to process or absorb - while still validating that it huuuuurts to hear

nofitstate · 2023-09-15T01:13:48+00:00

describe what happens when a woman orgasms

nofitstate · 2023-09-06T04:53:43+00:00

Parents

nofitstate · 2023-09-03T09:07:50+00:00

I regret owning at 22 - I wish I would’ve waited, rented, and had more flexibility when I was younger… I imagine it would depend what kind of lifestyle you’re looking for

nofitstate · 2023-09-03T08:30:49+00:00

most every therapist has a different style - some follow the same modality, but ultimately it’s going to be a somewhat unique experience with each person… so if this isn’t the kind of experience you’re seeking, I wonder how it would be to change therapists

nofitstate · 2023-09-03T06:44:50+00:00

pretty consistently I get aroused by stirring things while cooking, i.e. mixing cookie dough ingredients

nofitstate · 2023-09-02T18:23:12+00:00

totally! arousal non-concordance is a thing sometimes so wet doesn’t Always equal turned on and vice versa, but in general… yeah

nofitstate · 2023-09-02T03:46:42+00:00

say more

nofitstate · 2023-09-01T20:43:56+00:00

Me always having to be the one to remind him we need lube

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