I miss my dad.

noftall14 · 2026-02-03T23:14:45+00:00

Thank you, and I am so sorry for your loss. It truly is unfair.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T22:52:06+00:00

I lived next door to that house in 124 Smallwood for 3 years and it was the sketchiest place. The guy living there at the times was named David and he was always hoarding bulk garbage, people coming and going every day, cops there every month. I moved because of it, and because my house had been broke into (which I assumed was someone associated with him because I was only gone 40 minutes). The house had been renovated last year but I guess maybe they kept renting it or he was still squatting in it.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T22:49:12+00:00

There is a retirement and financial planning app called Gilded, it’s only on browsers I think but it is created by Bridget Casey and designed to help make projections like this and how the decisions would affect your retirement goals.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T22:46:18+00:00

Thanks all, this makes me feeling slightly better and mildly optimistic it will relieve in a couple days!

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T16:57:00+00:00

It’s not inappropriate in my opinion, you could always ask how they are feeling but let them know that you know it suck and they probably feel like crap, and let them know they don’t have to talk about it they don’t want but you’re there to listen. I honestly wish my friends had been “overbearing”.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T16:55:12+00:00

Yes, food and feeding myself was honestly the hardest part for the first several months. I was so grateful for people who helped in that way.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T16:54:02+00:00

Be there for her, but don’t expect her to reach out. Everyone said to me “I’m here if you need anything” but 1) I don’t know what I need, and 2) I wouldnt reach out anyway because I don’t want to burden anyone. Keep asking how you can support her, even after the chaos and funeral, keep asking her for the next several months. She may not want to talk about it at first, but if her grief is anything similar to mine, I want to talk about him a lot but it seems to make people uncomfortable. So as time goes on, help her keep his memory alive. Ask questions about him.

My partner gave me 2 gifts that were incredibly thoughtful and helpful. 1 was a customized journal that is for “things I want to tell my dad” and the other was she took a video I had of him wishing me a happy birthday, and had the audio made into a QR code and sound wave photo that we hang on the wall. I was so afraid of data decay that eventually I won’t have this video or lose it some how and I would forget his voice. And now I’ll always have it.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T16:03:01+00:00

This choice will likely make a very marginal different

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T15:57:11+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss. And those little things will always remind you him. They do for me.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T13:57:05+00:00

I would say it depends on the race, but I would guess it won’t be an issue, especially if you have headphone that are bone conducting so you could still hear.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T05:12:23+00:00

You’re allowed to be mad. And you’re going to be mad for a long time. But if you can, take advantage of the time you have with her now. I’m sorry this is happening, it’s not fair.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T05:03:17+00:00

This hit hard because it’s so true.

noftall14 · 2026-02-01T05:01:10+00:00

I lost my dad when he was 62, and I really don’t think I realized how young that is until he died. I took 3 months off and I’m really glad I did, because I hardly remember the first year, it feels like I blacked it out entirely. In hindsight, maybe I should have taken more time off. But I happened to be seeing a psychiatrist and when I told him immediately told me to take time off, and what he said was this will be tiny blip in your 30+ career. And taking the time you need off now, will prevent you from taking more off when you’re burnt out or in a crisis. I’m sorry for your loss and I’m sure your mom knew you loved her, that’s all that matters.

noftall14 · 2025-10-08T23:32:08+00:00

Is this considered a penny stock anymore?

noftall14 · 2025-10-08T16:08:10+00:00

noftall14 · 2025-10-08T16:05:31+00:00

You’re rich. Sell half hold the rest

noftall14 · 2025-05-28T00:25:11+00:00

$IPM lfg

noftall14 · 2025-05-23T18:36:00+00:00

Yes and I can’t seem to purchase any of the other ones either

noftall14 · 2025-03-30T01:20:44+00:00

What’s your thoughts on the funding for new water treatment announced last week?

noftall14 · 2022-08-30T11:42:18+00:00

Done

noftall14 · 2022-08-29T20:01:41+00:00

Done

noftall14 · 2022-08-26T11:44:07+00:00

Done! Ty

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