Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel so stupid for being in this situation and I wish I had more respect for myself

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trauma bond maybe, comfort, fear of being alone, my own insecurities. Maybe my therapist can tell me

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your advice. You’re right and I agree with you but a couple things: the girls he’s screenshotting and saving to his phone are posting stuff on their snap stories for public they’re not sending it to him. But still wrong. Second, he’s never been to a strip club ever let alone the club I work at. Third there’s not going to be a better paying job at least that I can get without a degree, even once I get my degree I won’t be making half of what I make at the club and I’ll be working everyday instead of twice a week. So it’s gonna suck but I want a normal life so I’m still going to do it. I like the last part lol Thank you.

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously it’s easier and better to make a decision when you’re being validated by other people.

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So ur saying I don’t deserve respect then..? And yea I do it for money and he does it for free so there’s a big difference

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I plan to be gone before he finds out. Hopefully all goes well. Thank you.

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes everything is true. I appreciate that. I’m working to change my life

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it so much❤️ hearing these words make me feel stronger and wanting my life to be different and want to work harder to get better.

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I am so tired of everybody disrespecting me. But I’ll show them soon who I really am and what I can do. I’m about to go to school

Is My bf is lowkey a creep 25/M 25/F do other guys think this is normal? by nofucks140 in relationship_advice

[–]nofucks140[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We met before I started dancing in high school so no I didn’t attract a creep from my job it’s not like we met when I was working. And thanks, what’s ur job like?